Alisa Valdes-Rodriguez took a chance when she left behind her high-flying
career in print journalism to become a novelist. Her first effort, The Dirty
Girls Social Club (reviewed here by
Sarah Warn), turned out to be a best-seller, and was followed by several more
books and a young adult novel, all featuring
Her books, which include lesbian and bisexual characters, have been
influential in opening the publishing market to novels focused on and aimed at
Valdes-Rodriguez answered AfterEllen.com’s questions via email. In this
interview, Valdes-Rodriguez speaks about being bisexual for the first time in
the press. She also touches on issues ranging from outing to labels, and gives
us a snapshot of her upcoming work.
AfterEllen.com: The Dirty Girls Social Club and Dirty Girls on
Top center on a diverse group of female characters, including Elizabeth
Cruz, who is a lesbian. What were some of the sources, personal or documentary,
that led you to create this character?
Alisa Valdes-Rodriguez: As a bisexual woman (who, as it happens, is
faithfully married to a man and therefore living a “straight” life) I feel it
is important to include homosexual or bisexual characters in my work. I am
living proof that such things are not “choices,” but innate.
When I was a newspaper reporter, I once did a story on “coming out” in
traditional Latino societies, and I was shocked by some of the stories I heard.
Horror stories. A man being thrown through a plate-glass window by his own
father; a woman beaten by her relatives.
Luckily, I never faced that in my own family ― well, my mom did tell me she
had hoped to have “normal” kids, but she was the non-Latino parent. I should
say I never faced it with my dad, who, when I told him what I was, hugged me
and said, “the greatest secret in humanity is that inside every person is a gay
Anyway, my point being, I think it is incredibly important in work for
Latinas in particular to discuss lesbianism openly. Too many traditional Latin
cultures view women as sexless beings whose only function is to please a man,
so the idea of lesbianism is completely incomprehensible to many.
to highlight our shared humanity, to burst stereotypes, and to, hopefully,
simply tell a good story about a woman struggling with the same issues we all
struggle with ― career choices, love choices, a marriage that falls apart, the
trials of being a single parent.
The fact that she looks like Beyoncé … well. That was all for me.
AE: In The Dirty Girls Social Club, Elizabeth is a popular
newscaster who gets outed by a gossip columnist. With your background working
in journalism, did you witness any behind-the-scenes incidents around lesbian
identity in news that made you want to explore the topic of outing in your
AVR: No. Not directly. But as a reporter covering the music industry I was
horrified to see George Michael’s career tank after he came out.
I was also very sad to watch a certain male Latin pop star work overtime to
keep his gayness out of the public sphere. He was my inspiration for this
thread of the Elizabeth line. What is it like to be a public figure working
hard to appear as something you are not, at such a deep and fundamental level,
just to keep your job?
I think we all know who that pop singer is, and for his sake I hope he finds
peace in being himself, in spite of the risks. He’s a great defender of other
oppressed groups, including children and victims of sexual violence; I’d love
to see him come out for gays and lesbians someday.
AE: There have been a few attempts to bring The Dirty Girls Social
Club to film or television. Can you tell me where that stands now? Is there
an actor who you think would make an ideal Elizabeth?
AVR: I wish I could tell you more about the deal I’m in the midst of
negotiating. But I have been down this road enough times to know that until the
ink dries and production wraps, there really are no guarantees. Even if
production wraps, there is no guarantee.
I’ll say this much: there’s a major studio. There are three producers. We
are negotiating. It takes a really long time because everyone has to have a
fleet of lawyers who take 71 days to counter, unless they’re constipated or low
on Viagra, in which case it takes 73 days to counter. Hopefully, one of these
days soon, we’ll actually have a deal.
As for the actors? I used to casturbate regularly, then I heard it makes you
AE: There have been some heated discussions on AfterEllen.com about
whether it’s necessary to label one’s self. It’s a discussion that covers many
areas, from sexual preference to racial identity to ideological bent. How do
you feel at this point in time about the usefulness of self-labeling?
AVR: I think labels are generally used to benefit those who invented them,
and those who invent them tend not to be those upon whom they are foisted. That
said, labels can be tools of empowerment or marginalization, depending on who
is using them and why.
Consider the difference between being called a “funny freakin’ Jew” at a
dinner party by, say, Larry David or Mel Brooks, or being called a “funny
freakin’ Jew” by, say, Hitler or Sarah Palin’s pastor. In the former cases, you
sort of high-five, laugh, and move on to the port and cheesecake. In the latter
case, you go directly to the gas chamber, do not pass go, do not collect your
moose-antler door prize.