first things first!!!

i just ticked another person off of my coming out list yesterday, and it was one of my band managers, *mark.

i'd built up enough courage to tell him, finally, so i just came out with it...

'I'm gay...are you ok with that?'

he just said ' yeh, that's fine with me, your sexuality's up to you...but are you sure?' (up to you?!?!?)

i was like...'sure about what' (i didn't want to think the worst of him - so i hoped i'd misunderstood him)

'about being gay?' he said

'umm...yes, i am definately gay, i've known for a long time... no offence, but why wouldn't i be sure of my own sexuality?'

'cos of hormones and teenage stuff...'

 WTF?!?!? how rude!!!! i don't get how someone can say that, especially when it concerns the gender of who you fall in love with!!!!

if sexuality had something to do with hormones, then alot of pregnant ladies out there would be in for a bit of a shock!!!! geez....!!!

what's the weirdest/most offensive thing someone has ever said to you after you came out to them?!?!?

xxx

ps. *name has been changed