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I don't mean to be a downer, but my long time off and on girlfriend and I broke it off for good tonight. It hurts a lot more than I ever dreamed, just knowing that I will never be with her again, and never see any of our dreams come true together. Its not my first relationship, or my first time falling in love, but it still hurts much more than I remember. I still love her more than anything... I hope my tears will dry soon. Anyone else ever felt this way? How did you ever move on?

Kris_B82's picture

Yeah

I'm feeling a whole lot that way myself...

Always fighting against the current, the salmon has long been a symbol of determination. (Tattoo Johnnie. com)

Spice's picture

Yip...

Have had my heart broken in the past... and there is no measure for your pain.. But I felt like my world had been taken from me.. had lost my source of oxygen.. For me only time worked.. sounds cliche, I know, but really was the only thing that worked for me. My advice: Keep busy, cry until you have no more tears, talk about it, let it out, and when your are done with hurting, life has a way of making you move on. My take on it anyway..

 

"You and I wear the dangerous looseness of doom and find it becoming. Life, for eternal us, is now and now is much to busy being a little more than everything to seem anything, catastrophic included.."

 

 

HayZee's picture

im sorry... :(

yeah something like that just happened...it also wasnt my first relationship but it was my first time in love. i got over it sorta but really it just takes time. the one thing i wouldnt do is get into another relationship to quickly because personal experience tells me that you will just compare the new person with the old then it is sorta ruined.

Haylee

smokinbluegrass's picture

sorry to read it

Losing someone always sucks. I've lost my share, and I've managed to "get over" them, but it took work. I gave myself one week for every month we were together and set that as my "official mourning period." Anything goes during "official mourning." Tears, ice cream, really bad TV, naps, long rambling phone calls to friends and family, projects at home that required additional folks to help me. Blah blah blah. Whatever it takes. My friends understood that, and supported it, as well. After the "official" period was over, the "ick" wasn't completely gone, but I'd had enough time and "stuff" to start moving forward again, and was always glad for the change. --Leave racin' to horses.

dj_stokes's picture

It's obviously never easy,

It's obviously never easy, but surround yourself with good friends and have a good time. Ice cream, takeaways, movies, going out...try to get your mind of your ex. It's over now and its time to accept it and move on. Grief, but you have your whole life still to go!

Hope you cheer up soon and things become better...

SportyAllison's picture

Thank you!

 Thank you, AE sisters, for the kind words of encouragement, it means a lot. Especially since you all don't really know me. It has been a rough 24 hours, and I am sure to be kind of depressed for a while, but I have bounced back from worse and we are going to remain friends. Thank goodness. But, no relationships for me for a long time. I am in no hurry to feel this way again. Thanks again for everything!

 

 

" But soft!  What light through yonder window breaks?  It is the East and Juliet is the sun!  Arise fair sun and kill the envious moon." -  Sometimes I feel like Romeo.


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