Real Lesbians do exist and are soooo over men, including sex and relationships with men

I've been reading some of the topics about bisexual women, faux lesbians who have sex with men and lesbians who enjoy gay and straight porn. For the most part I've been laughing my ass off because I and many other gay women I know are so far removed from the assumptions that the original posters write as if they were carved in stone.

Personally, I have not had sex with a male in over 25 years nor do I have any desire to. I never think about them, get attracted or want to (ugh) date a man. I used to open doors for guys when I was a teen and still finding my true sexuality. The boys I thought I like all turned out to be gay. They also happened to be pretty like girls. Ta-da! I knew very early on where my heart was. Of course, I find some men (mostly actors) to be attractive from the neck up but I still don't want to be with them.

Why marginalize lesbians and throw all this nonsense at them when most lesbians have had to process their own identities before realizing they solely loved women. We have been castigated for too long by society's and religions' heterosexual values - do we really need more bullshit spewing forth on this website? We are everywhere and one size does not fit all.

There's no need to justify to what I believe are trolls among us who want to get a rise from us to give themselves a sense of power and control. Instead, we should create a supportive safe AE forum that nurtures our true selves, whether it be lesbian, bi or the rest of the GLBT rainbow.

Personally, I'm just turned off by the psychobabble that some of these topics cover and I wouldn't be surprised that some posters are really men who want to have a go at us. I have pretty good Troll Radar and I say let's stop feeding them and they'll go elsewhere.