I don't brush my hair...I comb it with a wide-toothed comb. It's very tightly coiled...Sometimes I braid it and do two-strand twists. At others, I just wear it in my natural Afro.
What was the number one thing that convinced you that you are lesbian?
I rarely clean my ears, only when I think about the drill you get at the GPs to sort our ear wax, and the gooey crap that flows out of the knobby bit of the drill.
I check the mirror on average 6 to 10 times.
We've just got a lot of mirrors, and I might be including everytime I look down and back up again while I'm brushing my teeth.
Did you ever have a crush on your teacher? If so, describe.
The first teacher I crushed on was in year 6, followed by my Art teacher in year 7, my Science teacher in year 9, and my English teacher in years 11 and 12, Ms. Potts. I normally don't have trouble making conversation, but whenever I'd try talking to her, I'd choke up and my head suddenly turned into a trashy porno, from glimpses of cleavage or a sniff of perfume. :| Suffice to say, I worked extra hard in class to impress her and went so far as to sniff my essays after she'd marked them.:|:| LMAO, that's terrible!
She since married and I hear she's also a mum. If only she knew. *heavy sigh* :P
Describe a time when you did something disgustingly gross.
The first rule of Bingo Club is - you do not talk about Bingo Club.
When I was in grade 6, I was nervous for a track meet we were having that day. I didnt want to go to the bathroom, even though I felt queasy. So, I just sat at my desk and waited for it to go away. And then I puked all over my desk. I had eggs and bacon for breakfast too. I didnt even tell the teacher I had thrown up the girl sitting next to me did. But the class got recess for the rest of the day and they still let me run in the track meet. (First place, haha)
my now girlfriend and i were sophomores in high school and we had been writing secret love notes to each other because we were soooo straight yeah right. i had just broken up with my first real long term boy. we were tripping all over each other in love. we were spending the night at my friends house and she was asleep and we were not. we just looked at each other in the dark. and she looked down so i kissed her forhead. then i decided to be bold whatever fuck society the urge was mad crazy crucial so i pulled her up by her chin gently, you know to not freak ehr out and i just fit my lips to hers like a dare. it was the most on fire alive i have ever felt in my life. and then our tongues got to know each other. lol. best kiss of my life.
My mother gave me one more reason not to call you on the phone She told me “chase girls like that all your life you will wind up alone” I guess I just would like to take you out for a cappuccino you refuse my advances once again I can’t hear one more “no” I wish you would get over him I’ll change your mind about everything When I wink at you, you always turn the other cheek I drilled a hole in the girl’s showers so that at you I could peek I'd love to get you naked and throw you in the back of my dads car I hear that if I get to third base with you It won’t be to far I wish you would get over him I’ll change your mind about everything As I grow older I feel better about me and myself I swear I never, ever once wished I was anybody else I’d like to tell you I think you should come up and see me sometime I know that I could possibly make it the best time of yer life I wish you would get over him I’ll change your mind about everything
Describe your perfect morning (it doesn't have to be early).
_ _ _ _ _
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." (Dr. Seuss)
My perfect morning is when I don't have to get up early to go to class. I wake up around 10 am, stay in bed watching TV and eating a bowl of special K for breakfast. And then just stay in bed till 2 o' clock when I fix my lunch and sit on my computer listening to music and surfing the web or whatever.
But my truly perfect morning would be spending it in bed with my girlfriend. not even having sex, but just to hold her while she sleeps (god I'm corny xD). Since her parents don't let her stay over, that remains a dream for now!
Oh boy, can you really prefer one over the other? Getting kissed is an unbelievable thrill, because you can be not expecting it, right? Oh the other hand, I think I prefer to be kissing, because then im a little more in control of the situation, and I can have all the fun getting my nerves up.
Have you ever experienced 'love at first sight'? If so, describe the situation.
Nope. :-P Boring old me (although I have experience with the phenomenon of "love before first sight").
Same ?
