No thank you, I don't ever want to be straight. Sometimes homophobic people make comments that get me down. But it's so much more fun being gay...but that's just me ;)
well atm i would like to be straight, but not for men, just cos it would be a hell of alot easier for me...with my parents, friends etc....but i just wait n see wat happens ( im not talking bout waitin n seein if i ever get straight, but wat will happen if i come out to my rents n friends...^^) i personally dont think i will get straight, theres no real point is there?
its way funner being gay although we do take a lot of shit from people but in the end of that day its actually even better being with a girl just knowing its all taboo to some old fart.
nah been there dne, and wondered why i was never completely happy...you dont choose to be gay...so you cant choose to be straight either...it would be easier bing straight...but its not what make sme happy
I really can't imagine NOT being gay. There's definitely been times that I've wished I was straight (it's easier to meet people, you have a set cultural script on how your relationships are supposed to go, not having to pay for babies (as was kind of stated above) and oh yeah, heterosexual privilege), but it's not something I can imagine for myself. There's so much stuff that I love about dyke culture that I know I probably wouldn't get being straight. Being queer has had a huge impact on my life and I wouldn't want to trade that in.
when i was young, it was all i wished for. now...not only do i love myself wholeheartedly, i just love women too damn much. i mean god, women (in general) are just such gorgeous creatures. i don't miss men or care about straight privilege. i'm happy being a lesbian.
Classic, love that one....personally, if I could stand the boredom, bad breath, terrible sex and no allowance for debate, I take time off for kids but then....nah...still bring on the ladies lol!
Seriously I can't imagine being straight at all. Don't think I'd ever want to be, I love being gay, it's where I'm happiest. Women are so beautiful, it's a big part (though by no means all) of who I am. I need close female company, (I like guys as just the friends i laugh with and of course check out girls with)...and someone who showers daily ... I like soft clean hair, tight tops and all the rest.
"I mostly go with the flow..." but NO, NEVER! I would never choose to be straight , despite what gay people have to go throught, that´s what makes me believe in diversity.
But I don´t see a lot of mix happening among gay people. Lesbian places ( no men allowed), queer places(no women allowed), transvestites, transexuals... It semms to me that everybody wants to live in a box. So sad. No exchenge. So individual.
And I just I think that it´s not fair with straight people (poor guys:)!)´cause I´ve met a real nice, open and progressive straight people (yeah! I agree it´s dificult to find, but...) and I´ve already met a lot of hypocritical, intolerant and narrow minded among the gay ones. And vice-versa...So...
And about the smell... When hetero guys ask me why I like women, I return the question:Well, why do you like? And they almost inevitably answer: "They smell good, they don´t have beard, they´re so soft, they smell good, their voice are so good to listen, their body is good to look at..." And despite the fact that all this was build throughtout culture and bla...bla...bla...I cut this part and told them: "Well, that´s what I like them, but i would say it with much more property them you ever would and I can add: they´re nicer, smater,...They´re just better. Simple as that :)
But when they´re not satisfy with my answer I try something that they can understand. I told them: "Imagine that you have a car. A good car, a nice one. It takes you whaterver and whenever you want. No problems. You´re happy with this one, but...BUT, one day you start to ride a BMW or an Audi, a Ferrari, a Lamgorghini,... Would you ever want /decide/choose to drive your old car again despite your old car was ok? And they start to: " Oh, no...sure not...No, can you imagine? A Ferrari!" And I finish :"So that´s a fact! That´s it, guys. Men are ok (sometimes). But women are so much better. Women are lamborghinis, babe" :) a better ride:) No comparison..."
no personal experience of what it means to be straight, so I'd say no. I just sorta jumped from being an innocent naive little kid, to I like girls, to "Oh, I'm gay." I think being gay has made me a more tolerant person, and I feel special. ;)
What men are you guys talking about? I've been with men that were well groomed, CLEAN, and all of that good stuff. I didn't start dating women to get away from man stank....
I have to say I'd never want to be 100% straight. My life is far more "colorful" than that. I was out last night with a big group of straight friends. We were all drinking and having a good time and it just hit me...man I'm glad I'm bisexual. I had been at an AWESOME drag show the night before and I just felt like last night was too straight for comfort. Maybe thats just me? I need more gay friends.
I don,t understand comments like men and straight relationships are boring ... Of course if you're gay and you go out with a man, you won't feel comfortable and you might think the relationship is boring, but it's only because it,s not the right thing for you. The same way, a straight girl won,t be happy in a relationship with another girl cause that's not where she belongs. Lesbians don,t want to be judged by others because of their sexual orientation so they shouldn,t do it either.
