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Sarah Bettens Fans?

OK, I know nobody can possibly be as big of fan of her as I am, as she is my current crush. (I often like to cyberstalk for pics when I'm bored.) But, thought we might pool our resources. *sigh*

Sadly, I missed seeing Sarah during the Scream tour when she came to the Twin Cities and don't know when she'll be coming back...am thinking Michigan Womyn's Festival?

What's crazy is that I first noticed Sarah when she was with K's Choice, years before she came out. She played at The Bronze on a episode of Buffy the Vampire Slayer. (Have Song if you would like to hear it.) I was just totally intrigued by her. This was years before I even let myself believe I was attracted to women. Okay, here's one pic. V. Old K's Choice.

 

 


perfectflaw75's picture

Sarah Bettens

I've met her - she's really sweet (and I was a complete dork). Not pretentious at all.

She's currently forming an all girls band to play at Mich Fest. And I can't wait for her new album.

Visit her website www.sarahbettens.com where all her fans gather and talk about SB/related stuff.

I've been a fan of hers from the very early days (she was "Sarah Beth" before K's Choice was formed) and I think a lot of people had an inkling back then - I mean, I'm sure I wasn't the only one who was sure she batted for our team - way before she came out :)  

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"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." (Dr. Seuss)

Woolf20's picture

I LOVE SARAH !!! She's my

I LOVE SARAH !!! She's my fav singer. One year ago I saw her for the first time. She has wonderful voice and she's a very nice person.

I missed the european scream tour too but I can't wait to see her this year.

 

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Awesome pics!

Thanks for posting them, Woolf. Did you take them yourself?

I actually flew in to Berlin, Germany, to see her. It was worth it - and Berlin's a great city. 

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"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." (Dr. Seuss)

Woolf20's picture

Yeah I took them. I always

Yeah I took them. I always try to make photos at concerts if it's possible. :)

Yeah it's always worth to see her. Too bad no money to see her last december.

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Sarah dedicating a song to her girlfriend

Here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hL1KX1-IyRc :)

And this is one of the new songs she played during her tour last year. It definitely is one of my favorites, and I hope it'll be on her new album: http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-4600779459337344922&q=Sarah+Bettens&hl=en

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"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." (Dr. Seuss)

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Somebody'd better catch me!

First of All, Thx for posting the pics!

OK--Mara--When I read your blog I totally thought I might actually faint if I had the opportunity to talk to Sarah. (Thus subj. title.) Or else I wouldn't be able to say anything. I'd be like on of those girls I always thought were so stupid that you see meeting Elvis or The Beatles.

Once I read about a fan sharing a sandwich with her, which is crazy to me. LOL. I can't remember the circumstances.

Great clips. Also on Utube, there is a particularly funny one of her dancing around in a wig. You have to go and check it out, but you have to listen to the v. end to see how really funny it is.

 

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I surprised myself

Jodi, I surprised myself. I mean, I play in a band myself (and recently a bass player of another band approached me to come and jam with her band...) so I'm sorta used to being amongst musicians. I never thought I'd be star struck! I totally dorked out! For a couple of minutes I was that awkwardly shy teenager again... Sheesh.

I think I know what video you're talking about. It's the "Fine" one, right? Yea, I call it Sarah's "Britney-eat-yer-heart-out" vid *lol* It sort of spoofs the bubble gum pop stars from a couple years back. 

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"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." (Dr. Seuss)

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"Fine"

Yes, I am determined to go to MI Womyn's Festival to see her! (Plus it will also otherwise be totally awesome.) But, of course, that will be the best part.

I think I may have decided on an avatar, at least for awhile. What's a girl to do? There are so many great pics out there to choose from! I totally wanted my hair to look like this at one point, but I could never get it to style right. Damn. She even has better hair than me! Oh well, have now accepted that my hair lacks the necessary volume to carry off that style.

Did I just type that? Yes, yes, I did. Maybe in MI I can ask her what "product" she uses in her hair. What do you think she'd say? My guess is she'd be thinking, WTF, but try to make up something nice. Unless she doesn't know what I mean by product.

Okay, tangent of Sarah and her awesome hair.

Yeah, the video is Fine (Room Edit). Hilarious. I wasn't sure if I should link to it or not. There are some good tribute videos on there, too. I've 39 vids of her in my favs. (No use is having duplicates)

Here is one of my favorites (not mine, just found it the other day):

Sharmen (My Heart)

 

 

these hips are mighty hips.

these hips are magic hips.

i have known them

to put a spell on a man and

spin him like a top.

