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I'm so butch! I'm so femme!

I suddenly got inspired from the "I'm so gay! I'm so not gay!" game. This time you have to list out some stuff that you think you are so butch on or so femme on. (And I know I know... this is putting labels on people and stereotyping them, but this is just for fun, okie? Everyone's opinion on butch/femme qualities will be different, and no offence is intended here.)

And I'll start:

So butch - I dragged up my 60lbs luggage along with a big heavy travelling bag up 6 floors of stairs when I moved into my new place (there's no elevator). I open doors for people, both guys and girls.

So femme - I wear make-up everyday, unless I'm not going outside of my home. I love skirts and heels.

(I hope I didn't post in the wrong category nor there's an exactly the same thread somewhere else here - I checked 5 pages of Fun & Games and there's nothing similar to this)


Kris's picture

B&F

Femme: I Love to dress up and look nice when I go out, I always make sure my hair is done and looking nice and eyebrows waxed, I love wearing perfume, I'm a clean freak, I'm sensitive, I'm very conscious of other people's feelings and emotions, I hate really hard alcohol and not a big fan of beer, I love fruity drinks (apple martinis, cosmos etc.), I LOVE SHOPPING, I hate spiders and other bugs-I act like a little kid when I see one, I know a lot about fashion, I have to wear jewelry all the time, I love to cuddle, I love to cook and bake, I cry during sad movies or anything that's sappy (sniff what? It's because of my allergies..god this pollen sniff).

 

Butch: Very athletic, I love to workout, it takes a lot for me to open up about my feelings, not a big fan of PDA, I hate dresses (on me they are fine on other people lol), I'm a t-shirt and jean girl (but I always look good in them def not a slouch haha), I love video games, I'm a sports fanatic, I wear sneakers most of time, not a big fan of kids right now haha, I very rarely wear make-up, I'm protective of my friends, family and other people close to me, I cuss like a sailor, I love making dirty jokes, and I don't like dancing. :-)   

 

Bridget's picture

Futch?

Butch: Athletic, loves/play/watches sports, barely ever expresses feelings, pretective of my friends, rarely asks for help, ultra independent, opens doors for everybody, lifts weights and works out, wants to be the one you lean on.

Femme: Likes wearing make-up, enjoys dressing up, loves to be affectionate, tends to look typically feminine...

I'm pretty much a butch disguised as a femme...

Elina's picture

BUTCH: short hair, love

BUTCH:

short hair, love playing and watching sports (especially tennis, soccer and basketball), I love to workout, never EVER wear dresses, have more of a 'tomboy-ish' look and dressing style, rarely any make-up, very protective of everyone I love, I'm into video games, I like gore, love DIY, I want a Harley, friends say I run like Rambo, sometimes I feel like a stand and sit like a man - and not a gay one :p

 

FEMME:

cry at almost every movie, love chick flicks, I get all happy everytime I see a cute dog or cat, I sometimes shamefully listen to the Backstreet Boys :P, very affectionate and romantic, I cook, I frequently go shopping with friends, hate HATE HATE bugs - roaches make me scream like a crazy person, I dance, I sleep with a teddybear when I'm lonely :(, I like to feel protected, too clean and too tidy!

 

 

[ I carry your heart.. I carry it in my heart.. ]

carmen's picture

bemme lol

Butch :

- protective , especially with my gf.

- driving manual cars so fast and i mean so so fast.

Femme :

- i love my long hair.

- enjoys dressing up , gurly clothes.

 

naima's picture

im so

butch :

5. i dont wear make up

4. never wear skirt

3. hate high heel

2. like riding motorcycle

1. love watching football

 

femme :

5. i like body treatment and face treatment (i dunno i think it's femme stuff!)

4. i like pink

3. i can't lift weight

2. love parfume

1. i can cook :D

Anonymous's picture

so butch.... so femme

i'm so butch because i am very protective of my female friends and wouldn't hesitate defending them to anyone and  i also dont get realy girly girls at all

i'm so femme i wear makeup most days and i own a pair of heelslol

Tash :)'s picture

So Butch, So Femme:

Butch: I dress like a guy, in guys clothes, and boxers, all that.

