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The Hook Up

The Hook Up: 11-9-2011
The Hook Up: 11-9-2011
by
Anna Pulley
, Nov 9, 2011

A 30-year-old wants to reclaim her mojo and how to handle a friend whose girlfriend is just not right for her — without ruining your friendship.

The Hook Up: 11-2-2011
The Hook Up: 11-2-2011
by
Anna Pulley
, Nov 2, 2011
How to deal with strict parents and girlfriends who can't agree on using toys.
The Hook Up: 10-26-2011
The Hook Up: 10-26-2011
by
Anna Pulley
, Oct 26, 2011
Dealing with someone who won't take a hint and reasons you should love being single.
The Hook Up: 10-19-2011
The Hook Up: 10-19-2011
by
Anna Pulley
, Oct 19, 2011
Dealing with the aftermath of a summer fling and what to do if your love interest won’t commit to the “relationship” label.
The Hook Up: 10-12-2011
The Hook Up: 10-12-2011
by
Anna Pulley
, Oct 12, 2011
A reader is sick of being single. Also, Anna answers how to navigate issues that deal with prescription drugs.
The Hook Up: 9-28-2011
The Hook Up: 9-28-2011
by
Anna Pulley
, Sep 28, 2011

Anna gives advice on not apologizing for things out of your control. Also, a baby dyke wonders if she's overeager for her first girlfriend.

The Hook Up: 9-14-2011
The Hook Up: 9-14-2011
by
Anna Pulley
, Sep 14, 2011
When your friends don't seem to want to hear about your gay life and how to pursue a friendship with someone you've already hooked up with.
The Hook Up: 8-31-2011
The Hook Up: 8-31-2011
by
Anna Pulley
, Aug 31, 2011
Should you tell your girlfriend about your crush on a friend? Also, what to say to a friend who says she supports you, but won't go to any gay events.
The Hook Up: 8-18-2011
The Hook Up: 8-18-2011
by
Anna Pulley
, Aug 18, 2011
How to deal with jealousy in a polyamorous relationship and the best way to talk about a drunken come-on the day after.
The Hook Up: 8-3-2011
The Hook Up: 8-3-2011
by
Anna Pulley
, Aug 3, 2011
Is it unfair to maintain an online dating profile if you're not interested in dating? Also, can you ever just have casual sex?
The Hook Up: 7-20-2011
The Hook Up: 7-20-2011
by
Trish Bendix
, Jul 20, 2011
How to know you're over your ex. Also, how to successfully live with your parents and pick up girls.
The Hook Up: 7-6-2011
The Hook Up: 7-6-2011
by
Anna Pulley
, Jul 6, 2011
How to handle your crush who only wants you when she's drunk. Also, what to do when you can't find a label that suits you.
The Hook Up: 6-22-2011
The Hook Up: 6-22-2011
by
Anna Pulley
, Jun 22, 2011
What it means if you don’t want to marry your girlfriend and how to work side by side with the ex who dumped you via text.
The Hook Up: 6-8-2011
The Hook Up: 6-8-2011
by
Anna Pulley
, Jun 8, 2011
How to blow off someone you're not interested in without being an jerk. Also, the best way to let women know you're gay and available.
The Hook Up: 5-25-2011
The Hook Up: 5-25-2011
by
Anna Pulley
, May 25, 2011
Does Anna take her own advice? Also, is this relationship really over?
The Hook Up: 5-11-2011
The Hook Up: 5-11-2011
by
Anna Pulley
, May 11, 2011
Can you be in love if you're polyamorous? And why do I have a habit of falling for straight women?
The Hook Up: 4-27-2011
The Hook Up: 4-27-2011
by
Anna Pulley
, Apr 27, 2011
Anna gives advice on beards and putting yourself out there, even when you don't know how the other person feels.
The Hook Up: 4-13-2011
The Hook Up: 4-13-2011
by
Anna Pulley
, Apr 13, 2011
A married woman is crushing on her yoga instructor and another is only attracted to older women. Are these problems?
The Hook Up: 3-30-2011
The Hook Up: 3-30-2011
by
Anna Pulley
, Mar 30, 2011
When to make a move on a work crush and what to do when you're feeling itchy in a long distance relationship.
The Hook Up: 3-16-2011
The Hook Up: 3-16-2011
by
Anna Pulley
, Mar 16, 2011
A dictionary for all things lesbian-related.
The Hook Up: 3-2-2011
The Hook Up: 3-2-2011
by
Anna Pulley
, Mar 2, 2011
When a lesbro says something offensive, and how to know if it's time to move on when the romance is gone.
The Hook Up: 2-16-2011
The Hook Up: 2-16-2011
by
Anna Pulley
, Feb 16, 2011
How to know if you're ready for a third party, gauging an OkCupid back-and-forth and if you should wait for your best friend to break it off with her girlfriend.
The Hook Up: 2-2-2011
The Hook Up: 2-2-2011
by
Anna Pulley
, Feb 2, 2011
How to deal with parents who want you to procreate and how to deal with lesbian friends when you are now dating a man.
The Hook Up: 1-5-2011
The Hook Up: 1-5-2011
by
Anna Pulley
, Jan 5, 2011
How to help a girlfriend who has a gas problem and what to do when your partner treats you like her child.
The Hook Up: 12-15-2010
The Hook Up: 12-15-2010
by
Anna Pulley
, Dec 15, 2010
Questions from Aussie readers about how to keep flirting under control when you have a partner, and how to enter into a trusting relationship when you've been abused.
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