Cherry Bomb: "Loving Too Much"

Wine - check

Gorgeous, smart and funny ladies who has got something interesting to say- check

Stupid ice cream boy - check (Tatum is smart, funny and very beautiful....pretty much the perfect woman)

Keep up the good work ladies! Lots of love to you and may your directors car run forever!

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You ladies make me want to sip some wine today. Tatum raised some good points today about passion and falling in and out of love which reminds me of Alicia Keys song. Now I get it.

Thanks Ladies! =)

  This picture is actress Paula Patton, the R&B/Soul RobinThicke's wife. She played in Deja Vu,Idelwild and Rush Hour 3. So it's not me.

They are funny, witty and wise... and easy on the eyes.

I voted fot Tatum for the AfterEllen Hot 100 List. Hope she makes it.

Good convo regarding this topic. Hell, don't we all love/fall for someone we shouldn't, lol.

Great ep as usual! This is my favorite part of Fridays! <3

"There are many things in life that will catch your eye, but only a few will catch your heart. Pursue these." ~Michael Nolan <3

very timely episode since i find myself pining for someone as we speak.

tatum brought up a lot of good points and words of wisdom. not to mention i have a total crush on her! 

I remember being 15 n being "in love" with this older women.. we are still friends but its strange... I realized that wasnt love.. even what i was with my second serious gf this summer i thought it was love but it wasnt..

I sometimes wonder if sex and love can even co-exist in the same relationship, is there such thing as balance?? Or does one take over the other all the time??

Ameara <3

Tatum.. message me ;-)

True...orgasm begets orgasm

also true...orgasm not necessary for amazing sex

... I must be crazy because even after listening to all that logic and life experience set forth I still am madly in love with my ex. I haven't been able to decide whether it is good, bad or ugly yet. It has been way too long, I know that much.

Passion is my problem ... I always have to much of it, coming from my partner and myself...

Great episode, ladies...Amazing energy and good light ;)  That was fun, huh?

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Thanks for this episode, I was longing for a topic like this one!

Tatum was really interesting (as always) and did raise some good points in this episode.

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Love the Vlog ladies! Watch it every week! Tatum.. I loved how your theory of falling in love again and again.  I totally do that with my wife, but never heard it put that way.  But that is definately what helps keep our passion, is sometimes she will just do something cute, or laugh or I dunno anything and I'm falling all over again, even harder, and its just such a great reminder of why you are with this person in the first place!

Must say you ladies were lookin FINE today! Nikki, your breasts are SO distracting that sometimes I have to scroll the video back because I missed what Gloria had to say.  Love it.. don't be puttin em away! I'll keep scrollin back lol.

this is such a good episode.

"i want to be with somebody who wants to be with me."

so perfect. 

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let's just pretend i said something constructive and intelligent.

I so much relate to what Dalila said in the beginning, which goes along the line that someone I also like shows interest in me, but the moment I step up to take the relationship to the next level, they start to back off. It repeats in my life over and over and at one point I got so fed up being heartbroken that I shut myself out from falling for people. So I have a question for you, Dalila. How did you get out of this bad habit? :)

Nice job, ladies!

Wow, we just went over this is philosophy class.  Except we called it an animus projection, where you see your own qualities in a person you are infatuated with.  Maybe I should suggest to the teacher that we watch the Cherry Bomb (for intellectual purposes of course) XD

I agree the whole philosophy no mind games.

Tatum has a lovely accent.  Dalila your hair is looking great.

I do believe there are rare extenuating circumstances that could prevent someone from being able to be involved in a relationship.

Where to start where to start?... First off, YUM Ladies

I've been there (What Up T) its really not fun.  I saw what I wanted in her, like I really just had a hard time finding flaws (Deal breakers anyway), and then there's the challenge, I had fun pursuing her.  Glo I feel you on the ego end of things, cuz "I don't know how to put this but I'm kind of a big deal", and I just found it obsurd that she could even consider puttin me in the friend zone.  So I just came to the realization that she just needs to get on my level lol jk but in all seriousness I just decided that I wanted to fall for someone who's falling with me

 I  have been in the same situation. I was completly inlove with a women that i didnt really know. I had kept it a secret for a long time and then when she found out she stopped speaking to me.. But it is an ego thing cause mine is huge. I AM THE SHIT! J/K.But i'd ask and tell myself all kinds of things cause i could not figure out WHY! I finally had to let it go cause her feelings would never change and it's pointless..