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holy f**kballs, the NYC meet

On this day, May 18, 2008, I can die happy now. All thanks to everyone who came out today. Even though I live in NYC, I didn't go to last year's meet in Brooklyn because I was too timid. A year later, I got up the courage and just walked through the door (dragging a friend along helped). Today is the day I could ditch the straight world and be as "out" as I wanted to. I got to meet every celebrity (you all are) and they're all very nice and genuinely down to earth. I've also met some really friendly fellow fans as well. Everything was kind of crazy but i certainly had a fun time. Thank you once again AE for an amazing event.

Side question: For those who went, how old are you? My friend and I are both 17 and we were bummed out by the fact that everyone was older and could order a drink. However, that did not hinder us from enjoying ourselves. 

Oh, and Cathy couldn't make it : (  

Moments I remember

- I got the chance to tell the WGN ladies that I love their "podcasts".

- I couldn't catch her name but she went around asking the ladies to sign her boobs.

- Jill changing into the Save Spashley shirt.

- Bridget jumping up and down all the time.

- Someone smacking Karman's butt/ another got on her knees to bow down to her (I also did the "I'm not worthy" thing standing up) 

- Sarah telling me and my friend to get out of her picture. Then politely introduced herself to us after apologizing "sorry to assault you two strangers, I like to assault people after I meet them."

- Lastly, all of them smelled really nice. 

Anyways, so post your comments here about the meet for others who couldn't make it. 


JasmeenKru's picture

Good for you for stepping

Good for you for stepping out this year :D.

I've been far too busy lately to go to this years meetup. Next year if they have one in NYC, I'll be sure to cross the border from Canada and join in on the fun. :D.

Love to hear more from other members that were able to make it out.

Roughly how many people came out?

kckqoo's picture

I'd say

at its peak around 150.

It was very crowded and going from one side of the room to the other required clever maneuvers and a lot of sucking in stomachs.

If I'm back from college at next year's meet, I hope to see you there. ; )

Mrfreeze's picture

Sounds like it was fun! Who

Sounds like it was fun! Who was there? I'm bummed I oculdn't go.. "The whole world is going to hell and I'm driving the bus"
thearyy's picture

Smack That!

Hahaha that "person" that smacked karman's ass was me. and it was FABULOUS! she was cracking me up, as well as everyone else. it was the most amazing day!

I MADE A MCBENNETT SANDWICH! JEALOUS?!

steph77's picture

I'm 19 and so were all my

I'm 19 and so were all my friends so we didn't drink either lol everyone was sooo nice .. I <3 all the afterellen ladies =)
kristina.michelle's picture

I had the best time!

I talked for so long with Dee. She is really sweet and I enjoyed talking with her. She was using my camera to take some pics lol. I had her sign my Keep A Child Alive shirt from the AIDS walk this morning. Then I saw Bridget who is also a sweetheart, took a bunch of pictures with her and had her sign as well. Then Jill came over (again, super nice) and we took pics and I had her sign too. Everyone was really nice and easy to talk to. It was a really great atmosphere. If there's another get together in NY next year I'm definitely going!

kristina,michelle

Lilee16's picture

17 as well

 yeah i was a little bummed everyone there seemed to be older as well but i was kinda expecting it,  it was good time,  my mother and brother actually came with me in support. which is good cause i dont thinkk i could have went by myself,i froze up when i got to the door  i was like ' ok guys i made it to the door lets go home' but my mom and bro helped push me a little, and im glad i did, all of them were down to earth and very friendly, 

 

aussie_girl's picture

Damn it

I live in Australia and really wanted to go, but couldn't get time off school, ok thats sort of the truth, the truth is i don't think my grandparents (who don't know i'm gay, but i think my grandmother might have an idea that i am) who i also live with for the time being would have let me go and it would have been really expensive to get over there. seriously i dont understand the time difference, i know that America is a day behind Australia that i get, but the time, someone help me. Say that it's 12:00 pm here on a monday what would the time be over there, I have never been very good at math and if i try to work it out i would make a big mistake.

By the way i would Love to meet Sarah Warn and Lori, and the rest of the AE vloggers, i hope they decide to have a meet and greet in Australia, its a nice country, but im not biased.

Amazon aka Sara

kckqoo's picture

Sorry you couldn't be there

Maybe this website can help

http://www.timezoneconverter.com/cgi-bin/tzc.tzc 

SusanSusanSusan's picture

I'm so jealous!!!

If the AE vloggers are planning to come to Gay Days, let me know!  I live in Florida and I would love to go to an AE meetup!

