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Cherry Bomb: "You Call That Sex?"

In the Season 3 premiere of Cherry Bomb, the ladies welcome Andrea Meyerson to the couch to talk about one of their favorite topics.

Friends and strangers alike seem to think it’s fine to ask, "So what do you do in bed?" when they find out you’re a lesbian. The ladies discuss what they consider sex and Andrea invites them to a special women’s weekend getaway.

And in this week’s surprise question, how do you ask for certain things from your partner in the bedroom?

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Carone's picture

yayyy another season!

yayyy another season!
kidbucket's picture

new intro

i love the new intro :)

yay for a new season! 

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Woo Hoo!

They're back! =)
greeneggsnoham's picture

yay!

Yay!!!!
Yunique's picture

YES!!!!!!!!!!!

My life makes sense again! you are back! the day is starting off to be a grand start.

ok nikki was always hot but Daaamn she's looking better than ever.

and yet again.. great episode.

sparklet's picture

LOL I would have to

LOL I would have to agree..... Nikki is hotter than hot!
Studstatus's picture

yeahhhhhh :)

Great to have them back
Jeannette's picture

Agreed

"I know it when I have it"

That's how I feel too.  I don't have any clear lines, just that if you felt like you had sex, you had sex.  I got in an argument with one of my straight female friends about this.  She was shocked to hear me say that fingering is sex.  I explained that the fingering lesbians do is probably way different from what she has experienced.  Silly straight girls, some of them really don't get lesbian sex.  To each their own though.

Angelous92's picture

Yeah, they´re back

OMG I missed you guys, everytime I watch I discover new things and doubts go away. You´re awesome, thanks a lot. Congratulations for the new season!!!
Erica Nicole's picture

OMG!

YOUr BAck I missed cherry bomb!
Dorky77's picture

Yeah!

KIM 's picture

hey nikki

nikki is sexy as hell 

SAVING THE WORLD. ONE MILE AT A TIME.

LuzdeAltair's picture

My definiton of sex

ABSOLUTELY LOVED this episode, there wasn't a single bland second in it! (There never is with you lovely ladies but... you get my drift)

As for my definition of sex (this is a topic I've discussed with many friends and we all seem to have different opinions):

Whatever you do with someone else (one or more people) with the goal of attaining/giving an orgasm; (even if that doesn't end up happening) regardless of clothes, location, positions, etc...

eve_jig_it's picture

Gr8t episosde ladies. I

Gr8t episosde ladies.

I know you can't, but please make the episodes longer!!

 

 

dancingdi's picture

You're back!

Loved this.  And I have to agree "I know it when I've had it".  I used to have more clear cut lines but not anymore.  I've somehow evolved away from that.

Funny that this was the topic of the episode because for some reason every single Friday "What is lesbian sex?"  becomes the topic of choice for the straight girls in my office.  I'm going to let them watch this and maybe just maybe they'll stop asking "What do lesbians do anyway? I just don't get it."  I am so unbelievably tired of attempting to answer that question. 

 

 

Dance like no one is watching. Love like you've never been hurt.

Jayce's picture

Hurray! New episode!

I got into a huge argument with my first girlfriend (who was bisexual) over what was considered to be sex. For me, if it ends in an orgasm it's sex. But for her she said it's only sex if there's male penetration. Fingering or oral don't count.

Oh man, I was so pissed. She was basically telling me that two girls could never have sex. That's not something you say to a lesbian. :/

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All Is Not Lost On AE: Cherry Bomb Is Back With A Whole New Look

I am happy to see all of your beautiful faces ladies! I was so missing the grown womyn vblog.  The new look is fabulous.  Love the new intro! The new season is starting off great talking about Lesbian Sex, my favorite topic too. 

All of you look great,you glowin'.

=)!

Brutal_Romance's picture

WELCOME BACK CB!!!

when orgasm is achieved, sex has taken place...thats my definition of sex atleast.

Welcome back girls, it took you long enough!

love the new intro, smexy and enjoyable. you guys should have more sex-oriented topics to talk about. seriously, with the amount of clueless straighties I'm surounded with, I need to hear more about serious delicious lesbian sex. I was giggling all throughout this episode, this should show you how deprived I am from hearing a conversation about it.

and Gloria has some amazing ideas about mm, you guys should host a whole epi with Gloria telling us of her mm fetishes, a whole episode!

My gf is very reserved, and when we first got together, there was a whole list of things which she blank out refused to do when I asked her 'nicely'. But with time she got more comfortable and she's on her way to completing my list.

 

akiraj's picture

:)

I have to say I love that intro before I even watch the show!
akiraj's picture

If they're really hot- we had sex lol

What I consider sex- anything done to acheive orgasm. Straight to the point.

I have to say though that I'm guilty of asking many of my lesbian friends about what they do in bed simply to gather techniques and a sorta how-to guide lol because I'm a babydyke:) The mm thing sounds like something I should try ahem!

