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Which is more important to you, cuddling or sex?

which do u find more important.Well to me i find them equally need it.so i would love to know what u think

lespaul13's picture

well....

cuddling AFTER sex

 

duh

jackedup77's picture

Cuddling... if you include

Cuddling... if you include kissing.

Less effort, you can do it in public.  naked is best but not necessary

Cuddling is not considered cheating... well, not to me.

Shespider's picture

hmm

cuddling before and after sex haha

but I guess cuddling and making out it's ok for me :)

if my girlfriend were cuddling with someone else I would get a lil upset but I agree..I wouldn't consider it cheating.

now I wanna cuddle :(

 

 

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angie_baby06's picture

Cuddling that leads to sex

Cuddling that leads to sex and then cuddling to relax after amazing sex. Both are equally important : )

 My girlfriend is a $1300 plane ticket away from me and now i really want to cuddle too : (

Hank's picture

lol greedy asses.

everyone who's answered is all 'cuddling before sex' and 'cuddling that leads to sex'.

Sex.

Cuddling gets old if there's no sex to back it up.

 

I got a dick like a mule...with a big dick.

Lauren 's picture

Um

In the famous words of Bathilda from 'Gimme Sugar,'

"Spooning always leads to Forking."

Enough said.

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Dr. Gloria Nathan's picture

Sex. We can cuddle when we

Sex. We can cuddle when we are 90. But for now, sex then....sleep!
crayon face's picture

sex

sex

a good cuddle is always nice but great sex is better :D 

" i *Heart* Oy oy lady"

OceanZen76's picture

Depends on the mood...

After years of being together, the sex is still great, but sometimes when life gets real busy, those 15 minutes of cuddling on the couch mean everything.
jackedup77's picture

It's not that I don't

It's not that I don't appreciate sex

but there's something about being close and just spending quality time together.  Talking, listening to some music, watching a movie, or just staring at a sunset or something.

And for me, the best part about sex is the full body contact.

And cuddling isn't reserved for your partner, you can cuddle friends too.  I'm not one to have sex with my friends unless I want a relationship with them; But I'm all about friendly cuddling.

Jayhawker's picture

lets cuddle

right now its cuddliing...I haven't been to the sex part yet...so yeah

Even if I did have sex I think I would enjoy the cuddling more. 

 

renee's picture

both

cuddling is like the glue. so i say, cuddling between sex.
Melissa Hsu's picture

I think a like cuddling a

I think a like cuddling a lot. Dont get me wrong sex is great. But when have you ever complained about a disappointing cuddle.
emmon's picture

sex is like air....

you don't miss it until you're not getting any :P

sex is more important to me but cuddling is also important.  seems like they go together well.

 

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brackishtea's picture

Does being tied up considerd as cuddling...

There is no sex but there is an intimate bond(age) when your partner ties you up with ropes of love!

Mind in gutter yet again....

Ma-lis-a's picture

Might change when I get older...

...but I'd have to go with the cuddling for now. I find cuddling to be more intimate and personal. Maybe it's my young innocent mind *shrug*
Perks's picture

SEX!

try getting and orgasm from a cuddle...

 

difficult yeah?

 

jackedup77's picture

...

for some getting an orgasm from sex is just as difficult

...but more frustrating

ThePurpleSponge's picture

Cuddling is cute. Sex is

Cuddling is cute.

Sex is hot.

It all depends in what kind of mood a person's in.

Melissa Hsu's picture

I would have to say

Cuddleing. Sex is a plus.
V.'s picture

I need them both, equally.

I need them both, equally.  But when it comes down to it, sex wins.
She calls me Penguin Hooker's picture

cuddling

cuddling definitely. no contest

 

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Chris's picture

for me

I'm all about the cuddling...I mean you can have sex by yourself...but seriously you can't cuddle yourself... :p

Jen's picture

Hahaha

Honestly, I'm not much of a cuddler. It is rare that I do, and it has to be with someone who knows my boundaries. Sex...it takes me a while to be able to get to that point with someone because of past experiences so...I honestly don't know how to answer the question. Can I say neither? I say neither.
BooYouWhore's picture

*smoochie smooch smooch*

I'd be satisfied with kissing alone. I friggggggin loooooove to kiss.
puppylove's picture

well said, i could make out

well said, i could make out allll day.