---Lucille Clifton, Homage to My Hips

perfectflaw75's picture

New Sarah Bettens songs :)

Check 'em out here: http://www.fuzz.com/artist/SarahBettens

Enjoy! 

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"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." (Dr. Seuss)

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Cool Site!

 

 

You rock Mara! I'd never heard that remix or Pave the Way (which was great.) And I've never been to that site. More new pics! I know you've been to her site, so I'm sure you know about this already, but right now on her official site they've got two of her full shows you can watch through Fabchannel and they are excellent quality.

This one's great, it's the acoustic duo and while she's singing Come Over Here something is up with the guitar (I think that's the problem.) and they start laughing and have to start over. It never ceases to amuse me.

But my current favorite version of that song is just the video of the single . I've listened to it so many times that my 3-yr-old daughter knows the words. She will ask me who is singing out of the computer and I'll tell her Sarah, so she says she's Sarah and runs around singing, "Come over here" over and over again. She also does this with Maps from the YYY's. (Equally entertaining.)

I'd also like to say I totally love that she puts videos and stuff on her site!

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these hips are mighty hips.

these hips are magic hips.

i have known them

to put a spell on a man and

spin him like a top.

---Lucille Clifton, Homage to My Hips

Woolf20's picture

sarah bettens

THANKS for the link Mara :) :)

And Jodi the story with you daughter is sooo sweet :)

I haven't listened to much K's Choice or Sarah stuff during the last time but thanks to this thread I'm into it again :)

To bad I moved back to my parents. I used to live near Cologne so it was easy to drive to Belgium or the Netherlands for concerts but now I'm too far away. I can only hope there'll be some gigs in Germany this year.

 if you like pictures, these are some more of my concert pics

http://www.geocities.com/aladdinsane83/sarahhalle06.htm

http://www.geocities.com/aladdinsane83/sarahwardin06.htm

http://www.geocities.com/aladdinsane83/sarahbettenslahr.htm

http://www.geocities.com/aladdinsane83/sarahbettenscologne.htm

http://www.geocities.com/aladdinsane83/sarahfrankfurt.htm

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K's Choice, too

You're welcome!

Noticed that with a few clicks you also have a couple of K's Choice songs playing non stop? http://www.fuzz.com/artist/KsChoice  

Your kid's funny. Keep her singing :)

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"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." (Dr. Seuss)

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Did I mention?

Mara--That's a great site! And, Woolf, thank you sooo much for the pics. I wish I had more unique stuff to offer. I hope you don't mind, but I've been playing around with them. I'm putting together some wallpapers, and of course new avatars. I'm on campus today for the first time in ever and this morning I didn't have anything to do on the bus, so I just got to play around on Photoshop. :) Noticed your new avi Woolf, meant to ask about your old one. Did you do that yourself? (engraving)

Am going to video daughter singing and will put it up so y'all can see. She was doing it again last night. Maybe I can get her to say she's Sarah. Like I said she does Maps (Y,Y,Y's) and also Shock the Monkey (Peter Gabriel), Cash Machine (Hard Fi)--which she calls "Scratchy Living"), Neon (John Mayor) and All the Things I've Done (Killers) although she never recognizes that one until the "I got soul..." part. I'll do a montage. You know, she is getting v. particular in her taste for music b/c when stuff comes up on the Ipod she'll yell for me to pass it sometimes.

Wanted to ask y'all's opinions, every once and awhile I'll see a pic and think, Sarah, "You totally need to eat a sandwich!" She looks like she's lost A LOT of weight. But then some of the pics from the same show she'll look totally great. Don't get me wrong, you KNOW I totally love her! I've never seen her in person, so what do y'all think? There's that one pic you took, Woolf of her backside (which was really funny to me for some reason b.c I could just imagine her dancing around on the stage, etc.) and her thighs don't touch, which is not good actually. I'll post some examples later, but right now I'm off to this Bob Dylan exhibit at our campus museum. Am volunteering w/some teenagers at a writing workshop.

Anyway, here's my fun link of the day. Wheh you see president/actor think Ronald Reagan. Don't know how the dude who made the video missed that one. As always, video not by me. Am thinking about doing something soon, though.

