I'm not sure, but I think the OP was referring to being gay as opposed to being bi. There does seem to be this idea floating out there that bisexuals are less faithful, more likely to leave a relationship then gays or lesbians.

I get that a lot too.  One woman I was interested in went so far as to say that although she realized the same argument could hold for anyone (leaving a partner for another person) somehow, the thought of being left for a MAN was too much to bear.

WTFE. 

We're here, we're half queer, get used to it!

I am getting tired of all the self-righteous bi-conspirator who think they have some divine right to force other women to convert to their way. Who the hell do you think you are to deny another woman the right to refuse to have a relationship with you?!

You are worse than a man.

A lesbian has every legitimate rights to refuse a relationship with a bi-girl. And your pathetic attempt at making us feel guilty about it  isn't gonna change anything.

If you think that by making us feel pity for you  we're going to bow down to the all mighty power of the dick like you do, I suggest you think again. We'll never agree to be slave to men like you are.

Your arguments are void. We never discriminate against bi-women because they're different, we discriminate against you bisexual girls because as soon as you get close we can smell the stench of males all over you. In your breath, on your cloths, even in your sweat we can smell them. It's just  appalling.

We don't trust you because males are ugly, stinking,disgusting, vicious, power-hungry, backstabbing,creatures. And only someone with extrem issues could ever find them attractive and worthy of love.

We despise you because the very idea of putting our tongue where a man  put his dick just days ago, if not hours, make us want to throw up.

We refuse to date you because we don't want to have to count the days before your kisses start to gets this unmistakable musky after-taste that means it's all over.

And finally we hate you because you chose to sleep with our sworn enemy and you keep trying to convert us every chance you get . Your single goal is to destroy the lesbian sisterhood from the inside, but it's not gonna work.

Being a lesbian is not a walk in the park.  As a lesbian who has absolutely zero attraction to men I can attest to this.  That being said, I think jackedup77 makes some valid points.  Yes, there are lesbians who are prejudiced against bisexual women.  They assume proclaiming you are bi means you want your cake and eat it too.  You want a free pass to sleep with anybody and everybody.  I am aware this prejudice exists.  Many lesbians are disgusted by the thought of being with a woman who also has sex with men.  My own personal experience however, is that I have been involved with women who are bisexual and while we were together we were in a monogamous relationship.  I had no fear of being cheated on.  If you love and trust your mate, and if it is agreed that the relationship be monogamous then what is there to fear?  If your fear is that you are going to be cheated on then it is unrealistic to assume just because a woman is strictly lesbian you have less of a chance of being cheated on.  Be loud, be proud, be yourself.  Don't compromise or change who you are to benefit others.  Be honest and treat others as you would like to be treated.

Ok this may sound stupid and abit off topic but how can you classify yourself as being bisexual? It’s obvious that someone is attracted to both sexes… but what if it’s just that… what if you can’t see yourself being in a relationship with a man but still find them attractive... I don’t find it “wrong” (as you put it) to be attracted to both but I guess I can’t be content in saying I’m bi because I really don’t know. I guess when i wished that i was gay, it was more that i wished i could define my sexuality.... sorry about that, it didn't really have anything to do with the topic, it was just kind of my thoughts.

Everything you said i completely agree with, most definately.

See the thing is, the women you describe here are actually just straight. Why they see the need to label themselves as something they're not is kind of beyond me, but it's pretty obvious why that kind of behaviour is annoying. If the jar is labelled peanut butter and you spread it on your bread only to find out it's jam, then you're going to be pretty pissed off, right? It sounds to me like you have a problem with girls who claim to be bi but actually aren't - I do too. So rather than say:

"I mean I'm not too fond of bi-sexuals myself"

and then be disappointed with yourself, like you are flawed in some way for feeling like that, you should take a moment to think about what the issue really is for you. Don't feel bad about discriminating against fake-bi's. We need to be able to discriminate between people who are genuinely interested in us, and people who aren't. I'd be tempted to explain, to her face, what an arse your friend is actually being.

Anyway, that was a very roundabout way of saying that I think you would actually be quite fond of bisexuals if in fact you knew any, and that part of the reason why so many bi folk feel the need to 'choose' one way or another is because many people think the way you do. It's a vicious circle. There are no real bisexual role-models out there, just a bunch of pretenders, which means real bisexuals feel that they are not bisexual because that word no longer holds any meaning for them.

World. Gone. Mad.

"Well, make your websites, organise yourselves, make your statements, get your prideday, choose a color, put it on the political agenda, start a bar/club, educate us, etc."

lol, they already have all that.

We've even put it on the political agenda and here's the response we got:

"Bisexual by definition means promiscuous, having relations with both male and female. We are going to give that a Federal preferred protected status under this legislation. I think that is a serious mistake." Senator Don Nickles (R-OK)

They call it LGBT for a reason, all of us are supposed to be fighting together. It's a litte difficult when the people you're supposed to be fighting with are hostile and/or dismissive towards you. It's a shame that bisexuals have had to build separate websites, networks, community groups, and resources, when we're supposed to be doing this together. BTW, I'm sure those links can provide many ways you can get involved. Thanks.

hmm... stop whining. well, is whining better or worse than telling bigoted lesbians to fuck off? I guess the next time I see a lesbian whine about how much they don't trust bisexuals, I'll tell them to go fuck themselves. Maybe we are wasting our time trying to educate prejudiced lesbians. Wish it didn't have to come to that. I'd rather be inclusive than militant.