"Seize the day or die regretting the time you lost"
I'm still kind of at the point where I wish I was straight. Part of me doesn't want to be, no way, love who I am etc. But it would be soo much easier...less hassle, less difficulty in finding someone, less everything.
I'm sure I'll grow out of feeling like this though =]
I remember when one of my good friends told me that I'm bi. She didn't say she THOUGHT I was bi...she just said I was bi...as if she were truly in my body...and reading my thoughts... I just hate it when people say things like that.
I also hate it when people ask me, "So, when did you decide to be gay?" Of course i want to tell them, "The same day you decided to be straight." I wouldn't choose to be discriminated against, have one of my parents yell at me out of anger, have relationships broken, and all the negatives that come with being an out gay person. Eh....
I'm never going to be straight and that's fine with me. I can't change my lesbianism as much as I can't change my natural eye color.
Sure my life would be easier but I don't want easier. I want to live a happy and fulfilling life and if I have to go through a lot of b.s....so be it.
I know if I was straight it would be a lot easier finding someone to be in a romantic relationship with but I know whenever I find that special girl, she will be worth the wait and depression. lol.
It would be so boring to be normative and to fit easily. What's there to fight for? ha...I sound like a damn political lesbian. But really, it's what it is. I go with the flow of life...wherever that maybe.
It would be so boring to be normative and to fit easily. What's there to fight for? ha...I sound like a damn political lesbian. But really, it's what it is. I go with the flow of life...wherever that maybe.
I'm straight and I love it..... and yes it is true some man do stank (but some women stank too), but if you try enough you would find the nice one, the perfect one who will just complete you.... I hope one day I could find one like that but that's hard as much as it is hard to find that perfect girl that you girls are looking for.....I don't know but women are georgeus and beautiful and that's maby why I'm looking for a men, because opposits attract =) ............. and there are some smart, funy, nice......gay and straight people so I don't get it why we all can't just have fun and enjoy this short life.......
I'm straight and I love it..... and yes it is true some man do stank (but some women stank too), but if you try enough you would find the nice one, the perfect one who will just complete you.... I hope one day I could find one like that but that's hard as much as it is hard to find that perfect girl that you girls are looking for.....I don't know but women are georgeus and beautiful and that's maby why I'm looking for a men, because opposits attract =) ............. and there are some smart, funy, nice......gay and straight people so I don't get it why we all can't just have fun and enjoy this short life.......
not being funny but why are you here then? i really don´t get it.. prehaps you can explain it to me... i may be a bit short or summat!
so I'll explan,one of my best friends is gay and I love her so much couse she is so funy and natural and sometimes is so good to talk to her about some woman things that I just can't talk with my straight friends!!!and now she moved to Germany and I don't here alot of her couse we are to far away and so I wanted to find maby someone here that I could talk to like I did with her, you know as a friend but..........................hm I gues not you..... =)
oh yeah and I'm not the only one straight here so ...........................
So if two genders are from different planets like one from Mars and other from Venus.What is natural and straight that people from Mars should live togather and make love with each other or to fall for aliens.
Yes I am straight and rest of the world should also think in this terms.How can dogs and cat get closer to each other..Being a gay is soooooooooooooo natural.
I hope!!!!!!and I'm sorry if I sound so negative it's just this f.....g PMS....oh it's killing me............really I'm sorry =) and I'm sorry to disapoint you (Sarah) but on Earth do live two genders, but as you can see everithing is OK here so......I don't know if I'd read something about this in Kur'an?......
Since I thought I was straight up until about 2 years ago, yeah, I had the idea that being straight would be better than being gay, but about 6 months ago I finally became comfortable in who I am, and stopped wanting to be straight.
Sure, there are moments where I get very down about being a lesbian, but overall, it's so much more amazing being who I am. I love seeing women more than others do. I love hanging out with my guys friends and guessing on how well a woman kisses, though they'd rather be all, "Would you tap that?" I make them say things like, "Wonder how she'd be like on a first date?".
It's hard at work, because there is slight homophobia, but I attend college in the Midwest, so there's a bit of understanding that not everything can be out and open here.
I've broken a few guys hearts, especially after I came out, but it's just that...they don't have the soft lips that mold to my own so well. They don't have that soft skin or the quiet caress. They don't know how to nip at my ears and neck in a way that makes me want to collapse right then and there. They don't know how to whisper sweet nothings and tease me and make me all warm and quivery inside...
And I should definitely stop before I continue on forever.
