Review of "Society"
Certainly, this is a situation that’s been done to death in lesbian films. The “closeted girlfriend” is right up there in the grand lesbian cliché book somewhere between the “pregnant lesbian” and the “crazed bisexual."
But while that may be true, it’s still a major issue that millions of queer people face, and here it’s handled within the context of an entirely different culture. Thuli and Beth’s drama feels as heartbreaking and relevant as the real thing, especially since they clearly love each other so much.
Society works as both an excellent piece of drama and as an examination of a culture recently transformed.
Even the film’s title is telling: it’s a play both on the well-to-do lifestyles of these four women and the actual “societies” black South Africans would form to provide financial support for one another under apartheid rule. It speaks to the two worlds that the young women straddle in their everyday lives. They observe traditional customs (such as singing at the funeral and making donations) and later text incessantly on their mobiles — they’d fit into any city in the world.
Left to right: Lois, Beth, Inno and Akua

Though it’s particular to a newly upwardly mobile generation of young black South Africans, this cultural mixing is relevant to wide swaths of the population in most parts of the world.
Society is constantly reminiscent of films about first generation immigrant children, with the obvious catch that these women are living in their country of origin. Free trade and freedom have truly transformed their society (again, playing on the title).
Beth in particular is at a cultural crossroads. She’s living a secret life with an out partner, too terrified of the judgment that she sees everywhere in her world. Caught between the modern concept of a loving same-sex relationship and keeping everything “private," she’s forced to confront her own internalized homophobia — and the traditional attitudes about what is normal and what isn’t.
Lois is having an even harder time with her identity. Though being a wife and a mother is something she knows she’s supposed to be happy about — she isn’t. She resents the child inside her for ruining her chances of becoming a surgeon, and subconsciously wants to damage it. She drinks and smokes and spends much of her time in bed, depressed, worrying her friends and her husband.
The mini-series is the creation of Makgano Mamabolo and Lodi Matsetela, and the production values are quite good, though not on par with an HBO or Showtime miniseries.
Makgano Mamabolo and Lodi Matsetela
The acting and authenticity more than make up for the lack of gloss, however, with excellent performances from each main cast member. As Beth and Lois’ emotional journeys are far more tumultuous than the rest, Gcilitshana and Tylbooi have the hardest material — and the most affecting scenes.
For a film that’s pitched as an African version of everyone’s favorite Sarah Jessica Parker series, it’s a fair deal heavier, and far less focused on the men in the main characters’ lives. In fact, the only truly Sex in the City element that pops up is Ledwaba’s turn as the swanky, man-hungry Inno, who is clearly channeling Samantha.
The music is absolutely stellar, with eclectic selections from hip-hop, jazz and traditional folk songs underscoring much of the action, and an excellent piano theme that winds in and out of the various scenes. There’s even a fantastic interlude when the friends, slightly tipsy on wine, start singing old-school Salt n’ Pepa hits.
The only downside to Society is that it ends rather abruptly, just as we get the feeling that the women are really starting to reconnect.
This is also heartening — as the series has the potential to be picked back up, though nothing has been confirmed. Certainly, one hopes that the story will be continued, and that audiences around the world will be able to appreciate one of the deepest, most nuanced, and most entertaining depictions of life in modern South Africa.




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It is important that stories like these are told not just in South Africa but all of Africa so attitudes about homosexuality can be changed and be reflected in the laws. We need to support this miniseries and others like it. How can I watch it?
Art is not living. It is the use of living.
Audre Lorde
Yay, it's SA!
As a South African girl who has lived in Joberg for four years, this looks extremely interesting. Anyone know what channel it'll be shown on, eventually?
Progress makes me happy :) Go SA!
Who can say if I've been changed for the better, but because I knew you, I have been changed For Good - Wicked
Actually it was on sabc 1
Looks interesting....
..and as the reviewer points out, the struggles of a closeted gay woman living with an out partner is a theme that can definitely strike a chord across cultures...it just about describes my relationship with my partner as well.
I enjoyed Sex and the City except that Mr. Big (and a lot of the other men) drove me nuts. Would be nice to see a version where there's less focus on the men.
No to the comparison of Sex and the City.
Okay let me be honest. But I do not see this comparison to "Sex and the City " at all. I see this more similar to the US television show "Girlfriends".
Thank you for the review of this movie. I am very happy to see brown skin individuals creating and producing a television series and movie. As well as being actresses. I would definitely like to see this movie. :)
Exactly
This is no where close to being Sex and the City...Girlfriends now that is a comaparison!
Along with their friend
Along with their friend Dineo (Vuyi Matomame), the ladies had formed a group called the ABCs (Angry Black Chicks) back in school, where they were best friends. However, they drifted apart in the intervening years, until Dineo actually commits suicide, forcing them to come back together.
I think I saw that premise once before, in The First Wives Club. That being said, though, it looks like it would be a nice, fresh perspective.
The First Wives Club.
I enjoyed the mini series
Looking forward to seeing it
Does anyone know where I can find the list of festivals where it will be playing? I would not mind driving a bit in the name of an RSA film experience.
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Thanks for the
Thanks for the info.
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See it in Boston!
This is awesome! The movie really looks great and if you're in the Boston area, you can see it during QWOC Week hosted by Queer Women of Color and Friends Boston. Check it out!
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This sounds absolutely
This sounds absolutely great! I hope I won't have to wait for the next queer filmfest in my region (which would be April 2010) to see it. A DVD release this year would be nice. :)
Very interested!
Can wait to see it when if comes near DC.
I agree!
That's wassup! I want to
That's wassup! I want to watch this, especially because it's about Africans. Mhmm...and Sibulele Gcilitshana can get it with her big African forehead, lol.
Ahh, now if there could only be a series about American black lesbians of all diff. groups (fems, studs, versatile, touch me nots, ag. fems, etc.) of all different backgrounds...on Logo or something. To dream...
it sound really good