Spring Sex Resolutions That Will Put the L in Lesbian Libido

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Spring is a great time to take your sex life to the next level. It can be easy to let your pleasure game slip with so many things vying for your attention from work to friends to family commitments. NYE resolutions have a way of vanishing by the time the weather changes. But, here are some spring sex resolutions that you’ll actually want to keep.

Make sex a top priority

You would think something so enjoyable would on the top of your to-do list. But even if it is, it still seems to be the thing that falls to the wayside for too many people. Too busy. Too tired. Too irritated with your partner or the drivers on the highway or your boss. Whatever the excuse, it’s time to sally forth.

Sex is important. It doesn’t just feel good. It’s the intimacy glue that binds couples together in a way that nothing else can. Sex is required for the health of your relationship. Not to mention your health in general. So, make it a priority.

You know what they say – use it or lose it.

Talk about it

We talk to our friends about almost everything – even bathroom habits get shared for God sake. And, yet, we rarely talk to our friends about sex. I don’t mean casual conversations that are filled with more implications than facts. I’m talking about, well, really talking. Your friends can be a great go-to for talking through the highs and lows.

Maybe you’re not so sure about trying something new. Or maybe your partner is suddenly acting strangely. Your friends may have already been down that road and can either offer you advice or point you in the direction of someone who can.

Out with the old, in with the new

The spring is a time of renewal, which means it’s a great time to finally do that “thing” that you’ve been talking about doing forever. Maybe it’s a new position. Maybe it’s a new location. Maybe it’s a new addition to who joins in the fun. Whatever it is, there’s no point in waiting any longer. The sooner you do it, the sooner you can either write it off as “did that once, never again” or add it to the list of “can’t wait for round two!”

Read all about it

You can never learn too much when it comes to sex. The best thing you can do for yourself and your partner is to educate yourself. Read anything and everything you can get your hands on –  from reliable sources, of course. You just might discover something new. And, if nothing else, it’s sure to inspire you to get down to business on the regular.

Do an annual “sex review”

People change. That means that their interests and desires change too. It can be easy to get in a rut. A sex check-in is a great thing to do every year. Talk to your partner. Ask how she’s feeling about the sex you’re having. Tell her to feel free to be honest and make sure you are, too. It’s ok to stay that you think things could be better. That’s what a sex check-in is all about.

Sex up your space

There is nothing less sexy than a dirty or cluttered room. It can be easy to stop seeing the things that are always right in front of you. How’s the lighting? What’s on the bed? What state are the sheets in? What’s on the floor? How about the walls? Is the room clean? Really clean? How does it smell? High thread-count sheets, a fantastic smelling candle, subtle lighting, and the like can really light a spark for you and your partner when it comes to all things sexy.

Accessorize

Sex toys are not the enemy. I repeat – sex toys are not the enemy. Adding a vibrator or dildo or harness or plug to your play does not mean there is anything in the world wrong with you. The truth is, real women love anything that enhances sex for their partner. A girl can get tired. A vibrator never does. And fingers are great, but sometimes you want a little more. So, there is no shame in calling in the reinforcements.

Trust me, she’ll reward you for it many times over.