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Rosie and Kelli “remain a family”

We’ve heard rumblings about trouble between Rosie O’Donnell and her partner Kelli Carpenter O'Donnell for months, but both have kept quiet about the rumors until Tuesday.

In an interview with USA Today, Rosie addressed the status of her relationship with Kelli, saying:

“We are a family. We will remain a family forever. And we are working on our issues.”

The two have been together for more than 12 years and were married in San Francisco in 2004. They have four children: Parker, 14, Chelsea, 12, Blake, 9 and Vivi, 6.

On her blog, Rosie has hinted at relationship difficulty from time to time, but hey, relationships are hard under the best of circumstances. Under the light of public scrutiny, I can’t imagine how difficult it would be.

Now, however, the problems seem to be more serious. But as always, the welfare of the kids is a priority to the couple.

"Kelli and I love each other very much and we are working on our issues. Those are the only words I am ever going to say. Ever. And that is something that has been agreed upon by all parties," she said, tears collecting in her eyes. "But everything's fine and everybody's good and we're still both raising them together. We will both continue to parent them and we're friendly and everything's all right."

Rosie and Kelli have been at the forefront of the quest for the right to marry and we want to be among their strongest supporters as they work through their issues. Join me in wishing them well.

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  • dragonlady07's picture

    was sad

    when someone asked her bout kellis fb and she didnt know she had one
    Donica's picture

    Oh my god dragon lady

    I saw that! Very upsetting.
    7Up's picture

    stupid question but,

    what's an fb?
    dragonlady07's picture

    fb=

    facebook
    Candice's picture

    It said three on the home

    It said three on the home page.
    Karman Kregloe's picture

    Thanks for catching that!

    Just made the correction. :)
    Galaxyglue's picture

    Rosie=ughh

    I dont want to sound cold,  but Im surprised the relationship lasted as long as it did. Rosies a loud mouthed snob, I couldnt imagine living with her.  I dont know what Kelli Carpenter saw in her. Never cared for Rosie as an actress or talk show host when she was on. I feel for the kids, but could care less if the two of them reconcile.
    OneStarTattoo's picture

    Kelli

    is STUNNING in person.  We went on an R family cruise and pictures do not do her justice.  It is always sad when a family breaks up. I wish them all the best.
    Tease's picture

    Does anyone really believe

    Does anyone really believe that Rosie will never have anything more to say about this?  Because I have some land I'd like to sell you. 

    Lisa

    Anyone who trades liberty for security deserves neither liberty nor security -- B. Franklin
    KiwiGirl1974's picture

    Yes

    she's actually been really discreet about their relationship issues.  People have been asking her very direct questions about Kelli for months.
    Stacey's picture

    Kelli O'Donnell

    she is not Kelli Carpenter anymore - she legally changed her name.
    the linster's picture

    Good catch!

    Corrected -- thanks!
    Libra's picture

    I wish Rosie all the

    I wish Rosie all the best!

    "Only a fool speculates about the life of a woman!"

    OneFunnyBitch's picture

    It's hard enough...

    It's hard enough being in a 'traditional' relationship when it contains one female.  Two sets of hormones, stress of having a vagina, and having a hard time peeing standing up.  I am proud for what Rosie has done in bringing attention to important issues.  I guess if people don't like her, oh well. 

    I think she has done a lot of great things, and has a big heart, and I hope that the relationship will remain on good terms for their children.  Go Rosie O'! 

     

    OneFunnyBitch - the best kind of bitch a woman could be!

    Brynn's picture

    um...

    I'm hoping that your screen name "onefunnybitch" means that you were layering on the sarcasm in your first two sentences... cos I know that no AE girl in her right mind would say that a lesbian relationship is any more difficult due to hormones and vaginas... I would say that any relationship is intrinsically difficult at times regardless of sex or gender.
    Donica's picture

    Her blog

    I read her Ask Ro comments page alot. People write in all the time asking about Kelli and her. In the past, she's usually answered everything is fine. But on her most recent page, she posted a bunch of comments from readers expressing their concern and best wishes about the relationship. What's really telling is that she just posted them without any answers from her. Seems there really is trouble now, which is indeed sad.
    TampaStephie's picture

    I agree

    I've been reading her site for a long time too and lately, there's been NOTHING about Kelli at all. I think they agreed that they would not play this out in the press for the sake of the kids. The rumors were that Kelli had perhaps cheated on Rosie. But, I'm sure Rosie is not easy to live with either. I hope they work it out but I don't think it looks good...it is sad as they seemed to be so happy a few years ago.

    Mika's picture

    Revealing in others troubles....

    How awful can the media become.  I am appalled that they have already established media debate panels to predict the type and level of nastiness or amicability.  I wish them the very best, whatever the outcome.

     

    tracer123's picture

    Rosie and Kelli...

    I am surprised anyone wanted to marry Rosie O'Donnell, she's awful
    hotdoc's picture

    Just heard the news

    This is very depressing to me to find out they have split up, especially that Kelli moved out 2 years ago.
    Libra's picture

    At least it was civilized

    At least it was civilized right?

    And Rosie said on her blog when answering people that she still loves Kelli and they will always be a family.

    "Only a fool speculates about the life of a woman!"

    Galaxyglue's picture

    Rosie: New love interest ?

    http://www.nydailynews.com/gossip/2009/12/30/2009-12-30_rosie_odonnell_romancing_new_lady_friend_says_a_report.html

     

    Looks like Rosie has moved on from Kelli now.  Confirmed by Perez Hilton.

    hotdoc's picture

    Kelli too

    It looks like Kelli might be seeing Sweet travel founder / CEO Shannon Wentworth.  

    http://www.queerty.com/is-this-kelli-carpenters-girl-friend-or-girlfrien...