Secret single behavior
The longer I am single for, I find myself developing more and more secret single behavior, things that I do only when I am single, that I actually find quite satisfying. Such as
Ordering way too much take out thai, picking up several bottles of Red and watching marathons of my favorite shows, refuse to answer calls, texts or e mails, and just veg.
On saturday, after going for a run, i shower and put on new sweats, not intending on going anywhere or see anyone, I wont even bother with my contacts, just throw on the glasses, pull my hair back and put on a headband. Hot right, no wonder I am single!
Voulenteer more time because I actually have time that is mine, not 'ours'.
Spending an entire afternoon enveloped in a wonderful book, drinking numerous cups of coffee until it is time to switch to wine.
Cooking beautiful, big meals, knowing that I will be the only one eating it. I set the table nicely for one, light my candles, throw on Billie Holiday and enjoy the solitude.
Buy myself jewlery that I cannot really afford, but that gives me more satisfaction knowing I bought them, and not some girl, as I recenly noticed my jewlery collection is a battlefield of bloody relationship gifts.
Ladies, please tell me that you too, have secret single behavior!!



