do u think is possible that a straight girl can fall in love with a girl?

she is so in denial, deep in the closet!!!! It reminds me of myself really, either shes just confused and experimenting or she just won't admitt that she's gay in denial.

It's TOTALLY possible for a girl to be straight as an arrow but happen to meet a special someone who just so HAPPENs to be another girl.  It doesn't automatically confirm her membership to the fold(couldn't really come up with a better word) because it's not that she's attracted to females as a whole, she just digs that one other girl. I think it makes her human, not exactly bisexual or gay. 

Nobody is 100% straight or gay. There is at least one person who's gender is opposite of your sexual orientation that you can or will fall for.

"Bad jokes are us, ur me."

Yes, there are card carrying lesbians who LOVE them some women that can still recall a man they actually loved very much once. So why couldn't the exact opposite happen?

Sometimes when it happens the girl is in denial and later comes to terms with a larger window of same sex attractions, but just as often I think (especially considering the deep emotional attachments women seem to have anyway) they do find themselves falling for another woman even though they ultimatly otherwise attracted men. And may in fact only ever love one woman and many men. Which kind of makes the love she had for that woman one time even more special when you think about it in the larger terms of human experience and what it means to love at all.

Of course these are things I've only seen in observation, not experienced.

"Im not into girls, Im just into the girl Im with"

This really got to me. Im one of thoes people that don't understand why bis go both ways. Don't know why I just nver understood it. But when a frend of mine said that it kinda made sices. Well who am I kidding it a made a lot of sices so mabey that could help tou out a littel bit

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Not to get all women's studies, but many lesbian/queer theorists (and also Alfred Kinsey, one of the most infamous sex theorists) say that everyone falls somewhere on a sexual continuum, with total heterosexuality on one end and total homosexuality on the other end. Most people fall somewhere in the middle (ie, are some degree of bisexual). However, although the majority of us hold the potential to be sexually attracted to the same sex, most will never realize that potential. Since we are socialized from the time we are born to think that we should only be attracted to the opposite sex, those who are primarily heterosexual will probably not recognize same-sex attraction for what it is. They might experience it as a deep admiration for that other person, or as really wanting to be that person's friend, or whatever. Some might call it repression. Usually it's completely subconscious repression. Whether that person is able to finally recognize and accept the attraction for what it is, is totally dependent on varying factors -- social, emotional, etc. Those raised in very progressive, open-minded environments who are very comfortable with their sexuality are probably more likely to accept same-sex attraction. But it's easy to ignore it when you are predominantly attracted to the opposite sex.

It goes the same way for people who are attracted primarily to the same-sex -- especially since bisexuality is often a taboo in the lesbian world. A woman primarily attracted to other women, but once every so often finds herself attracted to a man, might just find it easier to ignore those feelings and call herself a "lesbian" rather than risk being alienated by the community or other people in society who don't understand bisexuality. It's too bad really.

I hope that kind of answered your question. It's definitely possible. But remember that for someone who has considered herself straight her entire life, it might be extremely difficult to come to terms with these new feelings.

Why do you even conitnue to call yourself straight?  What is it that you feel you got to hold on to that label? To make yourself feel better if you just like one girl? What happens if later in life there's another girl? (These questions are meant for you to think about not to badger you)

I understand you still love your mens but uh like some peeps on here you're so in denial about your bisexuality. Find a bisexual community, more specifically female bi community(online, google your sources,etc). I promise they will help you sooooooo much more than lesbian community. I bet you'll find someone in the same boat as you. Explore the possibility you're bi (even if you will ever love one womyn). Understand everything you can about same-gender relationships(it doesn't belong to the gay or lesbian community). I think that's where a BIG problem lies to b/c sometimes we feel we own that and we don't.  

Well, I hope you use your personal experience to educate people: love is love. You fell for a soul not just a gender.

Its possible for a person to fall inlove with another person, whether straight, gay , bent crooked or scrawled up. Labels such as straight girl falling inlove with "a girl" just doesn't cut it for me. I'm inclined to agree with Roxy says its not about labels, its about love. Sure she maybe in denial about her bisexuality; she may need some guidance in exploring her new feelings (if they are that new, lol), but the whole point is is that we allow labels to get the better of us. At the end of the line, does it really matter?

Life is too short!

If you fall in love with a girl you are not straight.

These labels are really not that hard you know...