Femme: As soon as I start talking about drama, or some other crap where I am all expressive I basically turn into a camp man :)

smurf.'s picture

so butch, so femme

Butch:
can change the oil and air filter ect. on my moms car
said no to wearing dresses aged 3 , haven't worn one since
like sports 
love cars
like assembling ikea furniture haha xD

Femme:
Spend 40 mins on my hair most mornings
wear lots of makeup occasionally
+won't leave the house without at least foundation on
cried like a baby at the end of the notebook
+ a few other films

Shnail's picture

I'm so butch! I'm so femme!

 Butch:

  • i play football
  • i sag in pants
  • i wear boxs
  • i love motorcycles
  • rough at times
  • mad when i lose
  • lick my lips alot
  • i talk with my hands when mad
  • wear long shirts to my knees

 Femme:

  •  love make-up
  • wear thongs alot
  • love shoping
  • wear tight jeans
  • wear sexy under wears and more to bed
  • wear lip gloss
  • have curves
  • bunch of heels
  • love to express myself
  • likes to flurt

"Love does not consist of gazing at each other,but in" looking together in the same direction

Cassidy's picture

butch/femme

I'm so butch I play hockey, don't own a dress/skirt, refuse to let people see me cry, open the doors for girls, arm wrestle :P

I'm so femme... I scream like the girls in those old horror movies, I'm afraid of spiders... uhm... I like shoes?... :P

Babs's picture

i'm so...

everything.

butch, femme, no dresses, pants all the time, short hair, love make up, watch sports, love to cook, drink wine, read, hate the "smell" of men. (geeze, i never thought i'd say that), really dislike hanging around men too long, love women in my space, i love "caleche" perfume (wearing it and smelling it), love blonde women, dark women, redheads, brunettes, grey-haired women.  i love when a woman checks me out, and i love checking out pretty women. love soft sheets, satin, silk, jeans, khaki's, jewelry,

no jewelry, sunsets, football, baseball, women's soccer, volleyball, tennis.

and i love my life-partner. :)

F.Y.E.'s picture

Welllllll.................................

I'm so butch:

No makeup

No dresses/skirts

Pay for everything on a date

Hell read my profile for the rest, you'll see why lol

 

I'm so femme:

Though I am very casual, I like to dress up at times.

Own heels and can walk in them

Love to cook

Enjoy clothes shopping

Like to cuddle/very affectionate

I like shoes

Like to keep my hair long

 

 

 

For your oogling pleasure?

http://www.youtube.com/OneBad281Stroker

the-seriesfinale's picture

hmm...

Butch:
I am not picky with my food and i eat like theres no tommorow! lol
i have terrible handwriting that always gets mistaken for being a guy's.
I love to sleep in a lot. especially during the weekends, if i could, i would love to wake up at 1 in the afternoon. LOL. *that's real late.. haha
Whenever i'm playing a sport or doing anything strenuous, i sweat a LOT.

Femme:
i like to sit with my legs crossed all the time. *one knee over the other.
I love watching chick flicks/romantic comedies.
i like to keep things in my life organized. I hate messes, but i usually find myself in them anyways. :P
I like listening to girly pop music from the 90's :D

 

Kris's picture

So butch, so femme

So butch:

I'm aggressive and I like to play fight
I'm a martial artist
I never wear dresses or skirts
I never wear makeup
I have short hair
I wear boy's tshirts and boy's shorts
I like to fix things (or at least try)
I wear sneakers all the time
I pay on dates
I want a motorcycle
I drive like a dude
I wear boxer briefs
I'm very protective of certain people in my life - guys and girls
I'm always trying to prove my strength, even if it might kill me
I hate asking for help, especially from guys
I like video games
I like watching baseball, football and basketball
I like to work out
I open doors for both sexes
I have a wallet on a chain (but never use it)
I don't own a purse
I love hoodies and wife beaters
I usually go to a store, get what I need and get out
I'll give up my seat for a woman (especially if she's older, pregnant or has a kid with her)
I sit like a guy
I walk like a guy
It doesn't take long for me to get ready
I like to wear cologne or Ax/Tag
I've been mistaken for a boy a few times

