"Spaghetti Lesbian, straight until ..."

Gay bar or community center. Since Houston is a city it shouldn't be difficult to find one.

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hit on every girl you see...... become shane... endless one night stands..... goooddd timessss.... until you find the one then stop the one night stands

"But just came out of the closet i don't wanna go back in..."

I don't know how you feel about like... meeting people from the internet. But Okcupid.com is a really gay-friendly site and it will help you locate all the bisexual/lesbians in your town. You can try meeting people through there and talking to them and getting more acquainted with your "bisexual/lesbian side"

Also you can google gay bars, GSA's, LBGT events and such on google for your area. :)

Good Luck.

And don't feel insecure or anything... your gay coming-to story was much like mine was only 7 months ago.

Gay bars are good places to pick up girls for an adventure. And you can hit on the girl without risk. I mean most of the girls go there for having fun.

"Kind words can be short and easy to speak but their echoes are truly endless."

The prblem is..I haven't come out to my close firends yet and I don't want to go to a bar alone, just from experience when i went to bars with friends it was already dangerous enough!

I just wish i can meet a hot girl at starbucks that's intereted in me and then we hit it off, oh life would be perfect! ;)

oh! i found these dates and i thought of your post.

The Pride Fest's in texas are:

I feel pretty much the same. I'm 39 & have only ever been with men. Been hit on by women b4, but was never interested at all. Then I saw Anna Torv kiss Shelley Conn on Mistresses & I thought it was the most beautiful thing I had ever seen. I have a friend who has flirted with me for over a year. I just recently started flirting back & we have been going out. She tells everyone we're dating, & a mutual friend told me she wants me badly. I told him I want her too, but I am too shy to make a move. We went to her house recently & she went to plug a sign in & dropped her pants in front of me (yes, she had panties on) & I just froze. I couldn't do anything. She just pulled the pants up & acted like it never happened. I wanted so badly to touch her, but I have never been the one to make the move. I just wish she would kiss me. Then it would be on. I don't know how old u r, but believe me-discovering at 39 that I am attracted to women is a strange journey for me. I wish this would have happened when I was younger & had more confidence. I say go for it while you're young. Put yourself out there. If you've never had to approach a man, then I'd say women will find u attractive also, & maybe the women will approach u. Look around. If a woman catches your eye, hold her gaze a second too long-perhaps she'll approach u, or maybe buy u a drink from across the bar. Just know that there r women out there in the same boat with u & that we all r wishing u well.

Yeah, I have to make a move soon, because my lady is moving also. In the next month or two she's going to be moving three states away. I thought it would be the perfect opportunity for me, because if I make a fool out of myself, I probably would never have to see her again. She says she wants me to visit her there, who knows. She told me she's been with a woman b4, but she has been in trouble at work several times for touching other women, so I suspect she's been with more than just one. She at least is very attracted to women, even though she just ended a relationship with a man. I think I'm going to text her today & tell her that I'm dying to kiss her, & see what sort of response I get. Hopefully it will be great. :) I mean, I've never had any complaints from men in my past, but I'm curious to see if a woman would enjoy me as much. We're both Virgos, don't know if that's good or bad. I just believe that the best thing we can do in life is connect with another human being on an intimate level. The most pleasure I have ever known was by totally losing myself in giving another pleasure. Unfortunately, love & lust are often mistaken for one another, & I've had men fall for me when I didn't want them to. I don't want to develop a love relationship with this woman since she will be moving, & I'm hoping she'll feel the same and we can just enjoy one another for this short time. That's my intent anyway.:) Thanks for allowing me to ramble on.

first - i've been out for awhile and never heard of the term"spaghetti lesbian" it made me chuckle.

anyway, on to your dilemma.. really meeting and approaching women is a trial and error process. obviously you are giving off gay vibes because she felt compelled to push you against the wall and kiss you. ive never tried that approach before but i might. haha

some people say that you can tell from looking at a girl's eyes. some say its how they lean in or touch you. in my experience its always been different. my advice to you is to not put pressure on yourself in trying to figure out whether a girl is gay or not. get to know her first, what does she like? what is she into? genuinely try to see how she is as a person and the gay subject is bound to be talked about one way or another. i live in nyc so the gay scene is a little bit bigger here than in texas. try going to local websites and school LGTB meetings. but like i said, its a trial and error process and we all find our own way. i went to my local gay center - perhaps you have one too.

good luck!