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Cool Cat Cora speaks out on Prop. 8

Given my tendency to have longer-term relationships with domestic animals than domestic partners, I have always wanted to find a cat that can cook. If only.

Cat Cora, patron saint of lesbian foodies and still the only female Iron Chef, has earned our affection for many reasons, not the least of which is that she still loves AfterEllen.com, even after a close encounter with Karman and Bridget at the 2008 HRC Gala.

Cora lives with her partner of 10 years, Jen Cora, and their two sons, Zoran and Caje, in the Santa Barbara area of California. Jen and Cat are expecting their third child in April. As if Iron Chef America and a growing family aren’t enough to keep her busy, Cora is about to open a new restaurant, CCQ (Cat Cora’s ‘Que), in Costa Mesa in December.

Food Gal Carolyn Jung spoke with Cora recently about her life and loves — and how she feels about Prop. 8. (Thanks to AE reader Jen for the tip!)

Here are some choice excerpts from the interview:

CJ: A lot has been said about this recent historic election that with the passage of Prop. 2 (protection for farm animals) and of Prop. 8 (amending the state constitution to restrict marriage to a union between a man and a woman) that Californians care more about chickens than human beings. What do you think?

Cat: We’re all disappointed. On a good note, it was close. But it’s shocking and stunning to think this happened, given how progressive we think Californians are. It’s sad this issue is even on the ballot in this day and age.

CJ: Did you and Jen walk down the aisle before the election?

Cat: No. We’re domestic partners. We were legally advised not to rush to the altar, because once you get married, your domestic partnership goes out the window. With another child on the way, a health-care proxy is absolutely necessary to have. But I support everyone who has gotten married.

CJ: Did you ever fear that some of your adoring public might view you differently?

Cat: Jen and I have never hidden the fact that we’re together. Our kids are important to us, and we want them to know we’re proud to be their mothers. You have to stand up for who you are, because you are basically standing up for them. We’re just an all-American family living the all-American dream.

With a woman like Cat Cora in the kitchen, I’d say the all-American dream definitely is a dream worth having.

What would you have Cat Cora cook up for you? Just keep it tasteful.

(To learn more about Cat, check out our profile "Cat Cora Turns Up the Heat.")

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  • K's picture

    Cat Cora

    I like this woman so much im even willing to overlook the crappy jackets they make you wear as an iron chef...im glad that the two of them had someone to advise them what the best move was for them...i would hate to think that anyone would do something detrimental to their legal status at this crossroads in CA
    Clara's picture

    Never seen the show as its

    Never seen the show as its not on UK TV far as I know but Karman was soooo adorable and funny when she was trying to get to talk with Cat and Bridget was hilarious making fun of her, and Cat seems really cool from the little I know (and really pretty). The caption made me laugh though "The out Iron Chef recently talked about why she didn't marry her partner and her new restaurant, CCQ." I read it to mean she talked about why she didn't marry her restaurant although of course I knew it didn't mean that!
    amandak's picture

    she's amazing

    My 7 year old sister loves watching iron chef with me and my mom. When the challenger is picking which chef to go against my sister starts cheering for Cat Cora. She is a great role model for little girls. She exudes determination, teamwork and skill. The fact that she's part of our community is just an added bonus.
    monica_ca's picture

    mmm....food.....

    Cat's one of my favourites, and honestly, I'd eat ANYTHING that she made :D

    monica_ca's picture

    Anybody know...

    Does anyone have any information on this?  I had never heard this before...

    "We were legally advised not to rush to the altar, because once you get married, your domestic partnership goes out the window." 

    LV's picture

    I've beed advised the exact opposite!

    My partner and I got married in CA in October. From what I read on the subject, there are no complications for gay couples in CA to be both married and registered domestic partners - as long as it is with the same person!

    I think I read about this on the FAQ section released by NCLR, Lambda Legal, ACLU, & EQCA:

    http://www.nclrights.org/site/DocServer/Marriage_FAQ_Final_5.15.08.pdf?d...

    If you scroll down to #9 & 10, you'll see what I'm talking about.

    Since we were not registered as domestic partners at the time we got married, our officiant strongly advised us to do so at the same time, just in case. And although our marriage is still legal (for now and hopefully in the future), I am glad we did.

    Imsuchanerd's picture

    I adore this woman...

    ...she defines the word "classy" to all it's degrees.  I love that she's a family girl in all respects and love that she's involved with Chefs For Humanity as well as UNICEF.  I never miss an Iron Chef when I know she's competing and was bummed when she and Chef Morimoto lost the Thanksgiving Showdown.  :)  She is definitely one of my "Top 10 people I'd like to meet". 

    I SO wish I could go to this: https://www.ovationtix.com/trs/pe/761392     

    melissa's picture

    cat is awesome

    yeah i saw the thanksgiving showdown last night. all the chefs are amazing but i like cat the best.

     

    Im not crazy, my reality is just different then yours.

    Sarah's picture

    She's gay?!

    Wow... I had no idea Cat Cora was gay... I remember watching Iron Chef one day and thinking, "OMG, that woman is gorgeous.. too bad she's probably straight." This article made my day. Lol. It's great to see someone so out and successfull. She kicks ass on Iron Chef. :P
    Jake's picture

    I LOVE CAT!

    I loved this chick before I knew she was gay! I record Iron Chef every sunday just to watch her!

     

    -JAKE DEVI

    buckboard's picture

    Marriage invalidate domestic partnership?

    Registered Domestic Partnerships and Marriage

    9. If we’re already in a registered domestic partnership in California, do we have to dissolve our domestic partnership before we can marry?

    No. The California domestic partnership statutes permit an individual to be both married and in a registered domestic partnership, so long as it is to the same person.

    10. Is there any reason for couples who marry to also remain in a domestic partnership?

    Yes. Being in a registered domestic partnership may protect you if you travel or move to another state that will recognize a domestic partnership but not a marriage.

     These are the sections LV pointed out, where legal experts seem to say the exact opposite of what Cat Cora's attorney's suggested.  For now, the only option in California for anyone who didn't get married yet is domestic partnership, although anyone who was married before Nov. 4th and doesn't have a domestic partnership also, should contact NCLR or an attorney familiar with LGBT legal issues to make sure this is correct, since it contradicts the advice Cat Cora was given.