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does this happen to you guys?

okay, i consider myself a futch, with a femme leaning,  so i don't necessarily scream lesbian. i don't really hit on girls, either. but when i go out, usually when drinking is involved, it's like...straight girls flock to me. i'm not particularly flirtatious with them. it seems like every time i go out, there's some girl there and when her boyfriend walks away, she drops little hints and then we usually end up making out (hey, why not?). i was just wondering how often things like this happen to you guys.

damn those barsexuals.

and why are straight girls so hot? 


sftbllchik91's picture

ha...no but i wish that

ha...no but i wish that would happen to me.
Peta's picture

Heck yeah it does

in fact it happened to me just recently at a halloween party, i seem to attract straight boys and girls alike, if only i had that affect on gay girls..... damn the luck!!!!
~*brittany*~'s picture

haha, right? i get way more

haha, right? i get way more straight girls.

"if i ever start to think straight this heart will start a riot in me."

Stefanie Nunez's picture

It does happen

I'm not saying that it happens to me often, but there have been times that when I go out a straight girl hits on me. I usually try to avoid it but the last time I just couldn't because I was really attracted to her.
Stella Noir's picture

hmmmm.....i don't

hmmmm.....i don't necessarily think that it's straight girls that are hot. I think girls are just hot and there happen to be more straight ones available. But that's just a theory.

I actually had this problem when I dated guys, but now that I'm open to dating a woman--I get nuthin'.

Viva's picture

If you're BUYING

Of course they're gonna flock to you, whether you look femme or futch for the evening.  

 

 -<_>_<_>_<_>_<_>_<_>

"The first duty of a man is to think for himself"

Jose Marti

Sweet Melissa's picture

It happens but i dont go

It happens but i dont go for it, i guess they just wanna experiment and they thorow themselves at every possible lesbian encounter, i dont think a straight girl whos never been with women before is going to do anything extraordinary for me sexually speaking, right? itd be like pleasing some random chick just for the hell of it...  doesnt seem like a win-win situation to me

 

 

Sarah's picture

Yeah.

Unless you're up for that, it's just annoying...and a little bit offensive.

My problem doesn't really come from "looking gay" or whatever. Usually, it's my straight friends having biiiiiiiiiiiig mouth syndrome. A guy'll come up to me, and before I can turn him down gently, a friend'll basically yell, "She's a dyke, okay!"

That leaves me with a group of intrigued straight girls, and some guy with a bruised ego. Blah. A really need to go out alone more often.

My name is Tender. Tender Forever. http://www.fonfreaka.blogspot.com

Sweet Melissa's picture

lol!

my straight friends do that a lot too,  some of them tend to also kinda flirt and dance with me to get guys attenton, it pisse me off

Angela's picture

hahaha I tend to say no to

hahaha I tend to say no to straight girls, but then again all the straight girls that would want to kiss me were you're typical american eagle girls. blonde, boring,big boobs, just no into that. i like a funky artsy girl! now if a straight girl like that would want to kiss yeeaahhhh maannnn
Sweet Melissa's picture

yeah thats a totally

yeah thats a totally different kind of straight girl, im a sucker for them too =)
ice cream's picture

Haha i get that a lot... Not

Haha i get that a lot... Not ever drunk... sober too! I understand you... It's weird.. cause maybe straight girls are easy!!! hehe
Jackster's picture

Yeah this happened a lot to me

I'm bi and wouldnt really appear gay at all to someone who didnt know better. ie straight girls. But this would usually happen with girls who were friends of friends. Straight girls of course. I guess they might have heard through word of mouth from my friends that I like girls too because they would be all over me when no one was looking. Saying "your so beautiful" and touching and grabing me. And eventually leading up to making out with me. And its always the first time we meet.

And its not like its usually a problem or anything, Im usually all for it. But I kinda get upset when I think about it because I feel like they think just because I like girls means that I automatically wanna eff every girl I see. And thats definitley not the case. Geez, Im not an animal! lol. And I have to admit that a couple times this happened I started to like the girl. And if I've learned anything, I've learned that falling for a straight girl is BAD news.