So femme:

I hate spiders and bees
I have on pair of heels that I occasionally use for interviews
I wear jewelry (rings only)
I prefer a girl to come up to me
I'm a crybaby during sad/emotional movies
I get my eyebrows waxed
I like to wear perfume
I sometimes like talking about my emotions and what I'm feeling
I wear girl's tshirts and girl's jeans
I sometimes like to shop

Yan's picture

mmmm...

So Butch: I always take care of my partner. I wanna do everything for her, open the door, bring her flowers..all that stuff! ! If Im alowed! I love sports, Soccer and Cricket mostly!(Im west indian). I can fix anything around the house, and hate asking a man to do it! I Like to be in control of everything. And need kno everything!

So Femme: I can be submissive at times, I dress like a girlie girl 90% of the time. I like getting flowers, Im super sensitive, I cry for everything, wear my heart on my sleeve! I never make the first move and I love to be chased :)

Id like to think Im 70% femme and 30% butch!

~Yan~

Rascal's picture

So BUTCHin'

Butch:
-I open doors, see that the ladies get to their cars safely etc.
-I own way too many 'beaters and hoodies
-The only makeup I wear is Eyeliner(Peas, I call Lipstick, "Lip-paint" ahaha)
-I dislike asking for help, crying, dressing up
-I sit/stand like a dude
-I do the heavy lifting/moving
-I can be rough
-Dominant
-I like to get my hands dirty
-I don't own a dress or skirt
-At times I become G.I. Jane with the stealth crawl, broom in hand and the clean SOCK "GRENADE"!(Okay, perhaps that's more so the child in me)

Femme:
-I yelp and run as far as I can when discovering bugs/insects are invading within a 10 ft. radius
-Romance comedies/Chick-flicks(yes, please)
-I walk/run like a girl
-Skin tight jeans
-I suck at Sports
and..er...C'MON!,..C'MON SHOW ME FEMME!,...yeah, I've got nothing. -_-

_______________________________________________________________

 "I pledge allegiance to the Fans, of the United Lesbians/Bisexuals of AE-land. And to the Rainbow, for which it begins, one beastly,... ow dude, cramp, cramp!...knee cramp!"

Katie's picture

Hmm...

So Butch:
I play a million sports
I'll do the same amount of work as any guy around
I wear baggy jeans, hoodies, and t-shirts and a Mets cap all the time.
I watch football and baseball neurotically.
I don't wear make-up. At all.
Haven't worn a dress in...a while. I think the last one was 2nd grade. =/
Love snakes and spiders and stuff like that.
I have a "guys handwriting."
I get mistaken for a guy quite often.

So Femme:
Roaches scare me to death. *shudder*
I squee when I see something cute or fangirl-ish.

stee's picture

I'm So Butch

I'm so butch: i roll my own tampons

I'm so femme: my tampons are powder pink to match my nails

:P 

Exzentriker's picture

LOL

clever

LaterZ,

Lydia

Anonymous's picture

I am such a Femme

Butch: Hmmmm, this is a tough one...

I like to wrestle ( play fight)

I don't take crap from anyone....

I treat you to whatever u like....

I drive like a guy...

I think I make a good gentle man...

Femme: I am such a girly girl...

I love makeup

Shopping for everything

Jewelry is a must

I love flowers...

Being showered with gifts

So scared of bugs.. All kinds...

Very Submissive....

I don't do sports...to afriad to break a nail...

Yea.. I'm such a Femme ~

Love Life ~

Anonymous's picture

no idea

So Butch: I hate dresses and make up!

      I live in trainers, jeans and hoodies. 

     I fucking love my car and driving fast! 