True happiness, we are told, consists in getting out of one's self, but the point is not only to get out, you must stay out; and to stay out you must have some absorbing errand. -Henry James
Don't make fun of me... but I really did do this. I had a girl that I was crushing on hard, and I knew she was a lesbian. I also knew she thought of me as a friend. I wanted her to really notice me, so I sent her a note (through campus mail) that had a poem in it. A secret admirerer note if you will. She began questioning all of our friends in that group, wanting to know who wrote it, but never thought to ask me. I wrote three more of those notes over the next two weeks. One of our other friends finally asked me if I knew who it was, so I asked what this girl thought of them. She told me that she had said that she would at least give the person a date and a chance, and if they were cute, she would probably go straight to them and plant a big one on them. So, I confessed to our friend that it was me, and though she promised not to tell my crush, she ended up doing so and I was outed. But unfortunately, I did not receive a date, but a lot of teasing because I was a freshman and everyone thought of me as their little sister. Sigh... they still make fun of me for it, and I still love that girl's smile.
Question: If you could meet the girl of your dreams, what would she look like, act like, etc?
" But soft! What light through yonder window breaks? It is the East and Juliet is the sun! Arise fair sun and kill the envious moon." - Sometimes I feel like Romeo.
would look like Katharine Mcphee. . .easy going, good sense of humor, loves sports, likes to just hang out, sweet, bitchy lol, intelligent, thoughtful, romantic. . thats all i can think of right now. . .this is probably why im single lol
maybe i have met that girl,who posseses unique charm as the girl next door...uh...actually she was once my neighbour and girlfriend.If i could meet my dream girl again,that's kinda like her...dark hair,with a sense of humor and great artistic talent....and....cook delicious supper for me...oh yes~
The l word question:Would you date with yourself if you met yourself in a lez club..
Nope, I probably wouldn't. :-P I hope I'd be nice to me though.
What is your biggest flaw?
True happiness, we are told, consists in getting out of one's self, but the point is not only to get out, you must stay out; and to stay out you must have some absorbing errand. -Henry James
I'm not one to limit myself, especially when I have so many, but I must say the one affecting me at the moment is my reluctance to realize that mixtapes are not always the solution to relationship problems (or any problems, really.)
On that note, what is the one must-have song on any of your mixtapes?
"Ahora entiendo que amar es liberar/Eres sangre tibia y yo/me siento vivo "
well i wanted to answer this bcuz itz all about the personality type of me.. i'd rather love someone, make their life better, give them all they want and need, bcuz when i know that i can make someone happy, i am satisfied.
Well my most embarrassing moment was when I tried out for ‘Pom Squad’ my Junior year of high school. They had a week of practices and I missed more then half of it. So when it came time for try outs, I did HORRIBLE! I had to perform the dance in front of some professional judges and other students from my school were watching. I was SOOO Embarrassed.
Come to think about it tho, during those try outs was when I met the girl I’m in love with now, So I guess it wasn’t all that bad. J
How do you know when you find the right person for you?
The first one, although I wouldn't complain about either. :)
What does your AE username mean/where does it come from?
True happiness, we are told, consists in getting out of one's self, but the point is not only to get out, you must stay out; and to stay out you must have some absorbing errand. -Henry James
Nickname I got in high school because I love to make others laugh. LOL Of course, I was also called Killer cuz I was such a soft-hearted gal. I'd rather set bugs free rather than kill them. Yup, think I chose the better of the two here. :)
I can't remember my last impulse buy. I almost bought drain cleaner today until the Polish blood in me took over and read the label and decided I'd rather not waste GBP3.19. Does that count? So much for impulses... *Rolls eyes*
Same, since my (lack of) answer sucks?
True happiness, we are told, consists in getting out of one's self, but the point is not only to get out, you must stay out; and to stay out you must have some absorbing errand. -Henry James
umm i guess my last impulse buy was when i was in New Orleans for Mardi Gras i saw a shirt that said New Orleans drinking team and i had to have it. . .lol
How old were you when you had your first real relationship with a girl?
A great kiss for me is when you don't even want to stop to breathe..when her lips are soft and when she gently bites on my bottom lip and then runs her tongue up along my top lip, where it starts off slow and then grows and little more aggressive and your hands find the perfect place to slide up and down..and when you're done, your vision is just a little blurry and your heart is racing..yess i LOVE it!!! :D
What is your perfect movie scene romance/like what type of scene would you want for your own love life, whether just a first date, kiss, or whatnot?
