Lindsay Lohan Confirms Romantic Relationship with Samantha Ronson
After months of refusing to comment on the public speculation about their relationship, actress Lindsay Lohan and DJ Samantha Ronson finally publicly confirmed their relationship in a L.A. radio call-in show last night, in a short, casual exchange confirming that they've been together "a very long time." Lohan and Ronson called into the radio show Loveline last night to chat with DJ Ted Stryker about DJ AM's recent survival of a plane crash that killed four other passengers. Lohan mentioned on air that she initially learned of the plane crash, " "when I woke up, er, when Samantha and I woke up..." In wrapping up the conversation a few minutes later, Stryker casually asked Lindsay, "Now, you guys, you and Samantha have been going out for how long now? Like two years? One year? Five months? Two months?" Lohan responded, "A long...a very long time." "I hope you guys stay together, you're a very lovely looking couple," Stryker added, to which Lindsay replied, "Thank you very much." Lohan and Ronson are among only a handful of high-profile American celebrities in same-sex relationships, including women like Ellen DeGeneres, Portia de Rossi, Cynthia Nixon, Sarah Paulson, Cherry Jones, Suze Orman, Heather Matarazzo, Leisha Hailey, and Michelle Paradise. At 22 and 31, respectively, Lohan and Ronson are among the youngest out lesbian celebrity couples in America. In a editorial on AfterEllen.com last week called "Lindsay Lohan and the New Definition of 'Out'", we profiled Lohan and Ronson as an example of a new wave of same-sex couples who are re-defining the notion of what being "out" means. Lohan and Ronson have accompanied each other almost everywhere for over two years now, attend public events together, wear matching rings, kiss in public, and have had their relationship captured in countless photographs. They have even spoken out together against Gov. Sarah Palin's anti-gay stance. They have done everything but verbally confirm their relationship — until now. Lohan and Ronson at TV Guide's Sixth Annual Emmys After Party But does acknowledging the relationship with words still matter in an era in which the grocery-shopping, event-attending, ring-wearing and hand-holding behavior of same-sex couples is now reported on almost as often as heterosexual couples? While saying it out loud is arguably no longer a requirement to being out, words still have power — especially to the vast majority of straight Americans for whom the presumption of heterosexuality is so great they simply won't believe a same-same relationship is true unless it is openly declared. This is one of the reasons Ellen de Generes and Portia de Rossi's "Wal-Mart wedding" makes such a difference — it makes the romantic nature of their relationship both appealing and unavoidable to mainstream America. Lohan's simple and low-key verbal confirmation of what most lesbian and bi women already knew may well do the same for a younger generation. 9/24 MORNING UPDATE: Lohan refuted her father's recent anti-gay and anti-Samantha comments via an email from her rep to Page Six saying, "Samantha is not evil, I care for her very much and she's a wonderful girl. She loves me, as I do her." 9/24 EVENING UPDATE: Lohan's publicist is now denying that Lohan confirmed a romantic relationship with Ronson, telling TV Guide that Lindsay was simply confirming they have a close friendship. This spin on the radio conversation is not supported by Lohan's statements, however (no one confirms how long they have "been together" with a friend). In related news, pop star Clay Aiken has just come out on the cover of People magazine. Listen to the Loveline radio interview and read |
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some might call it progress
I call it normalization. Even if everybody knew about it, it's still good news and additional visibility to have a normal celesbian couple come out, in such an undertoned, uneventful manner.
Even with the new definition of 'out', some still need to hear it out loud. Or softly spoken on a radio show. It all comes down to hearing it. They're softly out. And loud in visibility.
You go girls !
Yay! Lindsay's confirmation!
I think its fantastic
I think its fantastic and they look gorgeous together. Lindsay is very beautiful. Some of things her hideous father is blogging about them is shameful.
Her father is just mad
Personally, as much as I
I hope
I just hope it won't ruin her career. Did she do any major movie ever since the rumours about her being gay started?
Somehow I doubt that Hollywood is very progressive concerning the matter.
And with a President Palin it definetely won't be in the future..