So Femme: I love cleaning - think Monica from Friends

   I love my hair straightener. 

I love cooking

Gardening is awesome 

I've been making an effort to look 'girlier' 

Anonymous's picture

hmmm

So butch: Protective, dominant, I do karate, I love gore :), I open doors for anyone, I love video games (specially 'metal gear solid'), I'm not afraid of getting dirty or breaking a nail.

So Femme: i love dresses, make up, shopping, chick flicks, I'm a hopeless romantic, I'm extremely afraid of spiders, I prefer being approached, I take VERY long time to get ready, I am very affectionate, I keep my hair long, I sit/walk/act very girly... 

______

"Por que parece mentira, la verdad nunca se sabe..."

Colette's picture

Butch: I would maim a

Butch: I would maim a stranger if they laid their hands on my girl. I'm a knight in armor..lol

Femme: I like being called femme; love playing with makup and doing the whole windswept thing with my very curly and long hair

Ouroboros's picture

I'm so Butch! I'm so Femme!

Butch: I'm strong for a girl, wear jeans and a hoodie most of the time, know how to change a tire, play videogames/computer games, never wear makeup of any kind, wouldn't be caught dead in a dress/skirt/overly girly clothes in general, most of my closest friends are guys, I'm one of those old-fashioned chivlary people when it comes to girls I like, hate shopping for clothes, can name most tools in a toolshed and prolly know what they're used for, sit like a guy, slouch a lot, hate asking for help...

Femme: I love cooking, I've got long hair, I paint my nails wacky colors sometimes, love chick-flick movies (hopeless romantic), and I'm really kind of a passive person

Growlaaah's picture

butch: - i like flexing my

butch:

- i like flexing my muscles (especially when girls touch them ;))
- i like manual labor
- i never wear sunscreen
- i like when people compliment me on my strength
- i'm protective over my girlfriends
- i love beer
- i wear a thumb ring
- i hate the color pink and all girly accessories
- unconsciously, i sit like a guy, with one ankle propped on the other knee (which is why i almost never wear skirts, haha). i only stop doing this when my mom points it out
- i tend to shake my leg a lot when i'm sitting
- i curse like a sailor and use words like "pussy" and "fag" :( not such a great habit, i know...
- i smoke men's cigs (social smoker)
- I LOVE WATCHING WAR FILMS, and hate chick flicks
- the only thing i'll wear on my lips is chapstick, and it annoys me when it sometimes makes my lips look shiny
- i play rugby and i'm a prop
- i like kissing girls ;)
- i like girls who have small waists

femme:
- i wear makeup if other people (besides from family) are going to see me
- i have long hair (but i'm thinking about getting it cut short)
- i'm a wuss and can't sit through horror films without feeling deeply traumatized afterwards
- unruly eyebrows piss me off
- i love salads and drink green tea religiously
- i like dirty dancing with hot guys
- in fact, i like guys. especially when they're tall, broad-shouldered, and muscly...
- i like fashion and trends and such things like that - i'm a bit celebrity-obsessed
- i don't drink beer very much even though i love it for fear of getting a beer belly later in life
- i hate insects
- i played with barbies as a kid. although i confused myself when i made them kiss each other...
- pimples and acne (on myself and others) gross me out

Emuh's picture

I'm...

So Butch-

I never let anyone buy me a drink

I only ever drink Corana or budwiser when I'm out because anything else is super girly

I never ever ever wear skirts

I'm a wanna be drag king

I have an eyebrow piercing (I was told that was very butch)

I dig the flannel

I'm the one who fixes everything in the house...I even have tools

I rock a bandana on a regular basis

I have a wallet not a purse

I have that butch swagger

I'm super tidy and orginised

So Femme-

I can't go out without wearing fondation and lots of eyeliner

I have the girliest scream ever....

I have the girliest run ever...