Well... I cant think of a movie but I can think of a show... Although I haven't seen all the episodes, I like the relationship Spencer and Ashley had on South of nowhere. It was so sweet. They did everything for each other and were always there for each other. They both went to hell to love each other, even battling with parents (to which most people are afraid to do). I really admire that....its true love. :-)....but I guess thats not a scene. lol I would have to say i liked the episode when Spencer and Ashley got caught at Ashleys House by her mom. And they fought to show that they really did love each other. :-D?
If you could have anyone in the world to be your soul mate, who would it be and why?
Just recently was stressed out with work... had some deadlines to meet and was working some serious overtime.. anyway got home, my partner had made a trail with rose petals from the front door to the bath room... had filled up a hot bath, candles, glass of wine.. her in waiting.. Was very very good. Anyway, we try do keep the romance in the relationship and do this stuff regularly, am pretty lucky that way.
Which habit, from gf or partner drives you up the wall?(small stuff, like squeezing tooth past tube int the middle, etc)
"You and I wear the dangerous looseness of doom and find it becoming. Life, for eternal us, is now and now is much to busy being a little more than everything to seem anything, catastrophic included.."
i'd say maybe norah jones' first album come away with me. that was pretty much when i knew i couldn't live with myself if i wasn't seriously involved with music. good question by the way...
umm, ok..what little things make your heart beat oddly in a good, not i'm-about-to-have-a-heart-attack way? it can be with girls or non-related simple everyday stuff.
Eternal life, accompanied by eternal youth. If your only two career options were drug-dealer or prostitute, which would you choose? --Talk Derby to me.
If I could learn one new thing, it would be how to play the cello. I've always seen playing the cello as incredibly passionate and romantic. Womanly curves, anyone?
If you could choose the fate of the one person who effects you the most, what would you choose?
Random Question Game
Prison Break...
How many times a day do you brush your hair?
~live - love - laugh~
Random Question Game
I don't brush my hair...I comb it with a wide-toothed comb. It's very tightly coiled...Sometimes I braid it and do two-strand twists. At others, I just wear it in my natural Afro.
What was the number one thing that convinced you that you are lesbian?
OMG, you're gay
When I stopped and realised my female crushes greatly outnumbered my male crushes by about 10:1.
Do you enjoy cleaning your ears and if so, how much?
"My tongue's the only muscle on my body that works harder than my heart."
answers to questions
don't brush hair too short and they then to "shape" themselves in the morning.
touching a guy's hand makes me want to puke.
love cleaning my ears, after every shower.
How many times do you check the mirror before you leave the house?
I rarely clean my ears, only
I rarely clean my ears, only when I think about the drill you get at the GPs to sort our ear wax, and the gooey crap that flows out of the knobby bit of the drill.
I check the mirror on average 6 to 10 times.
We've just got a lot of mirrors, and I might be including everytime I look down and back up again while I'm brushing my teeth.
Did you ever have a crush on your teacher? If so, describe.
Good with milk.
Yes, I crushed on several teachers.
The first teacher I crushed on was in year 6, followed by my Art teacher in year 7, my Science teacher in year 9, and my English teacher in years 11 and 12, Ms. Potts. I normally don't have trouble making conversation, but whenever I'd try talking to her, I'd choke up and my head suddenly turned into a trashy porno, from glimpses of cleavage or a sniff of perfume. :| Suffice to say, I worked extra hard in class to impress her and went so far as to sniff my essays after she'd marked them.:|:| LMAO, that's terrible!
She since married and I hear she's also a mum. If only she knew. *heavy sigh* :P
Describe a time when you did something disgustingly gross.
The first rule of Bingo Club is - you do not talk about Bingo Club.
Something gross huh?
When I was in grade 6, I was nervous for a track meet we were having that day. I didnt want to go to the bathroom, even though I felt queasy. So, I just sat at my desk and waited for it to go away. And then I puked all over my desk. I had eggs and bacon for breakfast too. I didnt even tell the teacher I had thrown up the girl sitting next to me did. But the class got recess for the rest of the day and they still let me run in the track meet. (First place, haha)
When was your first lesbian kiss? (Describe.)