Something's Wrong

 

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these hips are mighty hips.

these hips are magic hips.

i have known them

to put a spell on a man and

spin him like a top.

---Lucille Clifton, Homage to My Hips

Woolf20's picture

I'm glad you like the pics

I'm glad you like the pics Jodi and of course you can play with them :)

I don't know if Sarah lost weight. Of course she is thin but she looks very healthy to me.

About my avatars. The blue one wasn't an engraving but a painting. It's one of my fav paintings because it took only one day to make it :) I The current avatar is also a painting. I made it one year ago and gave it to Sarah before a concert. This was the first and last time I talked to her.
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You GAVE her a painting!

 

I am so effing jealous of you both because you're like, whatever, "I've met her." *sigh* I absolutely hate you both. Seriously. Awesome painting, BTW. Still trying to figure out how I'm going to get to MWF, but I'm determined! I'm trying to put together a car pool, on several message boards, but nobody seems interested. Will fly in alone, but like I'm gonna hang with myself in my tent. Whatever. That would totally suck. At least if I meet people on the way during the car pool we have 12 hours to share all our life secrets, etc.

Determined! I'm determined!

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these hips are mighty hips.

these hips are magic hips.

i have known them

to put a spell on a man and

spin him like a top.

---Lucille Clifton, Homage to My Hips

perfectflaw75's picture

If you ask me...

She did lose some weight; she used to be "curvier". Somewhere I have a couple of old photographs taken back in her early K's Choice days (back then they were called "The Choice) with Sarah wearing tan cords a lilac colored blouse and sporting a freshly bleached 'do (up till then I had never seen her with bleached blonde hair) and she wasn't as thin as she is now.

You're not the first one who wondered about that, jodi... She's kinda thin, but she has "love handles"... Can't wait for a vid starring your daughter.

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"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." (Dr. Seuss)

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Deleted Most of these pics

 

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Hey, I removed most of the pics b/c I figured they'd probably take some people a long time to load and y'all had already seen 'em. Did leave one of my favs, though.

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these hips are mighty hips.

these hips are magic hips.

i have known them

to put a spell on a man and

spin him like a top.

---Lucille Clifton, Homage to My Hips

jnsferris's picture

Picture Commentary!

K, I just posted that and noticed I didn't write what I was going to write on it and don't feel like editing the post, so here are some pics I think are not so scary. The ONE pic in there that I think is a good example of her being much thinner is the way her shoulders jut from her shirts when she's got that thermal on--and that's under two layers of clothes. I didn't bother to put up another pic b/c I think the first one you put up (Woolf) is a pretty good example of what I'm talking about.

I was thinking about it today b/c I have absolutely no gaydar (and you're thinking, how does this apply?) Well, to be honest, I was inpatient twice for ED and spent 7 months in a long-term treatment program so I can pick an ED person out of a crowd like no other. (Most of us can.) I've never been wrong about a friend or casual acquaintance. You can just tell. On the other hand, I'd have to be hanging around in the QSCC study lounge to tell who's gay, and even then I can't pick out the people who are just friends and allies. So sad, really.

Anyway, here are some good examples of her not being super skinny. And the one in the green tank is not even that long ago is it? I mean, she's naturally a thin person, so it doesn't take much to cross over to looking very, very thin (10-20 lbs). I've also got this HILARIOUS picture of her in a dress, but it's v. small and low quality, so I'm going to change my avatar to it, but you can clearly see how much more she weighed in that pic.

Personally, I think she's totally hot in the dress, but I'm sure at the time she was thinking, why the hell am I wearing this effing dress, cause back then I was thinking, why do I have the hots for this person in a dress?

I'm really, really hoping it's just stress from the new tour. etc. She's a bit old to be just developing an ED, so I'd think it would be something she'd struggled with in the past and that this would be a relapse, etc, so I'm thinking probably a no, as she looked to be a normal weight in years past. I'm hoping not because it's horrible, horrible and I want her to be as happy as she seems to be.

Here's a tribute video from 2005 that I like and I'd never heard this song:

Winners

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these hips are mighty hips.

these hips are magic hips.

i have known them

to put a spell on a man and

spin him like a top.

---Lucille Clifton, Homage to My Hips

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Cocoon crash - the movie

Needless to say that "Cocoon crash" is the title of a K's Choice album and song. Check this out, though: http://www.cocooncrash.com/ (it also features another (new) SB song.) The movie is about a young woman struggling with religion and her lifestyle. 

