hey NEW JERSEY ae-ers

hey everybody. this question is mostly directed to anyone from New Jersey, but anyone close by can chime in too. i've put up a recent post like this before and got some good suggestions but i'd figured that i would ask again.

i've never been to a gay/lesbian baro or nightclub before but i've been looking to go. there's one close by called The Den and I've heard a few things about it from the gay boys but nothing from girls before. if any of you have been to The Den let me know what you thought of it. also, any other places to go to in NJ/NY would be good too.