Lookin' for love in ALL the wrong places!my now girlfriend and i were
my now girlfriend and i were sophomores in high school and we had been writing secret love notes to each other because we were soooo straight yeah right. i had just broken up with my first real long term boy. we were tripping all over each other in love. we were spending the night at my friends house and she was asleep and we were not. we just looked at each other in the dark. and she looked down so i kissed her forhead. then i decided to be bold whatever fuck society the urge was mad crazy crucial so i pulled her up by her chin gently, you know to not freak ehr out and i just fit my lips to hers like a dare. it was the most on fire alive i have ever felt in my life. and then our tongues got to know each other. lol. best kiss of my life.
what is your favorite girl love song?
"Everything" by Bif Naked
It's the first one that came to mind:
My mother gave me one more reason
not to call you on the phone
She told me “chase girls like that
all your life you will wind up alone”
I guess I just would like to take you
out for a cappuccino
you refuse my advances once again
I can’t hear one more “no”
I wish you would get over him
I’ll change your mind about everything
When I wink at you, you always
turn the other cheek
I drilled a hole in the girl’s showers
so that at you I could peek
I'd love to get you naked and throw you
in the back of my dads car
I hear that if I get to third base with you
It won’t be to far
I wish you would get over him
I’ll change your mind about everything
As I grow older I feel better
about me and myself
I swear I never, ever once wished
I was anybody else I’d like to tell you I think you should
come up and see me sometime
I know that I could possibly make it
the best time of yer life
I wish you would get over him
I’ll change your mind about everything
Describe your perfect morning (it doesn't have to be early).
_ _ _ _ _
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." (Dr. Seuss)
perfect morning
My perfect morning is when I don't have to get up early to go to class. I wake up around 10 am, stay in bed watching TV and eating a bowl of special K for breakfast. And then just stay in bed till 2 o' clock when I fix my lunch and sit on my computer listening to music and surfing the web or whatever.
But my truly perfect morning would be spending it in bed with my girlfriend. not even having sex, but just to hold her while she sleeps (god I'm corny xD). Since her parents don't let her stay over, that remains a dream for now!
Do you prefer to kiss or get kissed?
kisses
Oh boy, can you really prefer one over the other? Getting kissed is an unbelievable thrill, because you can be not expecting it, right? Oh the other hand, I think I prefer to be kissing, because then im a little more in control of the situation, and I can have all the fun getting my nerves up.
Have you ever experienced 'love at first sight'? If so, describe the situation.
random question game
Nope. :-P Boring old me (although I have experience with the phenomenon of "love before first sight").
Same ?
True happiness, we are told, consists in getting out of one's self, but the point is not only to get out, you must stay out; and to stay out you must have some absorbing errand. -Henry James
random question game
No "love at first sight" but definite LUST at first sight! Oh, how I love a girl with a cute smile... OK, moving on.
Is there something you regret in a relationship, if so, describe.
Lookin' for love in ALL the wrong places!The only things I regret in
The only things I regret in relationships were things I didn't do...or held back from doing for some reason if that makes any sense.
Name one of your favorite gay/lesbian/queer novels and why.
I love erotica because it
I love erotica because it gives me ideas lol...but i'm also writing a book right now, and i'm falling in love with my own character...
what's the most you've gone out your way to get a girl to notice you
~I got that remedy~
Had to answer this one...
Don't make fun of me... but I really did do this. I had a girl that I was crushing on hard, and I knew she was a lesbian. I also knew she thought of me as a friend. I wanted her to really notice me, so I sent her a note (through campus mail) that had a poem in it. A secret admirerer note if you will. She began questioning all of our friends in that group, wanting to know who wrote it, but never thought to ask me. I wrote three more of those notes over the next two weeks. One of our other friends finally asked me if I knew who it was, so I asked what this girl thought of them. She told me that she had said that she would at least give the person a date and a chance, and if they were cute, she would probably go straight to them and plant a big one on them. So, I confessed to our friend that it was me, and though she promised not to tell my crush, she ended up doing so and I was outed. But unfortunately, I did not receive a date, but a lot of teasing because I was a freshman and everyone thought of me as their little sister. Sigh... they still make fun of me for it, and I still love that girl's smile.
