A Lesbian Curse...

I have a lesbian curse. Every time I date someone, whether it's for a few days or months, we breakup. Sometimes we don't even date, just mutual hangouts and talking and then they disappear. So you're thinking, that's not a real curse right? Generally within a few weeks time I find out that we broke up because they found someone else or found someone in mere hours after our parting. The latter may be a bit exaggerated, but come on, this is frustrating! I have yet to find a girl that I have a true connection with so it isn't anything that has truly broken me up but still worry-some for my future. Somehow I have become the ultimate seal in a long term relationship. The sad thing is, I am never a part of these relationships, only my exes. Has anybody else experienced this? Do I need to start studying spell books? Or go back to my past and investigate whether I pissed someone off badly enough to curse me with this? Are you looking for a long term relationship in the next month, because I can guarantee you one after me!