i dont think you should continue to put up with all of that. i mean if she really loved you and really wanted to be in the relationship and make it work she wouldnt be acting like that. why would she ignore your calls and disappear if she loves you? is something else going on? maybe you all should just stick to being friends so something really messed up wont happen in the end...

yeah...im going to have to agree with JANETLOVER04 on this one...no one deserves to be jerked around by so called "love". no one should have to wonder if the girl they love loves them back. you should really evaluate what you want to have happen at this point. is this a pattern with her?? if so then be prepared to spend the rest of your relationship wondering about this stuff...

let me put it this way...

when was the last time you looked at a GREAT couple and after hanging out with them left with the impression that the way your gf is treating you is the way things work in THEIR relationship...

just saying *shrugging*

i'm sorry tp hear what you're goin through.

my opinion of the whole thing is to just take a step back and try to clear your mind. once you do that try and figure out what;s most important to you and what you see working out. pretty much what do you really want to happen.

i hope everything works out for you. 

~*~"That's what we all dream about isn't it? Someone who looks so deeply into our soul that...they'd find something worth dying for."---Gabrielle~*~

My last girlfriend treated me the same way.  She would blow off plans then tell me she loved me, ask me to move in with her then disappear for a week ignoring calls and texts.  She told me she wasn't good enough for me and that she didn't think she deserved me which was why she was pushing me away.  I finally told her this wasn't what I wanted in a relationship and that I believed she loved me but wasn't in love with me.  After a few weeks we're starting to talk and hang out together again.  So long story short, you need to figure out what you're willing to put up with because she isn't going to change if she isn't ready to.  Maybe some time apart will help you both realize whether you should try to make it work or just be friends.  Good luck!

Beauty, Love, Happiness

well,  now that you're out, maybe your relationship with your mom can be closer and she can help you figure out that you don't need to put up with that crap.

My last relationship was the same way, except I let it go on for too long. she kept stringing me along and it went no where in the end. maybe it's good that you didn't stay single, because now you know that not all people are ready for a relationship.

... and you've got lots of gay friends here... and if you're ever in the south, lemme know. we'll hang out :)

 btw... chill out. if she loves you, let her tell you and let you know.

hey steppensquirrel. Hope everything works out for the best. Does your gf know that you have these feelings?

Now that u came out to ur mom i don't think there is anything harder u have to overcome so dump that dead weight u call a gf and take a risk and find someone who will respect your feelings and care for u...go on girl go get ur hair did and find a woman hahaha...good luck and have fun now that u have nothing to hide