so i'm on urbandictionary.com because i have nothing better to do and it makes me laugh. i just ran across a new word that is now going to be a permanent part of my vocabulary: barsexual http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=barsexual i can't really say that i hate them, because i started off as a barsexual. i don't really mind barsexuals...when i go out, i'm looking for a good time, and so what if they only want to make out with me to turn on some guys. what are your opinions on barsexuals?
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on June 11, 2008 - 9:29pm.
One of my friends is a
well I don't appriehiate
well I don't appriehiate the make out to turn on guys part. IN fact I do not have a high opion of women that do that. bar sexuals is there something about std's in that definition? yeah i loathe those type of women...its like no go away you want to turn on a man stay the hey away from me!
I really loathe barsexuals freakn' make it harder for men to understand lesbian means stay away ---do not want ---do not need-----go to another women------also it is a negitive image of what a lesbain or bisexual really is b/c then its like we are there for man's pleasure which I really resient. I get mistaken for straight a lot and its like damn it no give me sexy woman.....no ...no ....not you I don' want you ...your a man..we can only be friends.......I need sexy woman
haha
no no nno barsexual stay
LMAO!
Ugly barsexuals offend me the most
I know I'm a superficial prick when it comes to these things. When I plan to go to a bar I do not want some mildly attractive girl hanging on me to get attention from men. If you are attractive and a barsexual chances are you might get a kiss other than that I will not take that person seriously. Shit if this barsexual thing is serious, look at it like business to cash in on the stupidity of others (men). I find interesting that with the making out with other women, you can get free drinks. These are stuff times and luxury spending is slim, why not pass the expenses on to them. It's not like going to a bar you see good "representations" of people gay bi or straight. This might make me a "user", I see oppurtunist!
"Those who do not like you fall into two categories: The stupid and the envious. The stupid will like you in five years time. The envious, never. "`_the Libertine
barsexuals around the world
I live in lima, and was out a popular gay club last weekend, which attracts a mixed crowd. There were a group of girls with their male friends, and the girls were on the the dancefloor faux-lezing it up for the boys, the boys cheering them on. Fast-forward 1 hour, and one of the girls has hooked up with super-hot butch, the look on their faces was priceless.
Also, same night my friend was getting really wound up with the same group because they were making out all the time. She said that it's acceptable for them to come to a gay club and make out, but if we went to a 'straight' club and did the same we'd probably be thrown out.
does the same thing happen where you are, straight people going to gay bars and making out to prove they're not gay?
Good question. I would
Good question.
I would like to read an answer(s) as well.
i wouldn't be so quick to dismiss a barsexual
"it means vagina wig."
Bahaha I've definitely done
Bahaha I've definitely done the not-as-drunk-as-I'm-pretending-to-be act to make out with a girl whom I didn't want to know that I wanted to soberly make out. There was probably a better way to word this, but I am tired right now!
barsexuals irritate me...
but only because they sit up and make out with women all night and no one says anthing to them other than the guys cheering them on, but if they can tell you're a REAL lesbian/bisexual, guys wanna give you heat for it like 'ooh lemme join' or some shit. It's just irritating, that's all.
That, and when I was single, all these girls are making out with each other and I had no one to make out with. So lame. I like kissing too, laydeez.
I got a dick like a mule...with a big dick.
when i lived in Winnipeg my
when i lived in Winnipeg my girlfriend at the time and i used to go to straight clubs and dance and kiss just to get free drinks from guys. we weren't doing ti for the guys benifit we just wanted to party and were short on cash. we did have to leave early a couple times when we were actually approached by guys who wouldn't leave us alone and insisted that they could turn us onto penis. YUCK!
we tried to figure out a way to get free drinks at the gay bar but that just lead to gelousy and fighting
This is why I'm skeptical of
Hey I saved money using barsexuals!!!!!!!
I saved money on my alcohol spening (for car insurance) by using barsexual(s) inc.
When I'm in a bar or any kind of environment where alcohol and bad choices are made, I don't take anyone seriously. If a girl wants to act like an object for the pleasure of getting male attention fine, don't use me unless you're buying my drinks so I can make some bad decisions and lucrative profits (I'm an Econ major)! This is why I said before I tend to capitalize on the sexual fantasies of men, for my moentary gain! I am aware of what is going on (I think it's wrong) and I am HONEST about it. I tell them I'm gay/queer (they don't know what that means drunk) but if they really want to buy a drink for me, who am I a decent person to reject such "kindness".
I don't know about you but I have seriously saved a lot of money! $13 per drink is a lot considering I tend to drink like a fish. I'm going to my AA meeting next month (kidding).
Join the Hustle....of our drunken self indulgent youth!
I get it. don't hate the player, hate the game...
I'm not hating on you.
I've just gotten to a point where I could really care less about the objectification of women; because women play a big role in it and encourage it.
My response to anyone who says, "those women are being objectified" is, "Welcome to America."
Being an econ major, maybe you can see how our competitive market system has influenced the way we treat each other.
When you get a job, you have to sell yourself. When you're looking for a partner, you have to sell yourself. To men, Barsexuals are the models that come with the threesome option.
Yeah, I've put way too much thought into this; but, that's my job.
...13 dollars a drink... bloody hell!
If I walked up into any bar and the bartender was talking about 13 dollars, I'd walk my happy ass right on out of there. In Seattle drinks are half that price. I guess you've got a point. Now I know they're serious when they ask, "who's a girl gotta fuck to get a drink around here?"
Haha Supply and Demand!
I'm not too much of a neo-classical economist, but I tend to go for more of a Behavioral Economic with a splash of psycology school of thought....DIGRESSION!
I definetly see how our competitive market influences the incentives of being honest, which is slim and none, welcome to moral hazard! You did not put way too much thought into this for I have used game theory to monopolize on getting free drinks as sexuality being the commodity. Of course this will get me into trouble of jealous girls wondering why all the floating alcohol money is going to me and my cohorts of barsexuality. Call is a negative externality of my behavior. If I can apply this mental power to something better I should be well off, alas I'm young and moronic, so alcohol it is!
Yes $13 at a swanky martini bar, but one of those usually does the trick. Going to straight bar that sells cheap drinks is too dangerous for me, the risks are high and queer people like myself always get into homophobic trouble. The bars that have mixed queer-friendly crowd are usually expensive, but I don't mind :) I don't know why they think the pink dollar is pricey damn you DU POINT CIRCLE GAY YUPPIES >_<
yeah barsexuals kinda suck,
hahaha I never heard the
hahaha I never heard the term "barsexual" - I must admite, I used to be one, until I kissed a girl at her place :-P
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