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Come With Me If You Want to Live: South of Nowhere 3.11

This week, Jenn and Dee debate the touching and kissing of Spencer and Ashley. Is it believable? Do you ever kiss a girl by placing your hands on her hips first? They argue we should be happy they are kissing at all.

Also, they want to know who Kayla's fans are. She keeps talking about them on the show, but who are they, really?

Come With Me If You Want to Live: South of Nowhere 3.11

Stay tuned for a new episode of Come With Me next week, and watch previous episodes here.

Aya's picture

They Are Trying Too Hard

It seems to me that every kiss they're thinking;  "I hope we don't dissappoint the lesbians."
SunriseShadow's picture

I kinda like it

I kinda like their kissing, nothing about it is really bothering me. I'm just glad they're kissing each other instead of someone else ^^ (or worse... a boy...)

crazylady46's picture

IT IS THE NETWORK

I'm just glad they are kissing too. I think it has nothing to do with the girls. I think between the network it's on and the writers this is what we get. What I'm hoping for is with the return of Bianca and her new little family on AMC and the  other lesbian story lines coming up on the main network shows like House and Greys Anatomy we can bring this show back and give them girls a much better story line now that they are adults and give them a story line of a better, deeper relationship between Spencer and Ashley and even give them much more air time and without people always interupting them.

 

 SAVE SPASHLEY!!!

 SAVE SPASHLEY!!!!

JasmeenKru's picture

Jenn & Dee.

Jenn & Dee. Yah!!!

Haven't had time to watch SoN Ep. 3.11 but I'm off to watch the vlog :D.

Damn, Bradley is HUGE!!!

Link to Down Bad - Keep Rollin'

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S8shljH_tuE

&

Pillz

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PbX8HAkfZAw

I just had to go find it on youtube :D.

aksala's picture

awwwwwwwww sh*t, nah!!!


I see you Jenn, with the dreds all DONe up and stuff! git-it-ger

Dee.  Did you really break down the the lacy under thing Ashley was wearin'?!  "It was pink and I think she got it from Vicky's cause the pattern was reminiscent of the Spring 07 Angel's collection...."  lmao!!!

Finally.  Ladies.  Is that a fire blazin' in the background?   Alabama get below 60 degrees and folks get to loosin' they MINDS!! LOL

I'm playin'.  :)

"Be who you are and say what you feel,
because those who mind don't matter
and those who matter don't mind.
"    ~Dr. Seuss

jusbecuz's picture

wow....

I was waitin for this vlog all day and it posts right wen I get on the road to atlanta that's messed up....well only 2 hours left can't wait to watch o and happy halloween LOV3 LIV3 LIF3
Lunakiss's picture

Comment About the Come With Me VBlog

www.myspace.com/lunakiss7

Hey. I'm glad you guys are updating us on SON and the SCC. Well,ok,maybe not on the SCC. It's nice to hear your opinions about the new season of SCC.

I've read Same Sex In the City book.  too. I'm not 100% crazy about that book either. It's nice to read about  someone's different background/experience.

 I've heard the term Gay- Before- Graduation but not Lesbian-Until-Graduation until I've read S-S book. I don't understandterm and the use of it. Why would someone be a L-U-G? I know you don't have the answers. Just curious.

Nice seein you gentlewomyn. LOL.

lacubana's picture

save spashley..

I have to say i wait the whole week for this recaps i love them plus we r pretty close cause i live probably an hour from alabama and i have alot of friends who live in jackson.. so i love u girls!!! now about this episode nothing much really happend that i was interested in except the ashely and spencer scenes and i loved the little fight thing they had other than that alot of dissapointing parts cant wait for tonights episode!

LOVE THE MARLINS!!

Salaam's picture

JENN...

You know you don't have anything to flex.

It's still cute though...in a stud fish kinda way. ;-)

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Oh yes I did.

kay's picture

oh dee ::sigh::

can i just be the one to say just how hot Dee looked in her sweater and slacks?? she was too cute. i couldn't stop staring at her chest. lol

random question: how did Bradley get so damn big?? i mean damn...that cat is just seriously huge.

and now im worried about the alabama club scene...especially if they are still playing "Pillz" by Gucci Mane... now if they were playing "Freaky Girl" then i'd be okay with that, cuz that song never gets old.

i was waiting for someone to mention the hottness that is Madison...even if she was a bitch...she was hot as hell...i agree with Jenn, but if she called i would have a conversation with her. im starting to believe that Jenn has some skeeza tendencies. lol

now, i think i might watch the vlog again just so i can continue my study of Dee's boobs. lol

~birds flyin high~

jamlawgirl's picture

I don't watch SON

... but I had to come watch for a while, to see you guys!