It's quite "brave" of Lindsay to come out none the less. And I really like that she treats the subject as if it is something totally normally and needs no specific statement.
After all, straight people are not being asked: So, you are straight, then?
ruining her career...
Because her career had been going so well up until the gay rumours started this year. You know, the whole underage-Disney-star-on-crack-and-falling-out-of-cars-without-her-knickers-on-and-nearly-being-sacked-from-"Herbie"-before-entering-rehab scene had really been paying off for her up until then. Yep. Being gay could just ruin that.
Not Only But Also
well,
apparently, you can be a bad girl in the business as long as you are a straight girl.. cause bad behaviour causes good media coverage..
that's cause it's all so nice and hypocritical
i find it wonderful!!!!
The world would be a better place if we just accept people for who they are. These two ladies are in love and it is great!
I hope the word"out" and others will disappear in the future.
Diane
Yes, definately though we
Yes, definately though we all thought we knew, and it's no one's business but their own, fair play to them.
:)
It's nice
The New Old?
The 'new' definition of being 'out'. What utter tripe.
Now that my morning bile is out of the way, I actually find this whole Lohan/Ronson thing sort of cute. Which makes me question myself. Soon I'll be obsessing over Perez Hilton or something...
[brb, going to read some good wholesome non-celebritarian books.]
Seeing as
we live in a society where rumors about Lohan trying to romance Michael Phelps are launched in the media the very day she leaves a comment reading 'guess who loves you' on 'galpal' Ronson's my space site ... I guess we still need verbal affirmation for people to wrap their heads around even the possibility of two women being in a romantic relationship. Or maybe it's just women who look like Lohan?
On the other hand some German tabloit included Lohan and Ronson in their 'celebrity relationship check' months ago. And what do you know - Ronson was one of only two celebrity partners deemed a 'prince charming' rather than a 'frog'.
oui. well put.
Sam and Lindsay..
I told
I told my ‘straight’ girl-friend the other day that Lindsay Lohan was dating a girl and her response to that comment was, “you wish luv”, hehe.
Oh how little she knows.Perhaps...
Perhaps the simple confirmation of how long they have been together was in part because of Lindsay's comments the other day regarding the tragic events that led to the hospitalization of her and Samantha's good friend Adam "DJ AM" in which Lindsay via her MySpace blog said that "we must all treasure each and every moment- and be thankful for what we have..." Perhaps it was this wake up call that has made her more open, whereby she still believes that it's no one's business and that she's happy, but while she won't make official proclamations she won't bother denying the relationship when asked point blank.
It still goes to show that we are in a new era of "out"... where no one has to actually ever utter the words I'm Gay in order to formally be considered out in Hollywood. Now it's just a case of live your life happily and openly and not care about what is written or said about you and thus you are living your life "out". And perhaps that is the best way to show the rest of the world that the LGBT community is just like everyone else, simply wanting to live our lives and be afforded the same rights as everyone else... after all as Sarah pointed out in her article Visibility Matters: Lindsay Lohan and the New Definition of "Out" "Straight celebrities don't announce their heterosexuality, we just make assumptions from their behavior."
We'll have to see how this story plays out via the rest of the media as well as what Lindsay and/or Samantha do or say (or perhaps don't do or say) next.
(Self Appointed) "#1 Bridget McManus Fan"
out
i don't buy this "new" out b.s. it's not hard to say that you don't want to label yourself, but still admit that you're in a relationship with someone. in fact, this is how many people do it, especially those who are new to being gay, don't like labels, dont know what exactly they are, or just like to remain open,
My thoughts exactly.
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Wasn't DJ Stryker the dj for the Ellen Degeneres show last season? And I seem to remember reading that Ms. Ronson dj'ed at Ellen's 50 b-day party - along with a bunch of others. Small world out there in Hollywood lesboland ...
At any rate, it is clear from the clip that Ronson and Lohan were talking to someone they know well and are comfortable with as opposed to selling the "story" to some magazine. And I like that the interview had next to nothing to do with their relationship but was mostly about the friends who had gotten hurt.