 

mcloe's picture

sounds awesome

glad everyone had a blast. please share more details so us the unlucky people that couldn't go could at least imagine the atmosphere.

ooo... and people bowing to karman? i would do that if i had the chance. maybe next year :P

Sunsetsboriquena's picture

it was insanely awesome

im 19 and went there by myself but mangaged to join a group of girls my age n hang out with them the whole time while we work up the courage to talk to the AE ladies

Bridget was hilarious and i was soo surprised on how nice all of them really are

When i first got there i thought i might need a drink to actually talk to them but with them being so nice it wasnt that hard even though i didnt really say much cuz im soo shy

Although it was crowed like crazy in there i think i would go again next year...maybe this this time i'll gain more courage like u

steph77's picture

hey! I'm one of the girls

hey! I'm one of the girls you were hanging out with!! How long did you stay after we left? Anything interesting happen?!
oneeyedchicken's picture

mmm

 

do you know what they call "jealousy"? Yes? I thought so. Well... that's quiet my feeling right now. HAHAHA.. just joking... but really, I admire so much Sarah Warn.

stay well!

steph77's picture

haha aw

haha aw
brokemyback's picture

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Mrfreeze's picture

Was Kate there too?

Was Kate there too?
brokemyback's picture

yes, Kate showed up about

yes, Kate showed up about half-way through... she was really cute and really nice! :)
guiltyone58's picture

sooo jealous!

i wish i could have gone, but i'm just here...in texas...sad day.

 

aussie_girl's picture

hypothetical scenario

I hate you all!!!!!!!!!! No not really i love you all, i  am just soo jealous that most of you got to meet the AE and 3way gang. What must i do to meet them?

oh Katy thanks for the link to that site although i didnt go to it i asked my grandmother this afternoon when i got home from school what time it would be over there and she said it was like and 18 hour time difference.

i came up with a scenario some time ago, its only hypothetical and it has some great multiple choice answers, feel free to answer if you like.

Scenario: you are dating Bridget McManus, but secretly you are also seeing Jill, Cathy, Karman, Jenn and Dee. None of them know that they are all seeing the same person. Sarah, Lori and Dara find out about your ways and threaten to tell Bridget, jill, Cathy, Karman, Jenn and Dee if you don't tell them about each other

what do you do?:
A) Break up with all of them except the one you really like
B) lie to Sarah, Lori and Dara about breaking it off with Jill and the others
C) Get out of Town real fast and go into hiding and dont come out until you think its safe
D) Be really really scared of Lori's infamous death stare. but slighty less scared of Sarah and Dara
E) you'd rather die a slow and painful death than admit your wrongs
F) Sit them all down, tell them about each other and than get out of town and get hunted down like a fox by a bunch of angry lesbians
G) Grovel at Sarah's feet and beg her not to tell them, but also promise to be her minion
H) Gather all the girls together including Sarah, Lori and Dara and come clean, which involves being slapped a couple of times, possibly getting your ass kicked and forever looking over your shoulder for Lori and her infamous death stare and constantly being on the lookout for angry ex girlfriends who may hold a grudge against you at Dinah Shore

            

the_Rad_Seed's picture

easy choice...

(a)

i'd drop ALL of them and change my player ways for Bridget.

 

 Course Im sure that D and H would also apply cuz i would have to be truthful and just hope they all still found me charming enough not to slap me around or torment me at futre Dinah Shores.

 And I would need written and notarized/witnessed agreement that would bar Lori's infamous DEATHSTARE(tm) as that alone would be enough to send me into hiding(c).

aussie_girl's picture

My answers

would be D, G and if i felt really guilty about what i was doing would be the last one

Glindared's picture

AE Meet & Greet in NYC

I had a BLAST!!! Everytime I looked at Jill or Bridget, I'd forget to breathe until I advert my eyes! I want to thank Sarah & Lori for setting up the meet & greet! Sarah, YOU ROCK!! Thank you SOOO much for listening to my suggestion for the group picture, and implementing it!

I'd like to thank ALL of the AE ladies...Very Lovely, gracious and personable. Makes me love you all the more. I can appreciate how draining it all may have been, yet you guys ROCKED!

I took tons of pictures. I will be respecting Sarah's request that to NOT post pics of fans on myspace since some of the ladies that were at the Meet & Greet Might NOT be out. I respect that.

Now, how to share those pics??? You can contact me via :

here on After Ellen...

myspace: www.myspace.com/glindared

pattisteeves@yahoo.com

Please reference "AE meet & greet in subject line.

Will be posting more later,

In the meantime peace out!

patti in the black beret...