Jenn you are soo hot! And I love the way you say your name in the beginning. "I'm Jay-enn." *sigh*

marcia's picture

i've been gone

for a while but I am back and i miss u ladies. I have a lot of episodes to catch up on with u ladies. off to watch starting with the ATL pride. thanks and keep on vlogging:)

"wink to dee"

Batman's picture

argh

dear god! every friggin time ashley and spencer are about to get it on something always ALWAYS stops them... if SON was on a better network they could get away with more...but the N has turned into a pre-preteen network.

Ke's picture

Can you say random?

Ya.. I love Dee and Jenn's randomness.. especially when they burst into random songs..

P.S. - That cat is huge!
leftylady70's picture

All Caught Up

A few things

-I had never watched SON but I did a marathon on-line over the weekend and I am now all caught-up.

-Dee your zoo cracks me up

-Jenn stop playing you know you are a str8 pimp!!

i_Kissed_a_Girl's picture

LOVE

this vlog. You guys are so funny and keep me laughing the whole way through. I love your randomness, it's probably my favorite part of the vlog. Question: How'd you guys come out to your parents and friends? It's always interesting to hear about people's coming out experiences. LOVE YOU GUYS!!!!
She shoots colours all around's picture

Great

Enjoyable as per usual but your animals are doing my head in- how tall are you guys? Or are they some giant animals?
Truly_only_angelic 's picture

RAISE YOUR HAND IF YOUR A FAN OF KYLA...ANYBODY??.NOPEEEEEEEEE

Exactly!! What fans are you talking about kyla????!?!?!

Myspace fame is different from real fame.....unless your whack azz tila tequila.....then you'll probably get your own show....

Next... Im glad you gave madison that shot out cause she GOT IT. ummm humm...(a little obsessive.. lol)

o and then yall bustin out the club joints???? 2 funny. I rarely hear southern club cause im from ny. but u kno wats a classic club banga? FOLLOW MEEEEEE.........

N E WAYZ MUCH LOVE AND RESPECT

ANGELICA

chilaxing's picture

YIPEE

Jenn was looking freeeeesh this episode. She seems to be getting cuter each week. Loved the recap ladies. When is Troy coming back? Keep it safe.

 

Melwuzhere's picture

YAY!!

I enjoyed this vlog so much! I love when you guys just burst into some random song (i.e. "She Got A Donk" lol)  and you just gotta Love Stewie! He's so adorable!

 And Where's Troy? I miss him

 

MissZabone's picture

If you watch any of

If you watch any of the rerun episodes of SoN (which they constantly air on the N so there are no shortages of them currently) you will see that the "old way" they used to kiss each other was to touch each other's hair. Oh yes lots and lots of head grabbing and hair petting occurring whenever they kissed. I think as time has gone on, the two actresses have just become really good friends and that is making its way into the show more.
Melissa Hsu's picture

Jenn

I like how Jenn was sitting starting at 11:34. :))

That was hilarious when Jenn explains about Jonica coming over to Spencer's house. (starting at 21:21)

Dee has a nice smile.

Thanks.

Lexx.'s picture

Lmao @ Jenn's Alien

Lmao @ Jenn's Alien Face!!!!!!

I try to catch SON, but I usually go out friday nights...

Aiden, Jake, Jonica, & Kyla= LAMES

I'm so happy Kyla got rid of jake [ I hope that's the last we see of him] but she's style dumb as bricks

And although the spashley romance suspense is starting to annoy me... I love the mystery behind it [let us not forget this is THE N] 

Good job once again ladies

Bankhead's picture

No New Episode

With the show taking a break this week I feel a random vlog with professor Troy would really cheer me up!

 

marcia's picture

my question

have the two of you ever dated at any point ?

Nodame's picture

<3 you guys

I <3 y'alls randomness. And i'm thinking about moving to ATL after I graduate but I just found out that hedgehogs are illegal in GA... this is serious because i don't know if moving is such a good idea now.

But great job on the recap, I think that the drugs have gotten to Kyla's brain and she is hallucinating the whole she has fans things. I'm  also trying to figure out Spencer's apparent 180 personality change. 

Edit

I figured it out, Spencer's apparent personality change has to be due to the fact that as the "sweet and innocent" character on SON she has gotten hurt badly by Ashley. Remember she recently lost a brother and i'm sorry Spencer was not nearly changed enough by the loss of Clay.. so says I. Anyway onward with my theory- Spencer was hurt by Ashley when she was sweet and innocent version Spencer, now that power in the relationship is essentially in Spencer's hand.. it would appear to me that she is attempting to play her hand at not so sweet and innocent and seeing where that gets her. 

