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Awkward girls

Hi all. I'm new to this forum business so please bear with me if I did anything wrong. Anyway, I just wanted to ask if any of you girls find socially awkward and dorky girls appealing? I believe that I'm socially awkward and weird that sometimes I find it hard meeting and socializing with people which makes it difficult for me to meet girls, and I would really like to meet some girls =D. It's just that I have self-esteem issues and I get discouraged easily so I need to work on that but hopefully I'll get there.

Any comments will be appreciated.

Cheers.

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Submitted by
forever_young (30 posts)
on May 8, 2009 - 3:38am.
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Monique's picture

Awkward and dorky girls are

Submitted by
Monique (879 posts)
on May 8, 2009 - 4:15am.

Awkward and dorky girls are cute :). And being shy is ok. I'm shy if i get into a nev enviroment, but after i getting used to it, the shyness goes away. In most cases you don't need too much effort to overcome your weakness. Take care.

"Kind words can be short and easy to speak but their echoes are truly endless."

pippin's picture

don’t ever get

Submitted by
pippin (5 posts)
on May 8, 2009 - 5:27am.

don’t ever get discouraged. i was awkward and dorky when i was young. as i got older, the awkwardness went away, but alas the dorkiness stayed. and for someone who lacked social skills, i managed to meet a wonderful woman who found my dorkiness adorable and still does (we celebrate our 14th year together next week!). so here’s to being awkward, dorky and shy!

aDefinishChance's picture

awkward girls are adorable

Submitted by
aDefinishChance (79 posts)
on May 8, 2009 - 7:48am.
awkward girls are adorable :) I'm always falling for them. I suppose awkward people are just easier to relate to, as I'm pretty shy and can be a bit awkward myself sometimes.
MaKalynn's picture

YES!!!!

Submitted by
MaKalynn (89 posts)
on May 8, 2009 - 9:06am.
My girlfriend is awkward in all ways and I think it is the most adorable thing in life. It took me walking up and introducing myself for us to meet. So even if you don't go to meet a girl one might come up to you.
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I got the same problem

Submitted by
faith_in_buffy (138 posts)
on May 8, 2009 - 9:42am.

Its not that I'm generally socially awkward, I can talk to anyone. On a night out clubbing I always end up talkin to some random ppl when I go outside to the smoking area. But as soon as I am talkin to a woman I like all my social skills escape me and I find myself on a rant about how Tyra Banks is God or that Buffy should be taught in schools instead of shakespear.

Also I'm a major geek, I study Chemistry in uni and I love my PS3. I'm pretty much like every geeky character they have on comedies except I'm not a dude. My gay male friends all tease me and say I'm gonna end up a mad cat lady 'cause I'm so useless with women. Which wouldn't be so bad if I weren't allergic to cats! lol

"My life's like a romantic comedy that's never romantic! Or comedic! My life is nothing like a romantic comedy!" - Caitlin (Cashmere Mafia)

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haha!

Submitted by
Chillen (111 posts)
on May 8, 2009 - 10:28am.
hey being akward is a ok! im akward in crowds then i get this really mean look on my face. not mean perse more of a 'i'm new but i know what i'm after' look. either that or i become an agorophobic and get the innocent 'i'm lost and i'm about to cry look' which for some odd  reason attracts the hell out of men. being akward is adorable. don't worry you're ok hun!

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