"Lesbian" Music

My girl friend of 10 months and I always have this debate over "Lesbian" Music and I wanted to throw it out there.

First things First-she hates my music choices-HATES them.  I lived through day-glo, side pony tails and Ray Bans the first time, a true 80's girl, but my heart always lies in the music of the 90's.  I love me some DMB and BNL-which I definitely wouldn't throw under the Lesbian Music category-  I would, however, put the following artists under the category....

Tori, Sarah, Indigo Girls, Tracy Chapman are tops on my list.  The artists I love now are as follows-Ingrid Michaelson, Sia, Tegan and Sara, and the likes.  Today or yesterday, I love female singer/song writers. 

She does not.  Her musical tastes lie along the lines of Journey, Heart, Dolly Parton, and Johnny Cash.  Whenever I turn on my "Whiny girl music" as she refers to it, she cringes and says that it reminds her of her first lesbian love affairs back in college.

So the question is-is there such a thing as "Lesbian Music" and if so what do you think it is?  or if not-Who are your favorite feel good "go to" artists?

OhioLezgirlinNYC

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