Bisexual Men

if i was dating a bi guy, it would make no difference whatsover to me, i think it would be completly hypocritical. the only difference it might make is that i would feel closer to him because he understands the struggle bi/gay people go through, maybe even more so than women.

i think society is absolutly more accepting of bi women, lets face it most straight guys wouldn't have a clue about bi guys, im not straight bashing here but they're unlikely to understand or want to, since it doesnt affect their lives.

i know from discussions with friends that most straight girls would find it weird to date a bi guy, i really dont understand why but then im not straight so.

i know 2 bi guys, one of whom would never come out to his guy friends and im not sure he would see the point either and the other is out but tends to hang round with bi/les/straight women and gay/bi guys rather than straight guys.

i've never been in a relationship with a bi guy but im only 16 so who knows in the future, for me it would only make me closer to them.

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It wouldn't matter to me any more or less than dating a bisexual female.  Which is, therein, the point of being bisexual.   

Plus it would definitely be a bit of a breath of fresh air to be able to comment on a guy's hotness without being accused of wanting to go out and screw them.

We're here, we're half queer, get used to it!

I've actually dated more bi men than women (Four that were open about it, although I've suspected a fair number of the so-called straight guys I dated weren't as 100% hetero as they protested too much to be) Probably because it's easier to find a bisexual man that's single than another woman, because most of the bi women I've met have an "understanding" straight boyfriend or husband. I even went through a phase of a few years where I'd given up on dating straight men completely.

I've had negative experiences with the bi men I've dated. One turned out to be cheating on his boyfriend with me. The other problem was that most of them  seemed to be using me as an unpaid  psychologist because they were so neurotic  about being bisexual that they had to shove their sexual histories down my throat despite the fact I made it clear I didn't really want to know (I wouldn't want a lesbian to tell me every detail about her past girlfriends, and I wouldn't want a straight guy to tell me about all the women he'd slept with, so why would this be any different). 

I wouldn't rule out dating another bi guy in the future if he was well-adjusted and comfortable with himself, but I've also learned from experience that just because someone has the same sexual orientation that I do, doesn't mean he or she is going to be the right person, anymore than assuming that just because two people are straight they'll be compatible.

I'm not sure about whether bisexual women are more accepted than bisexual men but in my town men who show an interest in other men have it harder than women show an interest in other women.

It didn't bother me at all.

We had quite different approaches to sexuality, though.  I am technically bisexual but really mostly lesbian, whereas he was only attracted to guys sexually.