Why men love lesbians?

"i remember i had this part in one of my scripts where a girl tells a guy "i'm into chicks" and he says "no way! me too! we have so much in common! we should go out sometime!" cuz guys are really dumb like that sometimes...." - They really do perpetuate the stereotype... lol

"For men who have been friends with a woman for a while and then that woman comes out as a lesbian, does the guy start to see her as "one of the guys", someone to talk about hot girls with? I've never had a long-term straight male friend whom I was out to (well, just acquaintances) so I don't know but am quite curious." - One of my best friends is a str8 man, and he was one of the first people I came out to.. needless to say, he was exceptional, and helped me through all the questions that I was asking myself at that point.. He has never treated me like one of they guys, much the opposite, he always treats me like a woman who loves another woman.... I dont know if this answers your question at all, but please ask on! I may be able to satisfy your curiosity!!

Many of my best friends are male and straight and since I'm totally out, I suppose you could say that I'm "one of the guys", as they don't treat me any different then they do each other. If we're walking somewhere in the city, for example, and some girl with a nice butt walks by, I get nudge and I get the winks that they'd give to each other in that kind of a situation.

I wouldn't have it any other way. I am more like them than I am like the typical girl anyway, and they recognize this fact and treat me accordingly.

I think it has a lot to do with their egos and insecurity.  If they were simply turned on by desiring women, then there are plenty of women out there who are attracted to men and pictures of nude women they could enjoy.  But instead, a lot of them specifically want to see 2 women together, especially if the women call themselves lesbians or video gives that impression.  I think there are men who don't like the idea that women who are lesbians means they aren't involved at all.  By watching us have sex, then they are included, even if it's in their fantasy.

koma....I've had long-term friendships with straight men, most I've been upfront with from the beginning, some I didn't dicuss my personal life for a while. Either way, I've been fortunate that they've treated me with respect - nothing has changed since they found out.  I wouldn't say they treated like one of the guys, more like equals and close friends with more in common. But I've also met a lot of guys, who when they found out that I'm gay, either were homophobic or they wanted to watch.  Some of them when I told them I'm a "lesbian" somehow thought it really meant I must be "bisexual" and wanted to be sexual with them.   Even when I've told them I wasn't attracted to men, they either still came on to me or wanted me to meet their biesxual gf/wife.  From my exper., I'd have to say it depends on the man.

This is a true fact. But some men and women would agree it depends on waht the women look like. Med Loooove lesbians, I was once offered a $100 bill to kiss my girlfriend in the village by 2 guys. I said no.

That makes sense. Straight guys love girls so seeing two girls together turns them on. Why aren't lesbians that way? Lesbians get turned on by two guys having sex which make no sense.

Yep that’s the real truth. I’ve put the ‘two ugly girls kissing’ scenario to my two male housemates, and their reaction was a big groan of no thanks kind of thing. It’s all about the aesthetic pleasure, not the sexuality on its own. As long as its pretty, they like it. Anything but attractive, they’re over it in a second. And if it’s not catered especially for them either, then they’re over it as well.

Lesbians spend waaay too much time wondering why men like this, why men do that and not enough time on women. Who cares if men like lesbians! Two women together is HOT! Why wouldn't they like it, they're straight. They like women, so two women for them is better than one.

The greater mystery is why lesbians like to watch gay porn. Now that doesn't make sense. But straight guys lusting after lesbians makes sense.

Plus, there are plenty of women who love gay men, who fall in love with them and try to "turn" them but gay men don't seem to be bothered by that. Why? Because they are too busy loving men and sucking dick.

What lesbians need to do is leave men and their fantasies alone and concentrate on WOMEN!

Reasons why...

1) Many men are so chauvinistic and phallocentric they can't register the concept that a woman could be satisfied without their almighty private parts involved, so they think two women together isn't a threat to them. (which raises the issue, if they think dicks are so wonderful, they're probably gayer than I am).

2) The whole "1 guy with two women in a harem" fantasy is pretty biologically awkward (and i.m.h.o. unnatural). Men have less stamina than women and aren't wired to multitask, so it's pretty unlikely a guy can "satisfy" two women, so he has to count on them interacting with each other, hence the obsession with women with other women.

Personally, if I see two hot women together or two hot men together in the real world I automatically feel left out, because if they're with each other, they're not with me.  -)

A couple of straight men once told me they loved watching two women have sex because they think lesbians are 'freaky' and they visualize themselves as the man in-between them. They considered that lesbian sex was not 'real sex' to complete the job and they were the man to accomplish this.

In real life, (porn excluded here) I've had men come on to me because they wanted to convert me. They just would not believe I was attracted to only women. The usual generic responses to my 'no' were usually 1) you haven't met the right man yet." 2) I don't mind if a woman sleeps with another woman but why won't she also sleep with a guy?" (duh) 3) "You're a freak of nature!"  4) "But other lesbians have slept with me, why won't you? Are you frigid or somethin?"

To me, it all boils down to ego and wanting what you can't have. Some men have become downright hostile toward me - especially if they see me with an attractive woman. I've had gay baiting in the streets and physical violence from men who just hated lesbians and on and on.

For me, men are okay as friends (especially my gay brothers) but there are plenty of straight women out there who are available so please leave the lesbians alone. I wish they'd drop their bruised egos and put their weiner back in their pants.

because they like the fact that maybe if they try their luck, they'll be the magic penis to bring a chick back. Or something. it's a conquest. 

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I got onto this site cause once again I was faced with my cousin's ex boyfriend's facebook status talking about two lesbians making out and why did they have to be ugly cause how was he suppose to enjoy it.

This whole issue of straight men liking lesbains does my head in, cause I am really keen to know why. I like the responses people are saying, I think it's interesting. Though, apart of me doesn't feel like anything really explains why they like it?

They say they're visual creatures, is this the way they really are? Or is it a product of what an old fashioned society has told them to be. We live in a culture that boxes everything, women are seen as sexual creatures that pleasures men, we could date this back to the story of Adam and Eve, in a creative interrpuation we could say that, Eve that made the first move, she offered her apple to Adam, which his snake rose and the knowledge of sex was brought to their attention. I guess their naked bodies stood for more then just shapes, they were now connected to emotions and physical pleasure.

Are men really attracted to two women? Or are they told to be? How much influence does Porn, TV, mates, society, religion? etc play in the part where they feel that a lesbain or bi person is really just another fanasty that they can out play.

I've often seen a lot of my striaght male friends, notice two girls walk past and they just stop and look at them, or they make remarks, I sometimes find it hard to be friends with guys for that reason. It feels like some men are trapped in this idea of what they feel they should be and maybe them liking lesbians is up there with being sporty, macho and drinking beer.

otherwise gay marriage would be legal

they just like to watch the sexual interaction between two women, which is kinda hypocritical