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"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." (Dr. Seuss)

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Where do you find all this brand new stuff?

Um, that's about the bulk of my post

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these hips are mighty hips.

these hips are magic hips.

i have known them

to put a spell on a man and

spin him like a top.

---Lucille Clifton, Homage to My Hips

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More Cyberstalking! (of the benign variety)

Okay, so I never REALLY ever stop doing this, but the other night I did manage to find quite a few new pics. I've got tons more , but these were a few I really liked. Pic #1, not v. good, but do you see how well that dress fits her? *sigh* And I just totally LOVE it when she rocks out! Something about girls with guitars...like Winona said. Hot. Does that help you pick up chicks, Mara?

 

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these hips are mighty hips.

these hips are magic hips.

i have known them

to put a spell on a man and

spin him like a top.

---Lucille Clifton, Homage to My Hips

perfectflaw75's picture

*lol*

I guess playing the guitar in a band helps me to get attention by women (young and old), but the drummer in the band also gets lots of attention (she is very cute!)

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"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." (Dr. Seuss)

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*raises hand* I love Sarah

*raises hand* I love Sarah as well, absolutely. Her music is fantastic. Too bad no one else in Finland seems to know her, so I have no chance of seeing her live anytime soon.
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Sarah's marriage

Welcome to the club Eeva! (And to the boards it looks like.) I'm glad we've got another fan! So, too bad no chance of seeing her locally!

So,

I just happened to really sit and listen to Her song All. It really made me think about her previous marriage, and the fact that I'm just now divorced, and just lesbians in general who are married. Did her husband know the whole time they were married? I thought I'd read something about them like that, or at least them separating amicably and/or her having been in a serious lesbian relationship and out to her husband long before they divorced.

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these hips are mighty hips.

these hips are magic hips.

i have known them

to put a spell on a man and

spin him like a top.

---Lucille Clifton, Homage to My Hips

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It's great to see so many

It's great to see so many k's/sarah fans here!

I've never read anything about the fact that her husband would have known..

I think she was very committed in that relationship considering also that she moved to the US.

I was a huge K's choice fan and I guess most of Belgium ( etc) kinda always suspected something...

I think she is really great about it. She is definately very down to earth and doesn't act like a rockstar at all.

The one time I met her she was really sweet.

anyway the new album should be out this year ! can't wait!

Saw her live a couple of times and also on the whisper tour which was absolutely amazing!

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Hey mangopeach. Both her ex-husband and Sarah didn't know when they met and subsequently married eachother. She was indeed very committed in that relationship, but never knew she was missing out - until she met her current partner. She stated in an interview that it was as if a light in a dark room was switched on.

I agree: Sarah's not pretentious at all, she doesn't have an attitude. Very sweet and patient to fans (including the star struck ones - I assure you!)... But so are the guys in the band: they're all very sweet. 

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"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." (Dr. Seuss)

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sarah

perfectflaw75 wrote:
... But so are the guys in the band: they're all very sweet. 


I totally agree. The band is very very nice.
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Dinah

Too bad I need to pass on the Dinah - I heard Sarah's playing at the pool party.

No pun intended, tho ;p

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"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." (Dr. Seuss)

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Hi mangopeach!

 

I am glad to see another fan posting, mango. I feel so left out as so many of you have met her. Really am going to have to do something about that!

Thanks for the info about her marriage. I totally can't remember where I read that either. Or the thing about the sandwich.

It always makes me feel a bit better when I read about somebody else being sort of clueless until at some point they just weren't. Then I feel much less like an idiot!

I wish I had some fun news to add. Mara, do you have any?

 

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these hips are mighty hips.

these hips are magic hips.

i have known them

to put a spell on a man and

spin him like a top.

---Lucille Clifton, Homage to My Hips

Woolf20's picture

No need to feel like an

No need to feel like an idiot. I don't  much about Sarah either. 16 months ago I didn't even know her name :)

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Geez!

Y'all make me feel verrrrrry old, right now! I sorta followed Sarah's carreer from the moment I heard of hear back in the early 90s. (Back then she went by "Sarah Beth"...)

http://houbi.com/belpop/groups/bettens.htm 

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"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." (Dr. Seuss)

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sarah

perfectflaw75 wrote:

 I sorta followed Sarah's carreer from the moment I heard of hear back in the early 90s.



enviable
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I just love music

Just for the record: I also listen to a lot of other stuff - and with the band I play all kinds of pop/rock songs (currently no K's Choice / Sarah Bettens).