I  love cooking and baking (especially for other people)

I have girly dreams about the futre

I'm a sucker for romance

The way I bit my lip when I'm nervous

I love bras...I love wearing 'em :D

Dance like no ones watching...but drink lots of vodka first

Jesso's picture

im...

so butch :
- i sit like a guy without realising it / slouch
- im rather protective with family, friends, girlfriends
- i love video games (Xbox 360 woop woop !)
- i play all sports
- horror films dont bother me
- do kickboxing
- I open doors for people
- I can fix anything
- im an adrenelin junkie
- love cars


So femme :
- i cook and bake
- bugs scare me and im arachnaphobic :(
- i wear make up
- wear girls clothes
- romance films make me cry or anything to do with love on a film basically
- i randomly dance around alot haha
- when i get bored i paint my nails like a zebra pattern or something
- i have like 50million perfumes
- i have long hair
- HATE watching sports it bores me to death



 

ace.'s picture

Hmmm...

I'm so BUTCH.

I open the door for my girl or anyone,I usually position myself on the side where cars are coming from when crossing the street with my girl or anyone,I don't like wearing skirts or dresses(I hate my uniform!),I sit like a guy,I love horror&action films,I hate make up,I'm a giver,I have a dirty mind,I love wearing sneakers and pants,I hate heels or anything,I put everything inside my wallet and pockets-I don't do purses,protective over anyone,I don't care much about how I look(only when I'm going out with someone),I don't normally ask for help,I'm more of a give,I don't like people seeing me and my emotions,I curse like there's no tomorrow.

 

I'm so FEMME.

I hate insects of all kinds and spiders and frogs,submissive,sentimental, I cry when I am angry or frustrated,I scream like a girl,I'm picky when it comes to food-sometimes,I scream like a littel girl,I once cried over a movie

I can't think of any of these anymore>.<

Liv Smith's picture

B-F

I am so butch that when I was five years old and going to be in my babysitter's wedding, I chose to be the ringbearer and wear a tux over being a flower girl in a dress like my two older sisters - not much has changed.

 

I am so femme that I enjoy shopping. 

 

Mz. Understood's picture

butchy; femme.

Butch; i dont cry coz i dont wanna look like a sissy.

Femme; i wear makeup, skirts, and high heels all the time. 

_____________________ 

"No matter what a woman looks like, if she's confident, she's sexy" - ParisHilton♥

Affni's picture

oh this is fun!

Butch- I hate wearing dresses/skirts (you'll nvr see me in them). I never liked asking a guy for help. I always look out for girls (mostly my girlfriends) and make sure nth bad happens to them. I open doors for girls and carry their stuffs. I love video games.

Femme- I wear make-up. I cry during sad movies (even the animated series). I LOVE COOKING (I must say, i cook really well). I scream when I see a roach in the room.

 

Anonymous's picture

ohh man...

Butch - I can fix almost anything.  I have a high tolerance for pain.  I love sports. Thinker more than a feeler (MBTI anyone?). I'm one of the boys no problem.  I can kick ass.  I can reverse park like no-ones business.  I have good spatial ability.  I have a thing for weaponry.  The sound of motorbikes or high-tech electronics makes go into lust mode.

Femme - I get plucky when I see cute babies and animals.  I cry during movies.  I train people how to do makeup and skin care.  I do the whole makeup, and skincare regime.  I enjoy the occasional bitch session.  Bad hair = bad mood.

Cashmere Thoughts's picture

yo soy....

Im so butch: 

  • not too fond of dresses
  • don't own alot of make-up
  • like to pay for everything
  • rarely ask for help
  • i know exactly what i want when i go to the mall
  • people call me speed racer at times
  • have more sneakers than heals
  • foul mouth in spanish
  • naturally good at sports even though i don't take it too seriously
  • my childhood consisted of me being outside showing of my in-line skating skills.
  • prefer a beer over wine

Im so femme:

  • I own two hair irons
  • love perfumes
  • meticulous with my eyebrows
  • love designer glasses
  • like girlie panties
  • like hello kitty shit
  • cry at stupid stuff
  • like romantic comedies
  • dance salsa & reggaeton and no I don't lead
  • i have nice handwritting
  • the skinnier the jean the better
  • can't roll a blunt to save my life

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It is far better to grasp the universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring.
Carl Sagan

Wozza's picture

bla

Butch:
(were shall i start hmm)
* i bite my nails
*i sit like a bloke
*i walk like a bloke
*i wear tshirts and jeans
*i HATE high heels and will never wear them
*never wear dresses
*im a top
*never wear skirts
*LOVE games
*i burp in public
*i keep my feelings to myself  
*i wear boxers
*people sometimes think im a lad (mainly old men think that)
*i pay for everything (when dating)
*used to play rugby
*used to skate alot
*im good at DIY
*i have to give me mates advice on wat men want :S
*i can eat LOADS
*i think of sex ALOT
*i hardly ever cry (cant remember last time i did)
*im disgusting 
*i used to do boxing (getting too old now :P plus i got kicked out :(
*i wear vests
*i can out drink me dad
*i drink beer
*im very protective over people i care about
*i have a temper on me
*i watch rugby (great game) 
*i climb trees 
*love cars
*used to get in loads fights
*short hair
*i stare at womens boobs alot  
*i dont hit girls (well id hit butch girls) 
*i dont get all this fashion stuff
*dont wear much makeup (it annoys me)
*im not lady like at all 
*used to have muscles and sixpack (ate and drank too much rubbish so iv gotta beer belly now)

(theres more but the list is abit long already)

femme: 
*im a bit obsessed with my hair 
*i wear eyeliner
*im always checking myself out in the mirror (i cant help it)
*i just like to look good (nothing wrong with that is there?)
 
Auburn's picture

Butch: If I need a

Butch: If I need a shelf I'll make one from scratch and hang it myself.

Femme: If I ever broke a nail I'd stop making shelves and buy them from IKEA.

Thu Queer's picture

Butch - I have short hair,

Butch - I have short hair, dressing formally means a blouse and a tie (look right), I hate wearing high heels and dresses, no make up, I walk like a dude, I have a male coach wallet, a necklace from the the men's section of aldo, write like a guy, my voice is laid back and sounds like a dude at times...

 Femme - I sit cross legged sometimes, I wear tight jeans (my friends hate that ha ha and the fact that they can see my underwear at times... so I make my best effort to wear cute ones =), I like hot pink, I do my eye brows especially when I'm on the phone, I really like to go shopping, my favorite store is victoria secrets, constantly checking myself out to make sure I look good...

Thats all for now lol

Exzentriker's picture

So....

So butch:

Open doors for guys and girls. love my hair short, never wears make up or dresses

So Femme: 

Doesnt mind being on bottom...Never can fix anything by myself and scared of roaches 

LaterZ,

Lydia

Phawn's picture

butch/Femme

I'm so butch that I have to tell everyone that "I'm not butch, I'm a tom-boy!", I can true a wheel, I can repair just about any bicycle, and my brother's hair is longer than mine.

I'm so femme that I never leave the house without perfume, My chucks always match my shirt, my hair is partially pink, and I love daiseys.

Anonymous's picture

Butch/Femme

Butch:  I love both watching and playing sport
           I bench/leg press way too much weight
           I don't need to call RACV for car assistance
           I'll pay
           I'm over protective
           I don't like guys hanging around my sisters....ever
           I know how to use power tools
           I think having broken bones and scars is awsome

Fem:    ....Uh....I like The Green Mile?

We're here, We're queer, Now step off bitch!

桜's picture

im a plain dyke!

