I Need Advice

My Recent Past Girlfriends Have Complained To Me About The Fact That I Don't Shave Downstairs....

Now What Do I Do.......Do I Trim Or Try To Shave.....It's Just That I've Never Done The Whole Shaving Thing Before So I'm Unsure With How I Should Go About Doing It As I'm Freaked I'll Cut Myself Or Some Shit.....Also, Are There Special Shaving Creams Out There For This Task At Hand Or What?

I'm Very Sorry If This Is Not The Place To Post This But I'd really Like Your Help And Advise.....

Thank You......... (: