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How to Be a Gay Lady – Manners for the Modern Lesbian: Lesson Sixteen

Ruth Callander

on February 11, 2011 | Comments (59)

What to do when your gay lady friend falls in love — with a dude.

How to Be a Gay Lady – Manners for the Modern Lesbian: Lesson Fifteen

Ruth Callander

on January 21, 2011 | Comments (9)

She's super, except for those shoes-friends-musical tastes-extra pounds-awful jeans-values? This week: The Fixer-upper.

How to Be a Gay Lady — Manners for the Modern Lesbian: Lesson Fourteen

Ruth Callander

on January 7, 2011 | Comments (18)

Wherefore art thou, partner-love-of-my-loins-ladyfriend? I didn't give you permission to go anywhere without me. This month: How to have a delightful long distance relationship.

How to Be a Gay Lady — Manners for the Modern Lesbian: Lesson Thirteen

Ruth Callander

on December 10, 2010 | Comments (12)

Some simple pointers to get you through the holidays with your romantic and familial relationships intact.

How to Be a Gay Lady — Manners for the Modern Lesbian: Lesson Twelve

Ruth Callander

on November 19, 2010 | Comments (18)

Dude, she has actual horns! How to politely let your friend know that her new girlfriend is evil.

How to Be a Gay Lady — Manners for the Modern Lesbian: Lesson Eleven

Ruth Callander

on November 5, 2010 | Comments (29)

Everything you need to know about how to navigate the tempestuous waters of online communities.

How to Be a Gay Lady — Manners for the Modern Lesbian: Lesson Ten

Ruth Callander

on October 15, 2010 | Comments (31)

Have you fallen in love with your straight best friend? Of course you have. Here's what to do.

How to Be a Gay Lady — Manners for the Modern Lesbian: Lesson Nine

Ruth Callander

on October 1, 2010 | Comments (28)

A comprehensive guide to gay lady etiquette in the workplace.

How to Be a Gay Lady — Manners for the Modern Lesbian: Lesson Eight

Karman Kregloe, Editor

on September 17, 2010 | Comments (35)

Gay lady friendships: Negotiating the pitfalls. Hang onto your ever-present hats my lovelies, it’s going to be a messy and complicated ride.

How to Be a Gay Lady — Manners for the Modern Lesbian: Lesson Seven

Heather Hogan, Senior Editor

on August 27, 2010 | Comments (43)

A proper gay lady knows that sharing is caring. Thanks to modern conveniences like Facebook, over-sharing is now as easy as twirling a parasol.