*grin*
In otherwords, nope, I don't wanna be straight. No sirree. Never again.
Straight! Never.
the straight and narrow.
did you hear gay is the new straight anyway.
i myself am gay to be gay, i dont get much hassle for it, more people tease me about my height. sides boys really do smell quite odd.
No, what I want is to not
No, what I want is to not live in such a homophobic world.
if only pigs could fly
Yes ! I'll definitely be straight when men
1) will smell and taste nice
2) have no hairy chest but gorgeous breasts
3) stop thinking they are God's gift to women
ehmm...turning straight?unlikely
Id rather be gay
Absolutely not. I wouldn't
Absolutely not. I wouldn't want it any other way.
HELL NO, keep bringing on
haha nice, nice
God no!
If I went straight I'd end up like Tina from the L Word. Living in the land of De-nial. "Ok guys! Now that I'm straight I want to have a mixer!!"
=This aint a scene it's a god-damn ar.... Wait... is it just me or is that guy wearing more make up then my ex?=
i spit out my soda when i
i spit out my soda when i read that one. very funny. ;-)
nah been there dne, and
would be much easier to be straight
id have to go straight in a few years (well like 10 years) so i can have a baby i guess il just have to take a year out
NO!!
shat no
As said above, gay is the new straight.
I love being gay. :)
I really can't imagine NOT
Considering I find guys
Considering I find guys icky... it isn't going to happen anytime soon for me.
when i was young, it was all
when i was young, it was all i wished for. now...not only do i love myself wholeheartedly, i just love women too damn much. i mean god, women (in general) are just such gorgeous creatures. i don't miss men or care about straight privilege. i'm happy being a lesbian.
Yup
waw,i envy u guys .it is
NEVER!
HAHAHA
Classic, love that one....personally, if I could stand the boredom, bad breath, terrible sex and no allowance for debate, I take time off for kids but then....nah...still bring on the ladies lol!
Can't imagine it.
Seriously I can't imagine being straight at all. Don't think I'd ever want to be, I love being gay, it's where I'm happiest. Women are so beautiful, it's a big part (though by no means all) of who I am. I need close female company, (I like guys as just the friends i laugh with and of course check out girls with)...and someone who showers daily ... I like soft clean hair, tight tops and all the rest.
Straight? Ever? I THINK NOT. X
still crazy after all these years
Well...
I'm pretty sure my girlfriend wouldn't approve. :)
No, but...
Naw...
Never! It's harder to be gay at times but I wouldn't want to be straight not even for a day!
And you have to admit....women smell so much better!
"The truth is you could slit my throat and with my one last gasping breath I'd apologize for bleeding on your shirt" -taking back sunday-
Straight or Straight and narrow? Gay or Gay and narrow?
"I mostly go with the flow..." but NO, NEVER! I would never choose to be straight , despite what gay people have to go throught, that´s what makes me believe in diversity.
But I don´t see a lot of mix happening among gay people. Lesbian places ( no men allowed), queer places(no women allowed), transvestites, transexuals... It semms to me that everybody wants to live in a box. So sad. No exchenge. So individual.
And I just I think that it´s not fair with straight people (poor guys:)!)´cause I´ve met a real nice, open and progressive straight people (yeah! I agree it´s dificult to find, but...) and I´ve already met a lot of hypocritical, intolerant and narrow minded among the gay ones. And vice-versa...So...
And about the smell... When hetero guys ask me why I like women, I return the question:Well, why do you like? And they almost inevitably answer: "They smell good, they don´t have beard, they´re so soft, they smell good, their voice are so good to listen, their body is good to look at..." And despite the fact that all this was build throughtout culture and bla...bla...bla...I cut this part and told them: "Well, that´s what I like them, but i would say it with much more property them you ever would and I can add: they´re nicer, smater,...They´re just better. Simple as that :)
But when they´re not satisfy with my answer I try something that they can understand. I told them: "Imagine that you have a car. A good car, a nice one. It takes you whaterver and whenever you want. No problems. You´re happy with this one, but...BUT, one day you start to ride a BMW or an Audi, a Ferrari, a Lamgorghini,... Would you ever want /decide/choose to drive your old car again despite your old car was ok? And they start to: " Oh, no...sure not...No, can you imagine? A Ferrari!" And I finish :"So that´s a fact! That´s it, guys. Men are ok (sometimes). But women are so much better. Women are lamborghinis, babe" :) a better ride:) No comparison..."
