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What's YOUR Problem? Episode 13

In this episdoe, actress and therapist Cathy DeBuono spends some time hanging out with comedian Erin Foley. Despite having just survived a night of "chow fun's revenge," Erin manages to join Cathy for some reminiscing about how they met playing ultimate frisbee, and discussion of three AfterEllen.com viewer letters. Fruits and vegetables come into play when Erin and Cathy examine the large size of their hands.

Lucia asks Cathy questions about learning how to ride while she's washing the "Dinah dirt" off of her bike, Cathy's neighbor Daniel shows up right on time with cocktails, and Erin takes her first motorcycle ride ever on the back of Cathy's Triumph...

What's Your Problem? Episode 13 "Chow Not So Fun"

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For information about Erin's upcoming shows and to see video of her stand up go to www.erinkfoley.com

If you have questions/issues you want Cathy to address, you can leave it in the comments, or private message Cathy (just make sure to let her know in the message whether she can mention your username on air or not).

 

What's YOUR Problem? Episode 12

Actress and therapist Cathy DeBuono takes a walk to the park with 19-year-old Andrea, who she affectionately calls "the little one." As they respond to AfterEllen.com viewer letters, they talk about the fear of failure, aiming for perfection, and how MOCA is selling "straight pills."

Andrea talks about her first gay role model, why she isn't dating right now, and the book she wants to write called Everything is Stupid. Oh yes, Comet and Lucia join them too...  but guess which one is on a leash...

What's Your Problem? Episode 12 "Don't Call Me Ma'am"

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If you have questions/issues you want Cathy to address, you can leave it in the comments, or private message Cathy (just make sure to let her know in the message whether she can mention your username on air or not).

 

What's YOUR Problem? Episode 11

After a series of technical difficulties, scheduling conflicts and computer freezes, the latest episode of actress and therapist Cathy DeBuono's vlog is finally ready! This week, she responds to four AfterEllen.com viewer letters, with input from two young women.

The episode also includes a couple of new musical performances by Janet Robin (from Episode 2), and a short appearance by Jill Bennett, just because the camera was there...

What's Your Problem? Episode 11 "The Vlog With No Guest & No Name"

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For more information on Janet Robin and her tour dates, please visit www.janetrobin.com or MySpace.com/janetrobinmusic.

 

What's YOUR Problem? Episode 10

Actress and therapist Cathy DeBuono sits with filmmaker Jane Clark and actress Traci Dinwiddie. Cathy was an associate producer on a film called The Touch written and directed by Jane and starring Traci, about a lesbian poet in the early 19th century by the name of Renee Vivien and her love affair with the wife of a Turkish diplomat.

The three women talk about how they all came to work together on this film, the casting process, Traci's audition in particular and how Renee's battle with alcoholism and anorexia brought them all to the vlog today.

They take on AfterEllen.com viewer issues of self destructive behavior such as drug use, cutting, and eating disorders. A little more somber than other episodes of What's YOUR Problem?, this episode offers us a glimpse into the personal lives of Jane and Traci, and Cathy raises questions and offers direction for the writer's of these letters to explore....

What's Your Problem? Episode 10 "Like This Would I Speak"

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For more information on "The Touch" visit www.myspace.com/reneeviv

If you have questions/issues you want Cathy to address, you can leave it in the comments, or private message Cathy (just make sure to let her know in the message whether she can mention your username on air or not).

 

What's YOUR Problem? Episode 9

Actress and therapist Cathy DeBuono and actress Marnie Alton talk about how they met auditioning for Exes & Oh's, what it was like for Marnie to have her first girl kiss, and how she learned about homosexuality while growing up.

The two women also take on AfterEllen.com viewer letters dealing with issues of that straight girl friend who is either homophobic, or wants to cross that line....

What's Your Problem? Episode 9 "What Happened to Gloria!?!"

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They also chat about their first paid gigs, childhood crushes and the battle of Canadians vs. Americans.... it's hard to tell who won.

If you have questions/issues you want Cathy to address, you can leave it in the comments, or private message Cathy (just make sure to let her know in the message whether she can mention your username on air or not).

 

What's YOUR Problem? Episode 8

Cathy DeBuono and musician Jennifer Corday manage to discuss what it's like to deal with the loss of a loved one while fitting in a couple of musical performances and some chat about porn and tracking sexual encounters with m&m's. 

And oh yeah — Cathy has something to say to all you folks out there who want to know if you should "come out"...

What's Your Problem? Episode 8 "Grievin', Groovin' and a Jar of M&M's"

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For more information on Jennifer Corday visit www.corday.net or find her on myspace at www.myspace.com/jennifercorday.

If you have questions/issues you want Cathy to address, you can leave it in the comments, or private message Cathy (just make sure to let her know in the message whether she can mention your username on air or not).

 

What's YOUR Problem? Episode 7

Actress and therapist Cathy DeBuono hangs out with actress Calpernia Addams, whose new show Transamerican Love Story is currently airing on Logo (AfterEllen.com's parent company). They talk about how to identify what it is that attracts us to the wrong people, and Calpernia offers her personal experience and advice to a transgender FTM (female-to-male) AfterEllen.com viewer.

Cathy and her friend/camera operator Lucia also tackle the moths that have taken up residence in Cathy's apartment (Jodie Foster not included).