Question: If you could meet the girl of your dreams, what would she look like, act like, etc?
" But soft! What light through yonder window breaks? It is the East and Juliet is the sun! Arise fair sun and kill the envious moon." - Sometimes I feel like Romeo.
Dream Girl
would look like Katharine Mcphee. . .easy going, good sense of humor, loves sports, likes to just hang out, sweet, bitchy lol, intelligent, thoughtful, romantic. . thats all i can think of right now. . .this is probably why im single lol
maybe i have met that
maybe i have met that girl,who posseses unique charm as the girl next door...uh...actually she was once my neighbour and girlfriend.If i could meet my dream girl again,that's kinda like her...dark hair,with a sense of humor and great artistic talent....and....cook delicious supper for me...oh yes~
The l word question:Would you date with yourself if you met yourself in a lez club..
random question
Nope, I probably wouldn't. :-P I hope I'd be nice to me though.
What is your biggest flaw?
True happiness, we are told, consists in getting out of one's self, but the point is not only to get out, you must stay out; and to stay out you must have some absorbing errand. -Henry James
Mixtapes and such
I'm not one to limit myself, especially when I have so many, but I must say the one affecting me at the moment is my reluctance to realize that mixtapes are not always the solution to relationship problems (or any problems, really.)
On that note, what is the one must-have song on any of your mixtapes?
"Ahora entiendo que amar es liberar/Eres sangre tibia y yo/me siento vivo "
"The Nearness of You", as performed by Norah Jones
"Better than a thousand useless words is one word that brings us peace."
--The Dhammapada
Without a doubt....
Kina-Girl From the Gutter
I'm stealing this question from Nicole Kidman cuz I think it's a great one. Would you rather love or be loved?
*~...and this is where I want to live, right here between your hips~*
love..
well i wanted to answer this bcuz itz all about the personality type of me.. i'd rather love someone, make their life better, give them all they want and need, bcuz when i know that i can make someone happy, i am satisfied.
what can't you live without???
~I got that remedy~
magda.
my camera, shes so beautiful and we're just so happy together. life without magda would just be un documented.
um... whats your most embarrising moment?
Love
Well my most embarrassing moment was when I tried out for ‘Pom Squad’ my Junior year of high school. They had a week of practices and I missed more then half of it. So when it came time for try outs, I did HORRIBLE! I had to perform the dance in front of some professional judges and other students from my school were watching. I was SOOO Embarrassed.
Come to think about it tho, during those try outs was when I met the girl I’m in love with now, So I guess it wasn’t all that bad. J
How do you know when you find the right person for you?
~Im 100% PROUD.... Are you?~
When you can breath
When you can breath easy....
Which is sexier to you on a girl? A cleavage bearing tank top and tight jeans, or a vintage band t-shirt, worn in jeans, and chucks?
*~...and this is where I want to live, right here between your hips~*
Random question
The first one, although I wouldn't complain about either. :)
What does your AE username mean/where does it come from?
True happiness, we are told, consists in getting out of one's self, but the point is not only to get out, you must stay out; and to stay out you must have some absorbing errand. -Henry James
High School
Nickname I got in high school because I love to make others laugh. LOL Of course, I was also called Killer cuz I was such a soft-hearted gal. I'd rather set bugs free rather than kill them. Yup, think I chose the better of the two here. :)
What was your last "impulse buy"?
random question
I can't remember my last impulse buy. I almost bought drain cleaner today until the Polish blood in me took over and read the label and decided I'd rather not waste GBP3.19. Does that count? So much for impulses... *Rolls eyes*
Same, since my (lack of) answer sucks?
True happiness, we are told, consists in getting out of one's self, but the point is not only to get out, you must stay out; and to stay out you must have some absorbing errand. -Henry James
Impulse Buy
umm i guess my last impulse buy was when i was in New Orleans for Mardi Gras i saw a shirt that said New Orleans drinking team and i had to have it. . .lol
How old were you when you had your first real relationship with a girl?
first real realationship
i was 14 she was 19 i moved in her apartment n we lived together for 2 yrs...i grew up fast
Next question
The previous poster didn't ask a question, so I figure I don't have to answer any, whew lucky me.
