no threesome here

with 3 girls sounds like my ultimate fantasy =D dreamt about that many times haha

i think a guy would ruin it though... maybe thats just because I'm gay not bi. But it would feel weird even in front of a guy, even if I didn't have to be with him.

... I'm thinking about this too much :l

I've never had that experience (i.e. having a boyfriend who wanted a threesome). All the guys I dated always wanted me all to themselves. That said, I have a little experience in this area and have to advise anyone contemplating it that threesomes are a BAD idea. It's a much better fantasy than reality, because there is always going to be one person not on the same page as the others and it will change your situation in unanticipated ways. If you are in a relationship, keep it monogamous. That said, if you are into playing around with someone and have a partner, I suggest any number other than 3. Mwaha. I, personally, am very much the monogamous one. However, I have had an adventurous life and am more than willing to share advice for the greater good. LOL.

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if it's an all girls affair why would i say no? like what the above posters said, it's an ultimate fantasy and a guy would freakin ruin it 

one penis is one too many...   i dont know how i would be with all girls..  if i was in a relationship then i think it might make it uncomfortable

i guess it would be a hot fantasy  but not a great reality

I try to play Devil's advocate and put it back on them by bringing up one woman with two guys.

-------------they usually leave me alone after that. 

Here's my awkward threesome story (oh yes, I have one): I was with this guy for quite some time, and one night we were partying with some friends, two of which were very beautiful ladies who loved the ladies as well. Some ecstasy was involved and next thing you know, my former-bf is telling me that whatever I want to do, I can do, he's always been cool with my bisexuality, I'm an adult, he's all for it and won't be mad or involved, it's all good, blah, blah, blah.

So shenanigans occur between me and the two ladies, no guys involved. As it turns out, my ex dissolved into a puddle of jealousy, insecurity, suspicion and this weird compulsion to constantly joke/threaten that the next time that opportunity arose he was going to be the star of the show. He never let me live it down, despite his suggestion to do the damn drug (It was my first time. Aw.) and then totally giving me the green light at the time, choosing, instead, to demean and guilt-trip me at every turn for the rest of relationship afterwards.

This is a complex matter revolving around personal preference, motivation, and the troublesome concept of fully informed consent.

I'm monogamous, but I am grateful for my polyamourous friends.  Conversations with them, and the opportunity to see the various configurations of poly partnerships, have contributed enormously to my understanding of what I want from my relationship and the importance of honesty and being prepared to actually work at it rather than expect my partner to read my mind and fall into line with my wishes and resent it when that doesn't happen.  My poly friends have taught me a great deal about effective communication, and shown me what happy, healthy, sustainable relationships look like - and what a total disaster awaits those without the self-awareness and honesty to make relationships (whether committed or casual) work.

Threesomes are all too often messy, emotionally scarring events because those involved have just dived in without working out what their motivations are for doing it, without discussing the ground rules and personal boundaries between them, and without fully disclosing their reasons, their desires, their expectations, or their fears.  

We just do relationships really badly in the UK and US (don't know about elsewhere).  We are fed the lie that romance = sponteneity = never having to actually understand or communicate our emotions or work to understand others'.  We all know how that works out with couples, and with casual group sex for a bit of a giggle or commited poly relationships it is exponentially worse simply because the more people involved, the greater the opportunity for hurt.

So, no threesomes here.  But I'm not morally opposed to others doing it.  I am morally opposed to deception, manipulation, coercion, and the deliberate use of another person without thought or care for their welfare.  Oh, and to the misogynistic and biphobic assumption that female sexuality is there solely for the gratification of men, and that bi women exist simply to perform for men.