you'll get more used to your reactions

time will pass

and so on

but it is normal

;-)

Public speaking, very tight, confining areas, spiders, heights and the occasional boogey man in the dark make me very nervous, but girls?  Not even close.  Except back in high school when I worried the girls I was attracted to could tell my feelings no matter how much I tried to hide it. 

You sound "normal" to me. :) I think a sense of humor helps a lot.  It can also help break the ice when you want to go past your nervousness and say hello.  However, if she starts to look like she has numerous limbs and very large, black eyes.....there maybe a reason you're uncomfortable.  Just teasing.

yep, i totally get it. just a complete apathy in regards to the opposite sex. it's not the stereotypical lesbian HATE against men, i can just kind of take 'em or leave 'em. don't ever really look twice. girls on the other hand....i don't think it's a nervousness so much as the hyper-awareness. totally.

i know what you mean,i feel really indifferent when a guy is around unless he's friendly. i get excited around girls, i like making them smile even if its for something stupid just to break the ice. the worst part is if i really really like a girl i tend to get clumpsy and do really silly things to hide my nerves.

Oooo that happens to me a lot... a get very nervous around girls... especially if I'm interested... then I tend to do the dumbest things around them ... I also become super shy and barely say anything when I first meet them

hey

dont worry about it its compilty normal , I don't get nevous around girls though unless its someone I like but then its just more of that "What will she think of me if I say/do that" kinda thing , but it does happen in a lot of cases and centrenly does Not need any treatment so dunt worry about it (:

I'm cool around guys and gals... Until that very attractive woman comes my way. Then I just totally dork out! I have said the stupidest things, really, in those situations.

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"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." (Dr. Seuss)

it happens to me all the time. problem with me is, i can't tell if they are interested.

i'll sneak a peek but then pretend not to look. i'll look whenever they're not looking.

oh did i mention i can't even walk near them? LOL so whose worst?

there's a lot of cute girls in nyc but i assume they are all straight and not bother with it.

yea i'm stupid. what can i say i'm a big geek.

I am the worst case scenario.

Listen more,I use to go to the gym with 80% girls and I changed it and now I go to the gym with 100% males.So hard for me to be with girls all around.I use to work with management team ,70% girls there and now I am in technical field with 2% girls.

I do not want to sit in train where there are girls,so I bought a car and I drive alone till work.The more I try to act normal the more I behave stupidly.

The thing is that I love the way the talk,laugh,smell and many many other things.Here in Sweden the girls are killers.I have been(lived and worked for IT company) to many place around the world like India,USA,UK,Germany but my God Swedish girls no comparison.

I dare not to look at anyone as my eyes are very talkative,so I keep my eyes under cover ...glasses....ahhhhh

Not only I am very shy but a coward little ass.

like lespaul13 said, i think its more a hyper-awareness when amongst women, its not as easy to get rid of during the intial stages of your acceptance if like me you came out late, and it could also possibly make u more vulnerable amongst women than u realize.

I wuz never aware of how many women i attracted until last year and the main reason they are attracted is because I exude an air of confidence ( which i had to learn to maintain not just amongst my boys and close female friends, but more importantly among women who I was attracted to!)

its only normal to be nervous, but don't let it take over, push it to the side without being sumone ur not :-)

guys are just easier to hang out with.. none of that attraction stuff..

maybe we just assume girls are gonna be bitchy.. i mean from my school years i definetly grew scared of girls. they were cruel. the guys were easy.. played fotball with em.. hung out...

i dunno... just a personal theory...

women jsut makes me nervous... i always get scared of my gfs... kinda crapy.

hah i totally get nervous too and start acting stupid. then i geet this goofy grin on my face and it's like i go back to second grade. it's kinda sad.. really. HOPEFULLy we'll get over it. hha =)

 ya and with the guys i'm like "one of the guys" and it's totally chill. guys can be cute and stuff but it's TOTALLY DIFFERENT WITH GIRLS.

it's ridiculous, i can't even look at a girl without any bad intention in my head..lol..

and then my nose would start to sweat, when i talk to them.. =( my co-workers thinks it's really cute, but it just makes me feel a little immature.. it's SO NOT CUTE ..lol 

the funny thing is i work in retail and maaan, it's not easy, especially, if she's like super hot and asking me if the clothes looks good on her.. mmm yummy..[*my thoughts: YOU LOOK GOOD EVEN WITHOUT THOSE CLOTHES ON.. LOL] lol. but ofcourse i can't say those .lol 

ha! and most of them are straight lol..

however, im really trying hard not to be shy and hit on them, even if they are gay or not ..lol.. i think "some" girl take it as a compliment if another girls were to hit on them and i figure if i don't put myself out there how will they know, right?.. and most of the time, it's really hard to spot a lesbian in steletos and with long hair, unless, if you put yourself out there. .

Most girls are straight... 'til they're not. - -Alice Pieszecki [L WORD QOUTE]

that is exactly what i ask myself aswell... how can i have a girlfriend if i get so nervous around them... and its not jsut nervous.. its.. extremely nervous and shy...

i've been terrified of all my gfs.. seriously... it is kinda embarasing really.

Butterflies (the size of small airlanes), light-headed-ness, sweating, brain...can't.....think...straight (duh, of course not straight - lol) - perfectly normal!

On some random TV show, someone was giving advise about being nervous: "Just imagine them naked" (or "...in their underwear") - OMG! That makes it even worse! ...or "I already am - That's the problem!"

Just thank heaven we weren't cursed with penises! I was so sick of 'boy-bulges' in high school, but then I thought "If I had one, I'd probably be just like that"! If it's any consolation, I think that most people are just like us!

The things that helped me most were [1] realizing that most people get nervous around people they like, and [2] most people think that shyness is 'cute', 'sweet' or 'charming', and they accept the whole thing as a compliment! ;-)

Hugz!