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'Kay, here's a question inspired by the most recent episode of the L Word and the WGN ladies' responses to all the boobies:

How do you deal with other hot women in the locker room?  Do you leer openly?  Do you discreetly peek?  Do you keep your head down, your eyes focused straight ahead, and get in and out as quickly as possible?  'Cause maybe at Jane Lynch's gym hot women (well, all kinds of women, actually) don't walk around with their tops off, but at my gym . . . It seems a little skeazy to me to be openly checking out women as they're getting changed; I feel like a cock in the henhouse!

I work at a gym in the midwest (read: few out lesbians), so this is a significant issue for me.  Thoughts?


xRobyn's picture

I'm in the midwest

I'm in the midwest too.  Bleh.

 At my gym it's always eyes at the ceiling, run in, run out.

 

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see-emm-siggy's picture

Just go ahead and look

Haha although i do just the opposite. This friend of mine (who's straight) doesn't even bother to be discreet, i feel almost embarassed for her. I guess it's not the same for her because she's not checking them out but rather sizing up the others. I can almost read her mind, think "my boobies are perkier than yours b*tch..."
Broadway Baby's picture

An odd one

Okay I may be the weirdest lesbian/bi ever because I never checked out girls in my locker room. I got ready for P.E, acted like idiots with my friends and took random pictures, you know, the usual. But the girls that were undressing in front of me were just girls that were getting ready for P.E, even the supposedly "hot" ones! Prior to 12th grade I had only been attracted to women, I think this may have been part of it; girls my age were just my friends. I didn't have my first crush on a girl my age until I was 17. And the two of us had even changed together in P.E. before I liked her and it did nothing for me. Now I think it would be a slightly different story, but I just found it strange that looking back I had crushes only on boys my age and women who were older. I'm and odd one, as I said.
a_l_y_s_s_a's picture

i don't look.

my friends that change near me are unattractive so i don't look. Although when im getting out i always pass by a girl taking off her shirt i look and then i look down ha. I'm not ashamed just don't want to get caught. And i dunno I wouldn't like to be stared so i don't stare.
yo-im-christian's picture

I look! Not in a sleazy way

I look! Not in a sleazy way but I am always comparing my body. I'll ask a girl if I like a particular body part what her workout routine is. If I'm crushing on a girl I would never, ever gawk at her in a locker room. But perfect strangers getting naked don't turn me on no matter how hot they are.

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