Haha. I don't really remember any "hot and sexy" dreams, but that's mostly because I don't have wet dreams per se. I mean, any type sex is in one of my dreams it's usually symbolic for something. It's like 5 seconds and then flips to another scene. And most of the time I forget my dreams.

Anywho, one time like 4 years ago I watched a "Next" episode on Mtv, and then some night later I had a dream where I was laying on the roof of a house holding the hand of one of the girls on the show. I think she was leaving the area or something and we were both sad about it.

It really affected me mostly because I felt this really intense love. Like it really hurt that she was leaving. It was odd.

definitely! funny thing is growing up, i dreamt about both boys and girls. Now the dreams with boys were always romantic but then whenever the man would kiss me...i suddenly would be kissing another girl...

also i have had a reaccuring dream for about two years until i came out. there was me and a slightly older woman standing naked in a cabin in the woods. there is snow outside...inside the only light is from the fireplace...we are sitting in bed...and then the woman brushes the hair out of my face....she leans over to kiss me...and then i wake up...i never have been able to see the woman's face...only can remember that she is taller, with medium to short hair ....wears glasses and is thiner than me...within in the last month i've begun to have this dream again

and finally...i definitely have had and continue to have only really sexual "wet" dreams about women....i have really vivid dreams generally and can usually remember lots of details...the only sexual dream i had about a boy was about a celebrity who I cannot stand in my waking life...anyways i was so disturbed in the dream and disturbed when i woke up...definitely like a nightmare... :p

Yes, but I've also had dreams about men so I don't think just having a sexy dream about one gender or the other reveals all that much about your desires.  What's more important is how those dreams make you feel when you wake up and remember them.  When I have dreams about men I feel kind of grossed out and uncomfortable when I wake up; when I dream about women, on the other hand, I feel excited and happy and gooshy inside.

(Of course, I have way more dreams about women than men, so possibly my subconscious just can't be bothered with dudes.)

I've never had a wet dream involving a man.

Lately, I've been having some great reoccurring dreams involving a particular lady. I've been waking up really happy.

"Public transportation is for jerks and lesbians." - Homer

Of course that I have such ones,ahem :P The recent dream of mine was me and Bette (The L Word) making out lol

Before I realized I was gay I had had a few dreams about sex with few men,but they were not passionate and in general lame. I'd wake up after having  them and I'd be like "Ok,what could I have for breakfast?". On the other hand the lesbian dreams are always vivid,hot and so realistic & I don't wanna wake up then but keep dreaming *cough,cough*

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I don't think I ever had any sex dreams before I realised I was gay, then it was like the flood gates opened, and I'd have them pretty much every couple of nights. In the past 3 years since then, I've maybe had 3 or 4 dreams about guys, one was David Boreanez for some reason... and another was an ex housemate, I think the others were just random men.

I agree with Gee though, how you feel about the dreams really makes a difference. With the men, I was just ugh, could have lived without them, but then dreams don't really make much sense. With the women, they were hot and sexy, and I woke up wanting to go back to sleep.

When I was younger and I thought I was straight, I used to get a LOT of dreams in which I was the guy in the pairing...which confused me quite a bit. Though the straight "sex dreams" never did affect me the way my currents dreams do now...I just want to keep sleeping because they always end before they get good, like I was with this girl in this one dream and just before something happened...I asked her to show me the rest of her house...and then I woke up

 Though I more often have dreams where I am coming out to someone, because I have yet to do that. For instance, last night I was dreaming that I sent a facebook message to all my friends saying I was gay and when I woke up I had to remind myself that I hadn't actually done that...  

when I was younger I used to have dreams where I was the guy.  It was really weird because it was one dream where me and this girl were being chased by the cops (i don't know why), and then we go into this house (who's... I don't know) and start having sex.  It must have been a fantasy of mine... I guess.

recently in my dreams I am the girl with the girl, but now I dream (mostly) about friends, particularly the one I like.  

but my dreams haven't been to intense that they were "wet", usually I start dreaming about something random like having my teeth fall out or I go bald. lol 

Yeah, when I was younger I used to dream that I was the boy whenever I dreamt about a girl I liked because it just seemed that that was the way it was supposed to be.

I actually dream a lot about girls now, mainly girls I like in real life, or famous people/characters they play on tv. I've never had a sex dream about them though, the dreams are usually about us being in love, so there's kissing and then some cuddling and that's it.

Well, there was one with Bridget McManus that got a little sexy, haha! but honestly, the love dreams are the ones that make me wanna go back to sleep.

Yeah, I had some about one of my best friends in 6th grade about becoming her wife and then she wanted babies so I got a sex change. hahahah I still find it funny remembering when I asked my parents for a sex change because of that dream. And now 6+ years later I'm out and proud. :D

but mostly me in my dreams would start off with me being a girl then me turning into a guy. I wasn't comfortable with the idea of two girls together back then :/ weirdo 

Before I realised I was gay I never had sexual dreams about men unless it was me being forced by other people to sleep with some guy. And I've only had a couple of dreams about women that I can remember.

To be honest, my dreams tend to involve mad situations like gorilla masked terrorists flying massive paper airplanes into buildings. Or courtroom situations where my only notes were a bottle of orange juice (I really don't know, but somehow they were my notes!) and my old English teacher prancing around the place wearing an orange spacesuit. So yeah... they don't tend to be sexual or relationship minded at all. Haha.