Butch:

  • loves sports
  • enjoys the thrill of playing contact sports
  • owns hats, a bunch of converse, birkenstocks, flannels, etc.
  • hates the smell of perfume
  • into war movies
  • plays video games
  • would never let a women pay for anything
  • never wears make-up, only chap stick
  • likes fixing things on my own
  • hates the color pink
  • never played with barbies, only stared at it
  • unabashly checks out girls

Femme:

  • tight jeans = a must
  • cry baby when it's called for
  • into romantic comedy and regency era flicks
  • dones frilly skirts, blouse, flats, flip-flops, etc.
  • likes my nails well manicured and clean
  • comforts in feeling protected
  • likes shopping, when in the mood
  • doesn't like straight up beer
  • scared of bugs, roaches, rats, etc
  • good hair = good mood
  • into sexy undergarments
  • and yes, i consider johnny depp an exception!
Haruka-papa's picture

butch: I open the door

butch:

  1. I open the door for everyone, regardless of gender.
  2. I prefer the way cologne smells to perfume. On me, at least.
  3. I don't like clothes or shoe shopping.
  4. I love video games.
  5. Comfortable shoes pwn.
  6. Short hair

femme:

  1. I love red lipstick.
  2. Sit cross legged
  3. Although I can't cook, I love to bake.

 

Life tastes like... pecans!

 

lwrdTalice's picture

umm...

So butch:I haven`t worn a dress or skirt since I was 6-7 before my GIANT tom-boy phase.

So Femme: I cryed when Dana died in TLW......

All The Rage's picture

Butch

so butch :
- i act kinda like a guy...
- i'm quite protective of my family and friends
- i can stay in playing  video games all day
- I love action/adventure/comic movies
- I open doors for everyone and carry their stuff 
- I prefer wearing guys clothes
- I haven't worn a dress since I was 6 and a skirt since I was..11

So femme :
- i can cook and sometimes bake things
- I get emotional and cry over the stupidest of films [ i cried at the end of click]
- I can't stand sports [ i can only watch rugby and thats when Wales are playing] 

1000 broken hearts, carried by 1000 broken wings

letsdrawkid's picture

assume the position!

 

butch:

  • short hair
  • wears cologne
  • i love sports. i get intense.
  • takes me 10 mins to get ready
  • im a jeans/t shirt girl
  • boxer briefs are way more comfy
  • i wear little to no make up
  • its not a purse, its a bag
  • cant match socks for the life of me!

femme:

  • i WILL scream over spiders
  • fiona apple? lol.
  • i am a vegan master chef
  • i write/read poetry
  • im a professional cuddler
  • wine and diiine
Geraldine 's picture

Just a independent woman who has both qualties

Butch

- Very indepedent to the point of being stubborn

- Open doors for other people.

- Got my ex-girl flowers often

- Loves meat and potatoes their great!

- Not much for talking about my feelings or being vulnerable (Hates crying in front of others)

- Wants to be as powerful as man in a corporate setting sometimes

- Hates to be dominated over and will not allow it

- Works in a mostly male field Information Technology enough said.

- Knows how to open a PC or laptop and install parts.

 

Femme

-Loves dresses especially sun dresses

- Loves to be pampered and loves any kind of perfume or sweet scent.

- Knows how to cook and enjoys it at times

- Has to have makeup on when going on out.

- LOVES shopping!!!

- Loves any excuse to buy anything from Victoria Secret.

- Thinks that being femmine holds it's own powers if you know what I mean lol.

 

 

 

icanwaitforever.'s picture

So Butch-- -i love cars,

So Butch--

-i love cars, bikes and tatoos, i have no idea about them but i love the hotted up ones.. if i had time to be a mechanic or a tatoo artist i totally would

-I'll never share my problems because im too damn proud and not huuuge on PDA

-I'm pretty traditional with dates and manners.. if i've asked you out i will pay for everything

-I love my jeans and chucks! Im pretty laid back   umm all i can think of?

 

So Femme--

-Everything else? haha i literally cry at every happy, sad, funny thing.. its those worksafe adds!.. EVERYTIME!

