oh man. if this were a different website, i'd respond with 'meth is a hell of a drug.' but since i like it here, i won't be a troll.

so you had sex with this guy? good job. was it good? did you enjoy yourself? if so, then i wouldn't freak out about it. just because you ID as a lesbian doesn't mean it's gonna always be that way. (made sense in my head)maybe you're queer. maybe you were horny and he was convenient. i've been close to that point myself.

ah i had more to say but i got distracted. moral of the story: you fucked a guy. don't freak. do what feels go. you only live once. the grass is always greener...*ahem*

i'm sorry, it's late and my answer's a bit cloudy but hopefully you got the point i was trying to get across lol

I got a dick like a mule...with a big dick.

you left out the most important part... did you enjoy it?  if so, maybe you're a little into guys after all.  there's nothing wrong with that.  i think many people are a bit bisexual.  that doesn't have to change how you identify or anything unless you're finding yourself emotionally attracted to men.

anyways, whether it was fun or not, lots of straight girls sleep with/do things with women when they're totally trashed, and maybe we don't talk about it a lot but gay girls probably aren't immune to doing the same thing with the opposite sex.  i'm assuming you were trashed?  if not... maybe you are actually attracted to him.  Or maybe it was an ego thing, like you wanted to prove that you can have someone even if you don't want them, or that you can have someone who your friend can't have.  If the sex was terrible you should probably avoid that kind of ego trip with a man (why risk unplanned pregnancies and STDs).