Lindsay, Lindsay - for once listen to your mother - fly commercial! Small planes and musicians don't mix!
Good point
Good on them
Cool
I'm glad that disbelieving straight people can't deny it anymore, even in the face of blatant couple-y behaviour... and as much as it's brilliant that they don't/shouldn't have (or want) to do any kind of formal announcement, this subtle confirmation will mean a lot to many people.
Despite my better judgement, I'm actually quite taken with the whole 'transformation of Lindsay' story and her emergence as a surprise lesbian favourite. Particularly as her new stability seems to be due in some part to Ronson's influence. Good luck to 'em!
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(nothing to do with the actress)
Yay! It's fitting and
Really great
Yes, it does
Yes, it does.
At least, it does to me. And it will continue to matter, until there is more than a handfull of out celebrities.
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-Everyone is entitled to be stupid, but some abuse the privilege.
I blog, therefore, I am
One thing - Lindsay always
Good for her! Wasn't much
So I've got to say....
Samantha's 31.
I realise the age difference
I'm really proud of
I'm really proud of Lindsay, Her and Samantha are just adorable together. I really wish them all the luck in the world, and I hope they stay together. <3
~ Bianca
Welcome to the team, Lindsay.
Here are your cargo shorts, rainbow toolbelt, and the keys to your very own U-Haul. An invitation to a potluck will be forthcoming. Sam, the toaster oven is in the mail.
We're glad to have you on board. I hope the two of you have years of happiness together.
"Brains grow love."--H. H. the Dalai Lama
Hilarious
That made me laugh. Nice one.
Yay for Lindsay and Samantha!!
wonderful!
I have to say
Finally...
I’m pleased Lindsay finally confirmed all the rumors. Now there is no reason for me to doubt her. And to answer the fabulous Ms. Warn’s question, yes word confirmation does still mean something to a few of us. In a world filled with such unreliable media, I prefer to get my information from the source. Heck, I’m still on the fence about Jorja Fox. I have my guesses, but until she confirms them, they are just that. In my short 25 years of existence, I've found that assumptions only make an ass out of you and me. But I’ll be damned if we aren’t all guilty! Except, I'd like to think that most of use don't print ours in a magazine!
"I hate people, they hate me. So doesn't that classify as a healthy, functioning relationship?"
I honestly don't think it
I honestly don't think it matters if you confirm it or not and I think that's why it kind of just ... I think Lindsay was just waiting for someone to ask her directly and she felt honest and truthful about.
Plus, she said that "Sam and I woke up..." which kind of gave it away too :D
I think Lindsay's just at a point in her relationship with Sam that she just doesn't care if people find out. She's in love, she's really really happy and it shows. It's been on her face for months now, she's glowing, she's happy and in love.
Also thanks to the interviewer for not using the words "gal pal". I much prefer the fun term "lady friend" :D somehow that's less annoying than "gal pal".
"gal pal"
how much do I love "gal pal" - if I see that in a tabloid ever again I will stab someone in the jaw. I actually heard someone refer to Portia as Ellens "gal pal"!!! wtf. screw it... I'm gonna introduce my girlfriend as my "fuckmate".
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got Cloverfield? 1-18-08-underground.com does..."gal pal"
Werd up, friend.
There's condescending and then there's just effing ridonkulous. I think I can safely say "gal pal" falls under the latter.
"fuckmate"
In related news
You and me both, Amy M :)
a very tasteful delivery, li-lo.
hats off to my favorite ceLESbrity couple.
:)
i'm overjoyed
That's awesome!
I loved her before she was gay, and before she was a drug addict, alcoholic, crazy person, but this is the icing on the cake!
Aww :)
I am glad they finally officially came out to the public ^__^
I loved the nonchalant way as well.
Glad to see Lindsey back on track :D
Did you know that she is a
Did you know that she is a lesbian? I had no idea, but as far as I can see I am the last one who finds out. Anyway, I can't say that I am happy for them, but I hope to have a good life together.
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:)
I think its great that we see more celesbians in the media :)
visibility matters!!! AND it doenst hurt that they are a hot couple ;)