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Me(baby gay) + Tumblr +Girls = WTF?

Hello all you beautiful ladeh's :) Not entiorely sure where this post should go ...here looks quite cozy :P

How do I start this...Ok firstly I'll say that with a recent smack upside the head with reality, I discovered or more like FINALLY admitted to myself that yes I LIKE THE LADEH'S and not in a I wanna braid ur hair and have pillow fights kinda way, more in a I wanna try get you pregnant kinda way (which can involve pillow fights and hair braiding if you wish;p) So ye I'm GAY only took 24 and a half years to say it <- YAY ME right:) 

Secondly- I have recently been introduced to the amazeballz world of Tumblr ( I know , first rule of tumblr is to not speak of le tumblr) This is where my complete lack of know how and social ineptity comes to bite me in the ass . I've been chatting with a few people on there and was simply wondering how do you know if someone on this site or any other social networking site likes you. I've seen so many post about people meeting on tumblr and/or any other social networking site and was wonder how they can devlope such a bond without seeing each other ? and if you can see each other i.e skype/msn ect ect when you meet in person do you skip the first few stages of dating and go straight to the shaking up? but what I would really like to know is, is it truley possible to fall for someone you dont/have never met in real life and does it count? 

I ask because I find the more I speak to a certain someone the more I find myself being attracted to them and am finding it difficult to understand , Is a common thing? 

also on a side note, I find myself attracted to really femme girls, Do femme girls usually go for femme girls ? Is this an unwritten femme rule? I would say I'm more 'butch' looking <-is that the right term when you look like a guy? ( i read some say stud ? is there a difference? )

Thanx for your patients everyone like I said I'm a very new newbie to all this  :D 

thanx again . oh and my tumblr is spydi-mel.tumblr.com if y'all wanna holla :D 


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