Besides she is a teenager, we all tried out new roles to see which one fit us best. Maybe this role for Spencer is fitting her?  Ok... back to Psychology class for me. 

Crystal's picture

Hehe

"It's just my character on the v-log..."

YEAH RIGHT! Jenn is a P.I.M.P.

I love it!

 

Uh, Bradley is HUGE. He covered Jenn's whole BODY!!

hugAnerd's picture

Ditto

That was my favorite line too. I was dying laughing.

 I also enjoyed,

"The best of both worlds like Hannah Montana"

and

when Dee confessed to looking extra hard down Ashley's shirt.

Chanel 's picture

Love you guys...

Ummm, first things first...

Dee... *sigh*...  was looking HELLA SEXY in her turtleneck.... smh... IDK, I just thought that was really hot for some reason... (But I've also never really been in to the girls that have THEIR girls all hanging out either...lol)

And Jenn... *sigh* (yes, they both get sighs...lol... I love the comment that Dee made about Jenn being a STUD FISH because I was thinking the exact same thing... And it was so cute how Jenn reacted to the thought of being kissed on her 'sensitive area'... lol

Um, yea... Bradley is beautiful and HUGE... Stewie is cute... And I thought I would die when Toast came and Jenn got all nervous... I remember when she tried to RIP HER ARM OFF!!!! Yes, I can be mellodramamtic too... lol 

See you lover-ly ladies next friday!!! 

 

No True Name's picture

Dee is always beautiful

but she looked extra tight this time. That look was really working for you honey.

I was waiting for you guys to go off on Spencer letting Jonica in the house in the first place and you guys said exactly what was on my mind, as usual. But, the most hilarious part of the vlog had to be when Jenn asked "who are Kyla's fans?" and Dee piped in with the owl sounds. You guys are awesome.

And Jenn, you don't have to lie boo, we know you a playa and we love you for it.

space's picture

you girls get cuter and cuter<3

i read same sex in the city too!  i remember it being a fun read, not exactly helpful, but quite entertaining!  what did you not agree with?  for me, i found some of her stories kind of overly epic and hard to relate to.  as for lugs i know of, i think they want to "get it out of their system" so they can eventually settle down.  i can't judge them for their needs, but its just never that simple.

as for questions and requests about "the life"... enjoy the recaps, but would also love to hear more personal stories and stuff.  how about your coming out stories?  and if jenn's mom ever comes on the vlog, it would be great to hear her side of the story too.  what about your first experiences;)  you two really are just oh so interesting :)

lol @ the kitty's meow at the end!!!  had to rewind that a few times, too cute!  and i'm with dee on shirley manson's accent, hot!!
themwordx's picture

Giving a shotout

sorry im LATE but i had to leave a comment becasue im pretty sure some of the people i hang out with are LUG's but i have to wait until graduation to spill their tea

Spill Jill's picture

Oh God. Let me start out by

Oh God. Let me start out by saying, Jenn...Jenn, Jenn, Jenn, Jenn. Jenn.

 

Yes.

 

Now, you raise some god points here. Never in my life have I been "pre-heating" it with a female and all of a sudden I get a text message and think, "Yeah, I should probably go." I mean, it takes NOTHING to lure them away from a potential situation. If it's sunny outside, if the mailman comes, if it's Valentine's Day, if they forgot to check perezhilton.com, if Angelina and Brad adopt another baby...no hook-up. BEYOND that, they LEAVE! I mean, something can ruin the mood, but can it make you leave?! Moods are like seasons. They come back around. Spence, Ash...wait it out.

 

Anyway, this was awesome. I look very, very forward to the next one.

 

Jenn...

Christina's picture

Hey!

this is my 1st time watching your vlog...hilarious!! and u two are hot! Now i'm going to go watch the old vlogs...
KIM 's picture

love it

love yall
Melissa Hsu's picture

SPASHLEY FOREVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LOL WEN JENN WAS LITTLE MAKIN FUN OF JONICA WEN SHE SED IM HER TO SHOW YOU SOME E.T. HOMFONO VIDES CUZ IM ALIEN.....THAT WAS SO FUNNY I COULD STOP LAUGHIN...I WITH HER I HATE JONICA SHE IS A WANNA BE PIMP AND I JUST HATE HER SHE SHOULD HAD NEVER BEEN ON THE SHOW.....ANYWAYS I LOVE SOUTH OF NOWHERE ITS THE BEST SHOW ON TV......SAVE SPASHLEY!!!!!!!!