If it was hard for me to concentrate on anything else because I was trying not to get distracted by Dalila's everything 

Discoveries's picture

I needed this

I feel like these ladies are the most non-judgmental down-to-earth gay women I have ever seen. And today they really distracted me from the awful things on my mind.
Cristina in NYC's picture

woohoo

yay!! so happy you guys are back!!
Ashlody's picture

video problems

does anyone know anywhere else i can watch this episode? it won't play on here.

 

Darlene's picture

WELCOME BACK

Soo happy CB's back.

I must say the idea of the intro is so wonderful. CONGRATULATIONS TO THE ENTIRE CHERRY BOMB CREW and LADIES, you all are looking gorgeous

Ok, back to topic, penetrating, going down there is what i call sex. getting a lap dance and reaching orgasm is not sex to me. There are many ways to reach orgasm and not all the ways can be clasified as sex.

Adams's picture

Ooo how I have missed these

Ooo how I have missed these beautiful, smart, funny, sexy, charming ladies! I'm so glad that you're back. Great episode, I think we have all at one time or another asked or wondered how things were *ahem* handled. I'm loving the revamped intro as well. Great job ladies!
Cerulean Skii's picture

Devil's Advocate

I don't know if this has already been mentioning but what if there is no orgasm? Would that act still count as sex?

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An optimist may see a light where there is none, but why must the pessimist always run to blow it out? -Descartes

kariffany's picture

perhaps perhaps perhaps

i think you've got a point. perhaps sex is when there is physical contact with and stimulation of the sexual organs.  

to me, all types of oral sex, masturbation and "penetration" sex are sex. i'd like to add to my definition something having to do with liquid or sexual secretions, but that complicates things.

all sex does not lead to orgasm, but you could still have had sex. like, if you get stopped in the middle for whatever reason, you were still having sex.

nonetheless, groping each other, sorry for being vulgar, is not having sex, even if it is done for a long time in a dark place...etc.  if you touch someone's breasts or chest, that is not sex. if you touch someone's derrière, that is not sex either. but if you touch their sexual organs with an intention to stimulate and perhaps lead to orgasm, that is sex. so what role does intention play?

and what happens if person A touches person B's chest and person B achieves orgasm? that is sex only for person B.

gosh, this really is a great question.

 

 

Cerulean Skii's picture

Devil's Advocate

I don't know if this has already been mentioning but what if there is no orgasm? Would that act still count as sex?

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An optimist may see a light where there is none, but why must the pessimist always run to blow it out? -Descartes

Hotdiggity's picture

Wines

I'm more interested in knowing what wines ya'll are drinking during your discussion. Some red, some white....need more deets!! 

 

And most importantly, What wines you drink that lead up to sex! 

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The show is back. Thanks.

The show is back. Thanks.
catia's picture

back ehe

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

hell yah!! they  are back!!

I miss you girrrlss :P

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Scream and say something

sgtmian's picture

yup. i know when i've had

yup. i know when i've had it. i don't need no stinkin' definitions. 
Erika's picture

love the new introduction

good to have the ladies of cherry bomb back.

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5on_KinseyScale's picture

Awesome!!!

OMG Cherry Bomb is BACK~~~

I love this show!!!!

nyckelpiga's picture

I don't like the argument,

I don't like the argument, that it's sex if you have an orgasm. Because - what about the people who hardly ever orgasm? Cause there are people who have difficulties with having an orgasm, even when enjoying sex - and just because you don't orgasm, you've never had sex?

I think I've had sex, sorry, and I find the argument rather discriminating.

Good to have you back, though.

Nona J.'s picture

I'm so happy

Cherry Bomb is back!

New opening and topic - Looove It!   

" True enjoyment comes from activity of the mind and exercise of the body; the two are ever united" ~ Wilhelm von Humbolt

confusedN's picture

Love the new

Love the new season!!

However, hate the new player! Can't find a way to watch the episodes in fullscreen. Can you please use the previous player??

 

~confusedN~

Irie's picture

Welcome Back Ladies

I got so frustrated while you guys were gone.... I kept checking weekly, fingers crossed, until I couldn't take the disappointment any more. Now I see that I've missed two episodes!!! What the....?

Positive side: I can watch them back to back by which time the world will be back on an even keel again!!! :-)

 

Jackster's picture

"If they're really hott, we had sex."

Hahahaha! That most definitely has got to be the best definition. I'm using that one lol. 

 

Another FANTASTIC episode ladies. 

jackedup77's picture

pretty broad definition

If your naked genitalia is touching any part of my body, (hands, tongue, thigh, whatever) and vice versa... that's sex

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Not Hatupatu's picture

hooray for orgasms

I love the definition that if you have an orgasm, it's sex. This makes lesbian sex so much better than straight sex. :) I mean a huge percentage of women don't orgasm during penetrative sex. Basically by this definition I've had a lot less sex with guys than I thought I had.

I agree with kariffany on all points.

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