"Spaghetti Lesbian, straight until ..."

You guys, I need some SERIOUS advice. I need help with meeting women, coming out, and relationships

Okay let me start by summing up my bio as short as I can...I am a bisexual, yes and if you think like Megan Fox then you might not want to go on. (And no i will not be going into detail about sex with men). Anyway, I've just recently found out my feelings toward women was not only an emotional one, but also a sexual one. How? It's your typical "spaghetti lesbian, straight until wet" story. I will definitely be talking about that later. All throughout life I have never once met an out lesbian. Maybe I have though but the thing is, my gaydar doesn't work! So what do I need advice on? One, How and where do I meet lesbian women in Houston? Two, How do I know if they're a lesbian so when and if I work up enough courage to approach them I won't look like a fool. three, what's the best way to get her attention. And finally, how do I let the person i'm interested in know that i am a lesbian? This is all very new to me so please don't take anything I say offensively.

I have never had any problems meeting guys before, but I've never had to approach a man so I have no clue what to do. Why is it so easy to find a man but not a lesbian woman?

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That aside, let me tell you about the girl who made me realize my love for a woman's body. Let's call her "K". I had a class with K and from day one i thought that she was beautiful but nothing more than that. She approached me one day after class as we were both walking to our cars and asked me where i had my tattoo on my lower side done and i told her i got it done by this guy in town, she said and i quote "i will only let a woman touch my body, i don't like it when men do it, it's too hard" (yes, i realize now that it meant something deeper than that). I still had no idea this girl was a lesbian, i know but like i said, i didn't really know aany lesbians. Fastforward 2 months and we're at her apartment with 2 other people working on a project. As everyone was packing up she went over to get my drink and spilled it all over my shirt and then offered if i wanted to borrow a tshirt and i said yes, cokes get stickyy. I was washing up in her bathroom when she busts through the door and kissed me! (It was like when Marina went in to kiss Jenny, only i didn't kiss and leave) After 3 second she pulls away and apologized and told me that she's wanted to do that for so long and that she made advances at me but i never did anything which drove her crazy, keep in mind, i didn't even know she was flirting. I was up against this girls bathroom wall with nothing but my boyshorts and her tshirt on and i have to say it was so freaking SEXY! She turned me around and picked me up onto the sink and..well you know what happens next. This happened last week so thinking about it still gives me tingles!
Anwyway I'm devastated because she told me she's going back to school in Cali and told me she had fun with me blah blah blah. She hit and quit. I'm still really stuck on her, being my first and all. I was so sad that i even considered sleeping with my ex! Oh and i gave up men until i have sex with a woman again. The only man in my life is Johnnie Walker. I need to get over this girl and fast because i do not want to end up doing something that i am going to regret.

Any ideas? I'm up for almost anything!