What was the last thing that made you smile?My favorite friend quit her
My favorite friend quit her job and came back into town...so now we have happy hour plans tonight :D:D:D:D
What's a major deal breaker when your out on a first/second date with someone?
*~...and this is where I want to live, right here between your hips~*
The kiss of life
Definitely the kiss....if its a sloppy mouth washing one, it certainly is a deal breaker....hehe
What constitutes a great kiss?
for me
A great kiss for me is when you don't even want to stop to breathe..when her lips are soft and when she gently bites on my bottom lip and then runs her tongue up along my top lip, where it starts off slow and then grows and little more aggressive and your hands find the perfect place to slide up and down..and when you're done, your vision is just a little blurry and your heart is racing..yess i LOVE it!!! :D
What is your perfect movie scene romance/like what type of scene would you want for your own love life, whether just a first date, kiss, or whatnot?
~I got that remedy~
Spashley!!!
Well... I cant think of a movie but I can think of a show... Although I haven't seen all the episodes, I like the relationship Spencer and Ashley had on South of nowhere. It was so sweet. They did everything for each other and were always there for each other. They both went to hell to love each other, even battling with parents (to which most people are afraid to do). I really admire that....its true love. :-)....but I guess thats not a scene. lol I would have to say i liked the episode when Spencer and Ashley got caught at Ashleys House by her mom. And they fought to show that they really did love each other. :-D?
If you could have anyone in the world to be your soul mate, who would it be and why?
~Im 100% PROUD.... Are you?~
Question
it would deff be Katharine McPhee . . . shes amazing. .. she's beautiful and she can sing and she's just soooo adorable (sigh) :)
What is the first thing on a woman that grabs your attention?
Her butt, hips, legs, and/or
Her butt, hips, legs, and/or waist.....lol,sorry couldn't pick just one.
What was the most romantic thing a girl has done for you for no reason. No birthdays, holidays, or personal anniversaries count :)
*~...and this is where I want to live, right here between your hips~*
well...
Just recently was stressed out with work... had some deadlines to meet and was working some serious overtime.. anyway got home, my partner had made a trail with rose petals from the front door to the bath room... had filled up a hot bath, candles, glass of wine.. her in waiting.. Was very very good. Anyway, we try do keep the romance in the relationship and do this stuff regularly, am pretty lucky that way.
Which habit, from gf or partner drives you up the wall?(small stuff, like squeezing tooth past tube int the middle, etc)
"You and I wear the dangerous looseness of doom and find it becoming. Life, for eternal us, is now and now is much to busy being a little more than everything to seem anything, catastrophic included.."
Mispronouncing words or just
Mispronouncing words or just using them incorrectly.
What cd has changed your life the most?
hmm..
pitter... patter...
those casual or accidental moments of physical contact with some one i'm crushing on... sigh.
if a photograph of one part of your body were to be used in an advertisement, which part would you choose and for what product or service?haha
ha.
I don't think anything has ever come out of my nose that wasn't supposed to lol.
hmm. If you could have one wish, what would it be.. Be honest.
wish
sounds all too familiar
ok ok, that was a jokey joke.. but i'd pick drug dealer, gotta love to hussle..
If you could go back and redo one day of ur life.. what would it be???
~I got that remedy~
No Cheating!
When I cheated on an ex :-(
How do you know when you are still in love with an ex?
~Im 100% PROUD.... Are you?~
damn this gay ex curse!
I think if you are currently with your gf/bf and you still think about the "x"...not necessarily the wet dreams believe me!
Loved this question so Ima bring it back:
What's a major deal breaker when your out on a first/second date with someone?
Major deal
Major deal breaker-rudeness!
If you could learn one new thing what would it be?
One Thing?
If I could learn one new thing, it would be how to play the cello. I've always seen playing the cello as incredibly passionate and romantic. Womanly curves, anyone?
If you could choose the fate of the one person who effects you the most, what would you choose?