I Live Here
browsing for lattes in the bookstore a few months ago I noticed the book I
Live Here by Mia Kirshner (and others). I assumed it was something trite about the experience of playing a WEHO
lesbian on Showtime. I didn’t bother to flip it over. Turns out it’s a seriously intricate portrait of war, globalization, ethnic cleansing, and AIDS. So I’m an ass.
seems that Mia has been seriously committed to bettering the world for the past eight years. Now you feel bad about knocking Jenny, don’t you? Well probably not, but this isn’t a dialog ladies.
recently held a benefit for the Kachere Juvenile Prison in
she is trying to improve conditions for the young inmates, many of whom are
held in sordid and dangerous conditions for petty crimes.
Thankfully, Dara Nai already covered the
in her AfterEllen interview with Mia last month. So I’ll just tell you about the party.
was held at the Causecast headquarters in
, a really cool space that looks like a barn
that’s been converted into a nightclub. On arrival I noted a very attractive woman loitering outside in a dress
and heels, who turned out to be Rose Rollins who played Tasha on The L Word.
entry all guests were handed a flashlight and instructed to head toward the
exhibit, where dark corridors were covered with art and writing created by
The display was
beautiful, agonizing, and fortunately spit us out at the bar. Perfect.
it was a wild party filled with lesbians, hors d’oeuvres, even a photo
Rose Rollins,Dalila Ali Rajah and Dutchess Davis
we were brought back into the main room to hear more about the
organization. Mia kicked off the
auction, and she was very gentle and demure, i.e. Canadian. That kind of attitude can get people to open
their hearts, but not their wallets. Fortunately, the louder and taller Rose Rollins stormed the stage, took
the mic, and successfully got the ball rolling.
Rose Rollins and Mia Kirshner on stage during the auction
The auction wound up being a huge success, with people bidding on
elaborate Mexican vacations and agreeing to purchase necessities like soap for
Kachere inmates. There was a silent
auction as well. Bridget McManus was the
ecstatic highest bidder on a giant basket of colorful undergarments.
Karman Kregloe, Mia Kirshner, Dara Nai, and Bridget McManus
event struck the perfect balance of raising awareness and allowing the guests
to just have fun. After the auction
everyone was released to mingle once more.
are you one of those people who wanted me dead?” was Mia’s opener when I introduced myself and
admitted to writing a column for AfterEllen.com. I assured her that Jenny was already dead before I turned in my first
article and anyway I don’t usually write about television because that would
I didn’t admit that I
had totally misjudged her.