I've also followed Texas/Sharleen Spiteri's carreer from the late 80s... Oh dear, now it sounds like I don't have a life outside music ;) 

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"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." (Dr. Seuss)

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Old SB interview

http://www.faceculture.nl/sarah_bettens/video/engels.htm

Enjoy, ladies. 

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"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." (Dr. Seuss)

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Sarah Bettens radio interview

She was interviewed yesterday by Black Light Radio, a local radio station in San Diego, Cali. The interview can be downloaded here (it's a ZIP file): http://sarahbettens.agorachat.net/files/2007-04-14-SarahBettens-InterviewOnlyOnBlackLightRadio.zip 

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"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." (Dr. Seuss)

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Radio Interview

Hey--thanks for the link for downloading it. I listened to it live, but didn't even think about being able to keep it. And I totally meant to come on here and post when I found out she was going to be on the radio, but was super lazy as haven't been visiting the boards much lately.

I thought the DJ was kind of annoying, but maybe that's b/c I just wanted to hear Sarah talk the whole time! Did y'all catch that they didn't get to play Come over Here on TLW. Super bummer as I'm getting ready to buy the set on DVD.

Well Mara--the only news I had was the Radio interview and you stole my thunder on that one! Am just patiently waiting to see if she'll come to the Twin Cities any time soon because I have class all summer and have given up on my attempts to go to MWF.

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these hips are mighty hips.

these hips are magic hips.

i have known them

to put a spell on a man and

spin him like a top.

---Lucille Clifton, Homage to My Hips

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Sarah Bettens @ the Dinah

Sorry I beat you to it. I just posted the link (which is actually of French guy "jesse" who gets mentioned in the interview) because I wanted to share it. I missed it, too, because I was rehearsing new songs with the band.

Here's a clip of Sarah at Dinah Shore: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8EXlFH1UyBk

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"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." (Dr. Seuss)

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sarah bettens

omg I had such a great weekend. i'm in texas right now visiting (a really great) friend. this friend produced a festival this weekend and sarah was there too. we picked her up at the airport and she stayed with us. and later she also played two of her new songs for us. it was great. she is such a nice person.

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You lucky bastard!

A German would say: Geil! (Right?)

Sounds like you're having a wonderful time :) Please share pictures! 

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"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." (Dr. Seuss)

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right :)

right :)

I hope I'll have the pictures soon. I have an analog camera so it takes longer :(

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Same here...

That's alright - I, too, haven't switched to digital photography :) 

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"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." (Dr. Seuss)

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Just don't forget to post some

... after you had them developed.

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"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." (Dr. Seuss)

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Sweet Moses!

I cannot believe that! *sigh* I think I would just...God, I don't know what I would do, actually. Yay! Can't wait to see pics!

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these hips are mighty hips.

these hips are magic hips.

i have known them

to put a spell on a man and

spin him like a top.

---Lucille Clifton, Homage to My Hips

Woolf20's picture

sarah bettens

some photos from the last weekend. it was a 45 minutes acoustic show.

 

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Story behind te bra?

Were ppl throwing these? I hope so! Awesome! Thank YOU! I love her as a blond! *sigh* What songs did she do?

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these hips are mighty hips.

these hips are magic hips.

i have known them

to put a spell on a man and

spin him like a top.

---Lucille Clifton, Homage to My Hips

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Yeah they threw the bra.

Yeah they threw the bra. Can't remember what songs she did. where a couple of new songs and some old stuff.

Can only remember "Stay", "Come over here", "The Soldier Song" and "Daddy's Gun"

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Thx for posting some pics

Danke, Woolf20. Are you still in the US or are you back home now?

Ohmy, someone threw a bra *lol* I hope that'll never happen to me - I wouldn't know what to do (except blush furiously) 

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"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." (Dr. Seuss)

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Yeah I'm back home. Wish I

Yeah I'm back home. Wish I could have stayed longer. I'll upload some more pictures soon.
Woolf20's picture

sb

here are some more pics from the weekend

http://s171.photobucket.com/albums/u300/aladdinsane83/

 

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sb

here are some more pics from the weekend

http://s171.photobucket.com/albums/u300/aladdinsane83/


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