-I wear dresses and heels, my fav colour is pink

-I wear makeup and it takes me 10 mins to wash my hair because im fanatic about it

-Im actually really shy and girly and have been told i sound like a 12yr girl old on the phone (oh and i fake tan.. i know i know! dont look at me like that)

 

coryc's picture

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Femme-

-I  like  to  wear makeup, I love to  do  other  peoples makeup!  If I'm wearing jeans and a  tshirt it usually means im  having  a bad day, i adore dresses  and  skirts.  Heels  are typically a must, unless they  are pointed flats. I  love  fashion, I  tend to love the  fall  show style the most.  I plan  and organize almost  everything for myself and i try to organize things for  my girlfriend. I  paint my  nails weekly  and will not have my picture taken  unless i look  nice.  I love when  my girlfriend  sends me flowers!!  and i love to cook  her cupcakes and  cookies. I tend to mother  my girlfriend  in  a  way, just packing her things for  her,making sure she  has everything she needs,  sneaking  thoughtful little gift into  her bags  so she can  find them  later. I LOVE buying  lingere for myself and surprising  that  certain  someone randomly.  I love the club scene, dancing all  not long  to really fun  music.  I  am  sort of obssessed with  my apperance, (i know  it;s really sad), I impulsively whiten  my  teeth  and eat vegan  usually.  I  really appreciate  people who  put  extra  attention into  me, i hate to  be  ignored. I  love texting simple x's  and o's  to my  girlfriend  and reminding her  how much  i  love her each day. I  send  snail  mail  love letter to my girlfriend!  It's soo much fun. I  love decorating really elaborate cards  and  making  really well thought out gifts  for people. i  have a habit of saying omg a  lot and making really big  eyes to little tings that really aren't a big deal.  all  my '!!!!"  are honestly how i express things in  real  life haha...

butch-

-I  hate  for guys  to  have  the  satisfaction of 'taking care'  of me. I get really weird  about it and  make sure  to  let  them  know  that  I  can do  things on my own. I  do however,  love when  my girlfriend  takes  care of me!  I  like being out  doors, I  like to run  and  hike.  I  don't like girly  drinks  like cosmos etc. i don't  drink  beer, i just  go  straight for the  tequila and vodka. Im  sort of a sex  addict, not  so  much  lovemaking  just  fucking is fine. i have always  had committment issues  and issues  with  being  faithful, however   in  my latest relationship i  have been  doing fine :)

sunsetsandcarcrashes's picture

I'm

So butch:

- I love sports
- I love working out
- I hate wearing skirts and dresses
- I hate shopping (except for sports equipments)
- I wear no make-up
- I act like a gentlemen (that freaks people out sometimes)
- I am extremely protective
- I play a lot of video games
- I will never hurt another girl, no matter what
- I have been mistaken for a guy before
- I keep my feelings to myself
- I walk and sit like a guy
- I love camping

 And tons of other stuff but it's getting a bit too long :)

So femme:

- Romantic-comedy is my favourite movie genre
- I love reading romantic novels
- I love perfumes

Any guesses to what I am? ;)
 

FrozenSongBird's picture

Call me an all-natural lipstick lesbian.

BUTCH:

I know how to work a bandsaw, drill, etc. and do so often.

I wear boxers and big T-shirts to sleep every night

I enjoy the smell of gasoline.

I love running barefoot outside, especially when it's rainy and muddy

I used to play lacrosse.

I'm wearing flannel right now.

FEMME:

I take French class in school.

I have long, curly hair and occasionally put product in it.

I also occasionally straighten it.

I wear mascara.

I love having long nails.

I went shopping yesterday.

I haven't eaten meat since I was 8 and a half years old.

I love baking.

I own a little black dress and have worn it.

Domino_Effect's picture

so butch... -I can be

so butch...

-I can be dominant in terms of sex

-I'm pretty athletic/well coordinated and have a knack for mastering things quickly (snowboarding, surfing et cetera)

-I love love love the chase.

-Most of my friends are boys.

-I am competitive... especially with overly confident, arrogant men

 

so femme...

-I have long, brown hair that gets wild at times

-Coyness is a huge giveaway when I like someone, despite my bedroom tendency to be dominant.

-I wear makeup and like to look pretty.

-I treasure my Yves Saint Laurent bag above all else

-my guys friends hit on me ALL THE TIME even though they know they don't stand a chance.