Straight = you fall in love and are attracted to the opposite sex

Gay = you fall in love and are attracted to the same sex

Bi = you fall in love and are attracted to both sexes

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Porque te estas matando? Most of the comments here are saying labels labels labels..... You don't have to label her as anything if you don't think she identifies with it..  labels solo son words. And if anything I don't know if this applies but I guess falling for what's inside or whatever the saying is, is what really matters...gender is just another obstacle in this world to make people miserable and not be able to achieve happiness ... (Although I'm mysteriously still into curviness and vuloptousness...I blame my mother for raising me extremely well :-)) Si it's possible just be careful about it.

Honestly you have two options here. Either you take the advice from happytobenominated and stay away from her (porque son cosas que le pasan a todas las chicas in this board y creo que despues de un buen tiempo vas a estar bien..sin ella ) or you can keep tailing her until she gives in or kicks you out....I mean 1. you never know until you try and 2. you can always mend the relationship in 2-3 years (gives you time to think, and look por otras nenas out there) Hope it works out 4 ya. 

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Well no, don't be fooled! Straight girls are straight! It doesn't matter whether you stick a label on it or not! Or what label you stick on it! A girl who has no sexual interest in girls is not going to have a sexual interest in girls! You really think it could happen? Check out the glaring succes of the marriages made by gay people trying to be straight!

i didn't mean to imply that she should drop her... i meant she should drop her feelings for her... and my advice has nothing to do with orientation... it's just that if you read the whole story... her friend is very "come hither/go away"... and being in love with someone like that is so draining and painful... and has absolutely nothing to do with which gender she prefers... if this chick was full blown gay... my adivce would still be... "find someone who thinks the sun shines out of your ass." (i know i said that before, but i think it's the best way of putting it)... that's the kind of person you should be putting your energy into.

There's a lot that's been said in this thread that I very much agree with, particularly the post by beija-m (which just nails it IMO), but there's one thing that hasn't been said that I feel obliged to say: lay off the alcohol.

Not entirely, mind you--I'm not trying to go all parental/preachy on you or anything--but if you visit her or she comes to visit you, stop drinking.

I mean, on the one hand, drinking is great and celebratory and fun, but alcohol also has the side-effect of lowering inhibitions to some and providing liquid confidence to others. Ultimately the drinking leaves you wondering whether whatever happened (i.e., the kiss) was a result of genuine affection or just the side-effects of the alcohol talking. I think we've all experienced a situation like that before.

So, my advice, if there's a visit, is to do whatever you can to create intimate moments that don't involve alcohol. It'll make your intentions with her crystal clear and her affection for you apparent.

Good luck!

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Geoffrey: You fool! As if it matters how a man falls down.
Richard: When the fall is all that is left, it matters a great deal.

- The Lion in Winter

...we're all a little bi at the end of the day, regardless of what someone claims to be. Beware the girls who say they are straight, because I know a slew of women who claim to be lesbians that would totally do men and are actually bisexuals afraid to admit it, so I can safely assume there are straight people out there terrified to be open about who they really are.

My own experience with "straight" girls...

I remember being at a gay club once where I was approached by the most stereotypically straight woman alive. Long blonde hair, big boobs, and a bear in hand. Very sorority girl. She asked me if I thought she was straight. While one can never tell, I replied 'yes', and asked her if that wasn't true. She claimed she'd always been straight but thought I was so cute. She seemed perturbed by her attraction and kept going on about it. I was touched and managed to get her out on the dance floor, where she kept yapping about how hot she thought I was. Maybe the beer was doing all the talking, haha. Whatever it was, I figured what the hell, I'm only going to see this chick once in my life (she lived out of state and was visiting) and planted a kiss on her. She was so excited. LOL.

My advice - you just never know. Don't discount something off-bat. Lots of people aren't "straight-forward" about their real sexuality. If you really like this girl, talk to her about it. Make sure she knows that either way, you guys are friends and if the feeling isn't mutual, it's all good. Don't throw away a good friendship.

Well what do you do when the girl is the biggest tease in the world??>-<

meaning like holding hands, kissing the neck and everything but she listened to katy Perry's i kissed a girl and said she would never. But she stares at me like A LOT in a dove eye kind-of way, ha-ha when she asked me if i would kiss a girl i said yep.. she didn't say a word...i have the biggest crush on her:[