Cannot remember what I have used to check in with in the past, been reading here for about 3 years.  Very happily married with four dogs, 2 cats and a disabled daughter who is biologically my wife's. Live in Nashville, Tennessee. Not from here, but have been an American citizen for a while. Did it for my father. I am still British in my cells even though I actually grew up in Kuwait mainly. Not sure what the point in labels at my age. never was given one, never chose one. Always been very lucky in that sexually I have just been me.  Wish my wife and I were more involved in the community, but with a disabled child there simply is not enough adult time. So I express myself on line:-) I am neo-pagan and have always been-that's just the newest label-) Hello everyone. Oh, professionally I am a therapist and tarot reader.