Secret single behavior

But yea, I do have secret single behaviours! I too sometimes make myself unavailable so that I can lock myself away, wear daggy comfy clothes, not put on makeup and sloth on the sofa and/or in front of the puter, indulging in my "guilty pleasure" movies while eating a bag of something I prolly shouldn't... cos it's nice to "treat" myself once in awhile. I always ensure I have at least one day a week that is aaaaall mine, where I can think about anything and everything random.

I love your idea of a candlelit dinner for one... only I can't/don't cook. And oh, lol, I'm listening to Billie Holiday right now!

I find I crave my alone time when my life is busy/chaotic.

 

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This is the first time in my life I've heard anyone describe singlism this way. I guess mines would be. I buy,if finances permit, tons of groceries. Or expensive purses. I don't have time to cook for just one. Buy them anyway.  Some days I dress a lot more down and no make-up.  I also spend loads of time watching movies,reading and being on the net on my off days(I'm trying to change that).I rarely go out if I do -movies/bookstores only. I make excuses for myself. (Ironic b/c I'm a sociable womyn). I too refuse calls. I feel bad when I do. I enjoy my alone time. Right now it's nice. Peace and quiet.

I,too, like your candlelight dinner for one too. I should try that. As far as gifts from exes, I destroy those. I don't any reminders of what was.

Don't feel bad.

"Speak your mind, be the truth."

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I am tellin ya ladies, there is something incredibly satisfying about cooking an incredible meal and setting a nice scene for just yourself (If you cannot cook, order something amazing and take it home).  I for so long was cooking for two, and found that just because i am alone does not give me the excuse to eat out EVERY night, so I began to cook extravagant meals for myself only, and eat them alone in a fantastic environment catored only to me. (from time to time I will offer my neighbor a plate, but not actually to join, he does the same for me with yummy baked goods, not a bad deal). Miss Ketina, I would throw out the jewlery if I knew that I could afford to replacece, but most of it is way out of my budget so..what the hell, they say Diamonds(this includes pearls and all the fun things from Tiffany & CO too) are forever.  Noone mentioned anything about the relationship you get them from!