Bisexual or gay?

i dont feel the same

but ur bisexual

m totally into weman

or are you asking straight or gay?

maybe you should just deal with being bisexual; you're just a sexual fluid person. i suggest you read some of those "im confused" threads in the bisexual secton because there are lots of them. same 'o, same 'o, "im confused and blah, blah" it goes on from there. but yeah, i suggest you take a look at those.

if you like both then you like both. get over it or you're gonna end up pulling out your hair because of it.

if I may be completely honest the problem i think is your need to label yourself. society wants to put a label on you because they need to somehow categorize everyone otherwise there would be no need to fill out stupid demographic info on anything. check here if you are this ...check this if you are that.... don't be in a rush to label yourself and you wont overthink anything you do. in the end you will figure yourself out even if "you" doesnt fit into a neat little category. be accepting of yourself just how you are and everyone will too. good luck!

"you have the voice of an angel, your voice is like a combination of fergie and jesus"

Amen to that (;

No need to catergorise, i mean, sometimes it just makes you feel worse, you are what you are (: i sometimes feel the same way, i just think you fall for who you fall for, that's it.

and i think if yer need comforting, check out the kinsey scale, that might help you out slightly maybe? ^_^

There's no need to hurry up and categorize yourself. I've heard, and experienced, that some bi women shift towards the sexuality of the relationship they're currently in or towards the sexuality of their crush. I'm currently in a relationship with a woman and I feel quite neutral to men, like I could identify permanently as a lesbian, and the same thing happened when I was with a guy, I felt more straight.

I personally thing bisexuality is a beautiful thing, we have the capability to fall in love with either gender. Just don't be in a hurry to categorize yourself, just do what feels natural and you'll be fine.

I identify myself as a lesbian because I am aesthetically attracted to girls and I check out girls like other girls would check out guys, HOWEVER, last summer I had a relationship with my best friend who happens to be equipped with *gasp* boy parts and I did have sex with him on a regular basis and even enjoyed it. However, I do not think that makes me bisexual because I did not find him attractive until I started developing emotional feelings for him. In fact, he's not exactly male model material at all, he was a typical hairy, smelly (ok actually he smelled very good), typical straight male but he was the most attractive person in the world to me. However, we broke up not too long ago and I have started dating women again I still identify as a lesbian but I keep my eyes and heart open in case another situation like the one I had before comes along.

So the moral of my story (lol) is "follow your heart" (cheesey I know). We're humans and not machines we don't have built in guidelines and settings to control what happens in our lives so just do whatever and whomever you please and dont worry about it. Just continue to experiment and keep an oipen mind and eventually it will all settle itself out don't force it on yourself to make a decision you're not ready to make

The heart has its reasons which reason knows not of.

but i know im bisexual because i love straight sex :D haha

perhaps i use guys to much?

lol ne way guys are hot.... girls are sexy

id give my heart to a girl tho. because i know it wont be wasted when i find the one

x 

 well, i ask myself the same question, but only because i dont know what to pick in my AE profile when it asks your sexuality...

i now consider myself 95% lesbian because i still do double takes when i see a hot guy, but i just cant picture myself with a guy. once in a blue moon if the opportunity arises i have straight sex but i just cant connect with men. with them i feel kind of empty inside, poor things. i know that now more than ever, even though i always thought i was bi before. so i think im a 5 on the kinsey. so in my profile, does that make me gay or bi? lol

 heres the link for the kinsey scale:  http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/resources/ak-hhscale.html

Bi-Lesbian: a woman who can be butch or femme interchangeably. :P