 

Glindared's picture

pictures

All of the pictures are finally up...I have posted 134 pics and that is down from 160+ I grossly underestimated how long it would take to edit and post the pics! Thank you all for patience. I will soon have captions put in,Hopefully within the next 24 hours... and forward the pics to those who have requested...

Later,

Patti

Glindared's picture

latest update

I haven't forgotten all that have emailed me off list...so many of ya.lol...I am slowly but surely working on getting the pics to ya. trying to ZIP the folder and the size is just too much to send in all one zip so am working on compartmentalizing the pics...I thank you all for your patience. Will soon post the pics on Photobucket and post the link here. I think that might be the best compromise if i can't zip the pics satisfactorily. I now have so much new respect for professional photographers.

Maybe we can do a petition thing for SArah to have vlog specific 'tours'...this was 3way that were the specific vlog on tour...maybe next we can get What's your problem tour...whatta ya say ladies!

As ya see from my avatar pic. I had the good pleasure of meeting Bridget...was even able to be the filling in a BRILL sandwich...oooh that was soooo gooood!

Be well,

Patti

mikka's picture

Still can not believe it!

I was there!! I have to keep saying that to myself and watching my pictures because i honestly feel like it was a dream. The whole thing is like a blur, i had to leave early coz i had to catch a bus, but of course i was late, but that was because i wanted some time with everybody! And i did get that :D. I went to Jill first, but i was so nervous i did not even speak to her that much. That bummed me out so much that i just decided to have a question ready for everybody before i talked to them :D. Good thing to do, i talked to Karman for the longest time, she is so freakin awesome! I joked around with Bridget and she showed me her tattoos, lol, i even got to touch her neck :D. Had a huge convo with Lori about Meave and Dara made fun off me! I talked to Kate and Sarah too! So i can now officially die like a happy lady. I met some awesome people whose name i do not know and even some i am now buddies with :D. Oh and Becca (at least i think thats her name, my memory is kinda foggy, sorry) from the savespashley site, gave me a free tshirt, score!!

All in all the best ending to my awesome stay in New York! And i will sooooo be there again in France, yeah baby!!

LoveLillianGish's picture

NYC Meet

I went and stayed for about 20 minutes at most. Sadly we had to go see Wicked (third row seats) and we left our friend and my girlfriends mom alone in the theatre to meet with them all. My first impression was...its raining, we're missing Wicked and the tickets were expensive. I'm 20 and I didn't want to drink and if I were 21 I wouldn't drink anyways. But I did meet Bridget who made fun of my girlfriend and I because I've been messaging her a bit on myspace (I hate myspace..anyways..) about my girlfriend getting a t-shirt w/ Bridget's face on it for her college graduation present so...Bridget just laughed at my girlfriend for wanting her face on a shirt and she grabbed my girlfriend and stood up on a bench and took pictures. it was very sweet and surreal. Now...I quickly said hello to Karman and Dara and said that I enjoyed their exitence and Dara said she would tell her mom that...then I talked to Jill and asked if I could have a pic of her with my girlfriend and this was after I was standing next to her and Maeve came in and they laughed and hugged and gave a brief kiss, which was cute, and Jill has amazing eyes. That was the first thing that struck me, she's very pretty. So then I talked to Maeve and said that her work is great and I loved her on 3 Way and as much as I hated her character on South of nowhere it was essential and a representation of a facate in reality and she appreciated that I understood that she's an actress and she's not like that. Then we very briefly discussed how people don't understand sometimes that she's just acting and can't distance themselves from her roles. And then I said it was nice to see Mr. Guiness on the show and she laughed and was very sweet. Then I quickly said to Jill-I love your work and immediately left. Everyone was amazing and wonderful and all ridiculously nice looking in person. I wish I had the chance to talk to them more but...things happen. Hopefully everyone enjoyed themselves. And if anyone gets the chance-go see Wicked, its extremely well put together.
Pyewacket's picture

NY Women...come here! :)

Okay, please forgive me if anyone thinks I am spamming...I am just trying to go to a few threads where I would get the attention of our NY population.

Just as California is making history when it comes to gay marriage, there is a good chance NY soon could too...but the governor needs to hear from you...

Take A Little Time To Be Heard

Thanks!

:)

 

unsure_canadian's picture

Signed petition

I signed a petition that a friend of mine who lives in NY sent me.  I don't have the url for it right now so I can't provide it.  I think it's great that California has recognized gay marriages and I hope that NY follows suit.  I know my friend is anxiously waiting so she and her partner can get married in their home state.

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