i've read in a mens' magazine that straight women enjoy one-night stand (either gender). are some les or bi like that?
another thing, if a straight woman, being alone with you, gets horny knowing that you are les or bi and tries to seduce you, would you give in?
AE ladies, what can you sa about sluttish women? do they turn you on or off?
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Anonymous
on April 1, 2007 - 8:52am.
one night stands
Wow, this is a loaded question. Thankfully, I’m still a bit drunk from last nite, er, this morning.
First, I wouldn’t rely on men’s magazines for “expert” advice on straight women. Or bi and gay women, for that matter.
Second, there are just some people – male, female, gay, straight – who enjoy one-night stands. I don’t think it’s particular to a certain gender or sexuality, tho I think generally speaking, men are more apt to seek them out.
As far as straight women wanting to seduce me, if they’re hot, I’m all for it. And, yes, I’ve “given in” on numerous occasions. I may have even initiated said seduction, um, once or twice.
But I don’t think that makes me a slut. And even if it does, eh – so be it. At least I enjoyed myself.
1 night stands...
Casual Sex
FallenW - You make some good points. First, about STDs – definitely be careful, be safe as often as possible, and be a bit discriminating! Also, regular dr visits are a given.
And it’s not that I don’t believe in commitment. I’ve been in a fair number of relationships – which I’d consider anything over 3 months or so. Anything less is pretty much just sex. And I have been in longer relationships - a year, 2 yrs - and in those cases, I don’t cheat. Well, I did once. Ok, twice, but I kinda had permission. So for the most part, I feel I’ve been monogamous.
But I take responsibility for my actions, even when I’m not in a relationship. If there’s someone I’m just sleeping with, I’m honest with her about my intentions/expectations. But on the other hand, nothing’s a given when it comes to affairs of the heart. Or other body parts, and yeah, sometimes things gets complicated, despite my best efforts.
Anyway, here’s a little something for anyone who wants to get in touch with their inner slut:
http://www.okcupid.com/slut
well...
1 night stands
agree with zarathustra , I dont think is something limited to eith hetero, bi, les. It differs from person to person. There are many people who enjoy one night stands, the non-commitment factor.
I suppose in terms of sluttish the definition will change from person to person, lol. My definition of sluttish might not be yours...But no, a sluttish woman doesn't really turn me on.
"You and I wear the dangerous looseness of doom and find it becoming. Life, for eternal us, is now and now is much to busy being a little more than everything to seem anything, catastrophic included.."
~C'mon People~
Listen when it somes to sex and one-nite stands there are no rules...as long as both people are on the same page there shouldn't be a problem..as far as "slutty" women everyone's definition of slutty varies, someone looking for a good time shouldn't nessecarily be classified as a "SMUT" yes SMUT depending on the circumstances...just be careful and know that if it's ur first one nite stand that it's probably not there's...
not for me....
eh...
I used to think ...
... that it was ok, but that I couldn't see myself having a one night stand ... Now that I'm single, I must admit I've had a few, sometimes with a man, sometimes with a woman ... I enjoy it and I think it,s fine cause I'm not sure if I'm ready for another relationship, even if I have someone on my mind... I think we should do what feels right for us. Sleeping with people you're not dating does not make you a slut. When 2 people want the same thing, why not ??
"Seize the day or die regretting the time you lost"
done that
unhappy ending..
it seems that intimate relationships that have come to an end are like one-night stands...
* complex as it seems, life is simply amazing *
sex with an ex
Hmm...I don’t consider sex with an ex a one-night stand, even if it is for one night. It's just 'sex with an ex.'
And totally unrelated but for the record, my one-night stands/flings weren’t with strangers. They were women I sort of knew – friends of friends, work acquaintances, my sister’s friends, my dental hygienist, oh, I think I’ll stop there...
Hey, I didn’t say they were wise choices, just that they weren’t strangers. Ya know. For the record.
Fuck, I need some sleep...
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now i know..
they're different: sex with gf and sex with a stranger..
i believe, a person considers someone a gf if she loves him/her.. to have sex with a gf is expressing one's love. to have sex with a stranger, i don't understand.. i can't do it no matter how pretty that stranger is..
* complex as it seems, life is simply amazing *
going down
i agree
If I have a one night stand, I'm not comfortable goin down on a stranger, I just won't... someone I know, it depends..
But now I'm in this situation where there's this girl Ive known for years, who wants to have sex wit me, and I've always liked her.. thing is, she's married, yet her husband doesn't care.. I already said I don't want him to be involved if we do do ne thing..so what does that make me?
Oh, and as far as a straight woman seducing me..if she's trying to seduce me, she's not that straight now is she.
~I got that remedy~
To be honest
Slutty women don't turn me off, STD's do. I think we can all agree that "the clap" is not sexy. Casual sex with someone you know is one thing, sex with a completely random woman is another. I wouldn't share my chapstick with a stranger, let alone a bed. I've been in that "straight seductress" situation before (I can't say she was attracted to my gayocity though) and I punked out. Guess I'm just a wholesome kind of girl...Or perhaps a quickie with a moderately inebriated girl in the bathroom of my friend's mother's house during a backyard BBQ just didn't appeal to me.