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Straight girls flirting with each other to get a guy?

Okay it used to be a way for straight girls to get rid of annoying guys by making out (kissing) her straight female friend.
Since many guys think a girl being bi is cool that doesn't seem to work any more.

The worrying part about it is that there are now straight girls out there kissing each other not to indicate they would be lesbian or bi but do this with the purpose to get the guy's attention.

I think this way of trying to get attention is so wrong. Anyone else thinks the same about it?


GraeLeigh's picture

Straight girls flirting with each other to get a guy?

yes i totally agree with you.

They are straight, can't they just speak their mind and tell the guy they are not interested, or that they are, instead of those games?
If all lesbians would do the same with men then this world will be even more messy that it already is :?

cosmiccowgirl's picture

Straight girls flirting with each other to get a guy?

If straight girls told me they were kissing just to get a guy's attention, I personally would not believe them. I bet at least one of them is enjoying it, or they would have found a more direct way to attract guys.

fullofhope's picture

Straight girls flirting with each other to get a guy?

I beleive it would happen, and i believe it because it happened a lot back in the days where i used to hang out with my sister (since i was too young to go out on my own) They are as straight as straight gets but they'd do that to attract guys and it always worked...

Of course back then they were 19-22 today they're 27-30, whenever i bring the subject up there's discomfort in the air...but they'd always twist it arround in a joke and eventually change the subject...
Thats how embarrassed they are.

crazy!!

Alex_Mystique's picture

Straight girls flirting with each other to get a guy?

[quote:fba97536a8="fullofhope"]I beleive it would happen, and i believe it because it happened a lot back in the days where i used to hang out with my sister (since i was too young to go out on my own) They are as straight as straight gets but they'd do that to attract guys and it always worked...

Of course back then they were 19-22 today they're 27-30, whenever i bring the subject up there's discomfort in the air...but they'd always twist it arround in a joke and eventually change the subject...
Thats how embarrassed they are.

crazy!![/quote:fba97536a8]

Yes it always works but well I think they are sending the wrong message towards all people. Lesbians/bi girls might think oh they are lesbian or bi so that is already creating false hope for kesbian and bi girls. Straight guys think hm bi girls they might want a threesome with me. Or well worse for the straight girls pretending to be bi/lesbian the guy might just want to watch how they put up a lesbian (sex) act in front of his eyes ...

code3's picture

Straight girls flirting with each other to get a guy?

I've helped my straight friends get guys by using the lesbian card. One night my friend, J was complaining that there weren't enough guys asking her to dance (we were at a kicker bar), so I took her hand and led her to the dance floor where we two stepped to a rather slow song. Sure enough, by the time we got done there was a guy waiting for her when were done. What can I say? I like to see my friends happy and men are so simplistic.

Aya's picture

Straight girls flirting with each other to get a guy?

I think by now it's pretty easy to tell when girls are doing it just for that reason. It's one of the many things straight women will do to get male attention. But it's probably one of the main reasons some women start to question their sexuality, and people in general become more comfortable with expressions of female to female attraction. So I guess maybe something good may come out of it.

As long as you don't get involved, it really shouldn't matter.

Miyuki's picture

Straight girls flirting with each other to get a guy?

I think it's the dumbest way to get a guy's atention.

I'm used to go out whit my straight girlfriends to pubs and clubs here in Uruguay because there aren't gay pubs ._. Well, one time one of my friends was pretty wasted and we were on this club (she's one of the ppl that knows that I like women) so she thought that I wouldn't mind if she kissed me to get guys atention. Well I did, I got really pissed of, but she apologized and said that she only did it 'cause she was drunk blah blah. I'm still angry with her.

fee's picture

Straight girls flirting with each other to get a guy?

[quote:482e8c17d9="Miyuki"]I think it's the dumbest way to get a guy's atention.

I'm used to go out whit my straight girlfriends to pubs and clubs here in Uruguay because there aren't gay pubs ._. Well, one time one of my friends was pretty wasted and we were on this club (she's one of the ppl that knows that I like women) so she thought that I wouldn't mind if she kissed me to get guys atention. Well I did, I got really pissed of, but she apologized and said that she only did it 'cause she was drunk blah blah. I'm still angry with her.[/quote:482e8c17d9]
It's your good right to be angry with her...how dumb is that :?


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