NEVER
it would be easier, yes.. but hell no..!
being straight is boring..! being straight is tv without cable.. being straight is like being blind.!
being gay is the in thing now.. it's living life in rainbow colors (yes pun intended).!
who wants hard and rough and moustachy kisses.?
give me soft, supple, passionate, wanne-be-with-you-or-i'll-die lesbian love any day..
straight-ness is just waiting to go extinct anyway..
I have
C'mon
What men are you guys talking about? I've been with men that were well groomed, CLEAN, and all of that good stuff. I didn't start dating women to get away from man stank....
I have to say I'd never want to be 100% straight. My life is far more "colorful" than that. I was out last night with a big group of straight friends. We were all drinking and having a good time and it just hit me...man I'm glad I'm bisexual. I had been at an AWESOME drag show the night before and I just felt like last night was too straight for comfort. Maybe thats just me? I need more gay friends.
Be straight? Only if
If the "coin" wants me to
never in a month of sundays
I don,t understand comments
I don,t understand comments like men and straight relationships are boring ... Of course if you're gay and you go out with a man, you won't feel comfortable and you might think the relationship is boring, but it's only because it,s not the right thing for you. The same way, a straight girl won,t be happy in a relationship with another girl cause that's not where she belongs. Lesbians don,t want to be judged by others because of their sexual orientation so they shouldn,t do it either.
"Seize the day or die regretting the time you lost"
Wellll
I'm still kind of at the point where I wish I was straight. Part of me doesn't want to be, no way, love who I am etc. But it would be soo much easier...less hassle, less difficulty in finding someone, less everything.
I'm sure I'll grow out of feeling like this though =]
I agree! It would be easier,
I agree! It would be easier, less hassle etc. if i was straight but damn i love women WAY too much. I would be lying to myself for sure...
Gray
'No-one else can speak the words on your lips...'
"When did you decide?"
I remember when one of my good friends told me that I'm bi. She didn't say she THOUGHT I was bi...she just said I was bi...as if she were truly in my body...and reading my thoughts...
I just hate it when people say things like that.
I also hate it when people ask me, "So, when did you decide to be gay?"
Of course i want to tell them, "The same day you decided to be straight."
I wouldn't choose to be discriminated against, have one of my parents yell at me out of anger, have relationships broken, and all the negatives that come with being an out gay person.
Eh....
I'm never going to be straight and that's fine with me. I can't change my lesbianism as much as I can't change my natural eye color.
Sure my life would be easier but I don't want easier. I want to live a happy and fulfilling life and if I have to go through a lot of b.s....so be it.
I know if I was straight it would be a lot easier finding someone to be in a romantic relationship with but I know whenever I find that special girl, she will be worth the wait and depression. lol.
**Courtney**
I tried the whole straight
I tried the whole straight thing and it was depressing to know I would never feel true intimacy with a women....
No, I like being Bi and am happy I came out... finally.
Life is short - Live.
meh
meh
hmmm I'm straight...
not beig funny....
not being funny but why are you here then? i really don´t get it.. prehaps you can explain it to me... i may be a bit short or summat!
=)
so I'll explan,one of my best friends is gay and I love her so much couse she is so funy and natural and sometimes is so good to talk to her about some woman things that I just can't talk with my straight friends!!!and now she moved to Germany and I don't here alot of her couse we are to far away and so I wanted to find maby someone here that I could talk to like I did with her, you know as a friend but..........................hm I gues not you..... =)
oh yeah and I'm not the only one straight here so ...........................
straight
Hi nejra,
Have to say i wondered too but that doesn't mean anything negative. Just curious.
Sounds you are missing a close friend and I am sorry about that. Hope you will find such a friend again soon! Maybe here!
Mars and Venus
So if two genders are from different planets like one from Mars and other from Venus.What is natural and straight that people from Mars should live togather and make love with each other or to fall for aliens.
Yes I am straight and rest of the world should also think in this terms.How can dogs and cat get closer to each other..Being a gay is soooooooooooooo natural.
wellll
straight?
Ugh... if here is reincarnation, I sincerely hope I am reborn a lesbian...
as hard as it can be, I cannot imagine myself as anything else, nor would I want to...
I do not have any problems with heterosexuals, but the idea of being one is deeply wrong for me...
About that whole straight thing
everything can change..
watch out! (or let's welcome them) more straight men and women are coming out... sexuality doesn't matter.. love is universal
* complex as it seems, life is simply amazing *
Do I want to be straight?
NO. Why? I don't hate myself, which is a requirement of wanting to convert. Sorry, Mom and Dad.
"Better than a thousand useless words is one word that brings us peace."
--The Dhammapada