What's Your Problem? Episode 7 "Butterflies & Showgirls"

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For more information about Calpernia Addams, visit www.calpernia.com.

If you have questions/issues you want Cathy to address, you can leave them in the comments, or private message Cathy (just make sure to let her know in the message whether she can mention your username on air or not).

 

What's YOUR Problem? Episode 6

In Episode 6, Cathy DeBuono talks about dealing with a homophobic mother while Maeve Quinlan talks about playing one on TV.

And while the two actresses take up three letters from viewers, Maeve keeps Cathy off balance with a game of word association.

What's Your Problem? Episode 6
"K.I.S.S."


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For more information on Maeve Quinlan and her new web series, go to www.myspace.com/maevequinlan and www.3Waytv.tv.

If you have questions/issues you want Cathy to address, you can leave them in the comments, or private message Cathy (just make sure to let her know in the message whether she can mention your username on camera or not).

 

What's YOUR Problem? Episode 5

Bridget McManus joins actress and therapist Cathy DeBuono to answer questions from readers about age differences, emotional maturity, and how to figure out if you're gay.

In between discussing serious matters, Bridget bangs a drum (literally), there's a lot of flirting, and Cathy tries to force her to eat a chicken sandwich.

What's Your Problem? Episode 5
"This Vlog Brought To You By The Letter C"


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What's YOUR Problem? Episode 4

Actress and therapist Cathy DeBuono lightens things up in her fourth episode with comedian Suzanne Westenhoefer.

Cathy and Suzanne deconstruct a love triangle, offer advice on finding your mojo and take a random tangential trip through several other topics for no apparent reason at all.

What's Your Problem? Episode 4
"Having Your Cake and Eating Hers Too"


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If you have questions/issues you want Cathy to address, you can leave them in the comments, or private message Cathy.

Suzanne's show, "Suzanne Westenhoefer: A Bottom on Top" is currently airing on Logo and is also available on DVD.  For more information go to www.suzannew.com.

Closing song "Days of Summmer" performed by Janet Robin.

 

What's YOUR Problem? Episode 3

In her third episode, entitled "Embracing the Weirdness," actress and therapist Cathy DeBuono (who has a master's degree in clinical psychology) responds to your questions from last week and welcomes a guest, actress Thea Gill (Queer as Folk, Dante's Cove).

In addition to chatting about Golden Compass animals, Cathy's seasonal affective symptoms and Thea's long journey to labeling her own sexuality, the two actors discuss freeing yourself from your own oppression, how to decipher if you are gay, straight or bisexual, and just who came on to whom on the couch.

What's Your Problem? Episode 3 "Embracing the Weirdness"

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The closing song, "Hope and Faith," is performed by last week's guest, Janet Robin.

As always, leave your questions for Cathy in the comments, or private message her (but if you PM her, please be sure to let her know whether it's OK to mention your AfterEllen.com username on the vlog if she responds to your question).

 

"What's Your Problem?" Episode 2: "Sex, Meds and Rock 'n' Roll"

In her second episode, Cathy DeBuono — an actress and therapist with a master's degree in clinical psychology — responds to your questions from last week with guest musician Janet Robin.

Cathy and Janet process issues of sex in long-term relationships, psychiatric med-induced bed death, how to meet women at the complimentary candy section of the grocery store and ... oh, yeah ... Janet rocks out.

What's Your Problem? Episode 2
"Sex, Meds and Rock 'n' Roll"


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If you have questions/issues you want Cathy to address in a future episode, you can leave them in the comments or send a private message to Cathy.

You can catch Janet Robin this weekend, Saturday, Jan. 26, at the Hotel Cafe in Hollywood at 8 p.m.  Tickets are $10 at the door. For more information, go to www.janetrobin.com and www.myspace.com/janetrobinmusic.  CDs are available at www.cdbaby.com.

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What's YOUR Problem? Episode 1

Welcome to Cathy DeBuono's new video blog, What's YOUR Problem? While Cathy is an actor, she also holds a Master's Degree in Clinical Psychology and has several years of experience as a therapist. She's here to talk about your problems, fears and darkest demons — you can leave your questions or concerns in the comments, or send Cathy a private message.

In her first episode, "Three Lesbians, One Camera and a Bottle of Champagne," Cathy mixes it up with filmmaker JD Disalvatore (Eating Out 2, Shelter, Gay Propaganda) and radio talk show cohost and producer Doria Biddle (The Frank DeCaro Show on Sirius Satellite OUT-Q 109).

The women cover a variety of topics, including how the idea for this vlog was born, being in therapy, public displays of fighting, first dates, who stole whose Advocate gift bag, and how Lucia's been making side bets on Cathy's relationships (who's Lucia? Well, watch and see).

What's Your Problem? Episode 1
"Three Lesbians, One Camera and a Bottle of Champagne"


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Listen to Doria Biddle every weekday morning on The Frank DeCaro Show on Sirius Satellite Radio OUT-Q 109, 8:00–11:00 a.m. PT. Doria can be found at www.doriabiddle.com and www.myspace.com/doriabiddle.

JD's most recent feature, Shelter, will be released theatrically nationwide on March 8. You can find JD at www.myspace.com/wittyngay and read her blog with all the latest LGBT news and dish at www.thesmokingcocktail.com.

 

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