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Eight gay women are blogging to battle Prop. 8

Everybody’s doing it. Whether you live in California or not, you know that Proposition 8 is on the November ballot — an effort by anti-gay groups to overturn the right of same-sex couples to marry. Couples like this one, to be exact.

Del Martin and Phyllis Lyon, June 16, 2008

The good news is that foes of Proposition 8 have come out of the woodwork to help defeat the measure. We’ve told you about the great PSAs by Margaret Cho, Molly Ringwald, Ellen DeGeneres and others. We’ve rejoiced at significant financial support from Stephen Spielberg, Kate Capshaw and Brad Pitt.

MadTV joined in last week with a trailer featuring Lucy and Ethel, admitting that, had gay marriage been legal when they were around, they would’ve gotten married “lickety split.” (“You do the split and I’ll do the lickety,” Ethel said.) And crackle.com released two very funny videos addressing professed objections to same sex marriage.

 

Now, some of our own have stepped up to raise awareness — and funds — to defeat Proposition 8. Recently, AfterEllen.com blogger GraceChu saw people on her Facebook account campaigning for the hate measure’s passage. Fighting her first instinct to do a mass deletion, Grace came up with the idea to get eight influential lesbian bloggers (including our own Dorothy Snarker) to band together to raise $8,000 in eight days. Today, 8 Against 8 was born.

Meet the eight against hate: Grace Chu and Grace Rosen from Grace the Spot, Dorothy Snarker from Dorothy Surrenders, Lori Hahn from Hahn at Home, Kelly Leszczynski from The Lesbian Lifestyle, Pam Spaulding from Pam's House Blend, Sinclair from Sugarbutch Chronicles, Riese from This Girl Called Automatic Win and Renee Gannon from Lesbiatopia.

If you are a regular reader of any or all of these blogs, you know that often the women have little more in common than sexual orientation. But on Proposition 8, these wordilicious lesbians agree: Just say no.

If you don’t live in California, you may be asking what all this has to do with you. Spend some time on any of the 8 Against 8 blogs to learn why it matters. I live in Texas and am pretty sure we’ll see a ban on big belt buckles before anyone even talks about letting us queer folks get married. But watching the video at the end of Ms. Snarker’s post made me dust off my debit card and send a little cash to the cause. Let’s save marriage — the right way.

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  • jennifer from pittsburgh's picture

    8

    I gave. If this tightwad can loose the purse strings, so can you! Guess this means that it's nothing but lentils the rest of the week, and I better baby that bottle of Merlot or I'll *gasp* be entirely sober by about Thursday.
    ~H~'s picture

    Such Peer Pressure!

    In truth, you don't even need to twist my arm. We cannot take a step backwards when it comes to gay marriage and if funding is needed to fight against Proposition 8, well then...
    Could you please pass the lentils, Jennifer?
    ;-)

    jennifer from pittsburgh's picture

    Heck, H, I owe you a proper

    Heck, H, I owe you a proper meal! Not lentils. Caty and I will catch up with you over Xmas and treat you to something delish, okay? It'll give me a chance to show off my good sweater ;)
    Gaby's picture

    Awesome PSA´s!!!!!!

    I´ll never have sex again since I´m bi, overweighted and I´m sure I´m not getting any younger.. I loved that one!!! Are all the reasons for opposing same-sex marriage that.... ridiculous???

    PS: This might sound stupid but I´ve been wondering this: LGBT people are considered second classs citizens right? As in "we are less worthy" than heterosexual people. So that leaves me wondering, if we are "less" than they are, how come WE make THEIR marriages less worthy?! If they really believe we are a different class, a lesser kind of beings how come we are able to threaten everything they hold sacred? They shouldn´t worry about that right?!

    (THIS IS A LEGITIMATE DOUBT I´VE HAD, PLEASE EXCUSE MY IGNORANCE)

    sage's picture

    i think Riese said it best...

    "..we're all broke now anyway, what's another $5-$500 bucks? That's what I tell myself every night when I order takeout." please everyone donate..just a few dollars for a basic human right

    Steph's picture

    Awesome.

    Donated.
    Jake's picture

    BTW If you live in Florida

    Vote No on Prop/Amendment 2 it is similar to prop 8...

    Michie87's picture

    Voting NO on 8

    I am soooo voting NO on 8!!!..lets give those stupid homophobes a reason to respect us!! and let us be!.
    Edilma's picture

    Riese!

    I (heart) riese, best damn blogger ever, you guys should hire her ;)
    Rachel JW's picture

    Prop 8

    I live in Cali and I'm doing what I can to raise awareness. I was at a booth informing people, passing out fliers, buttons, talking to friends, and am all over the internet-group world about it.

     

    -Rachel 

    http://groups.myspace.com/KisstheGirl07

    ketchup__fights's picture

    Riese

    I can't believe I've never heard of Riese or her blog before today. She is indeed, as advertised, made of win.

    And seriously folks, we've got to beat this thing. Gay rights opponents know this could set us back years if it's passed, and that's why they're pumping money into the campaign. (Seriously, why do they care so much? It flummoxes me.) We've got to match them. I've donated my twenty-five dollars.

    FreewheelNat's picture

    The world is watching with anticipation!

    The world is watching your November elections with anticipation - I hope the USA can restore a little bit of its international glory by doing the right thing :-)

    Many cultural trends come from the USA and even though we have our own same sex union here in the UK (called civil partnership, because they backed out of calling it marriage for fear that it would shock people), if California goes back on the right for same sex couples to get married, it would certainly make us feel that little bit more insecure about our own rights.

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    Taking off - the novel, coming soon. Starring Katie, a lesbian in London...

    In the meanwhile, you can read reviews of films and books with lesbian/bi characters and/or taking place in London at www.takingoff.org

     

    mortil2's picture

    8against8.com won't let me donate ...


    I have tried to make a donation here from Denmark via 8against8.com as well as the Equality California site at eqca.org, but the websites seem not to be willing to receive my MasterCard payment and told me to talk to my credit card provider. And I have just done that.

    They say that it must be some error at 8against8.com a.o., as neither MasterCard nor my bank have any qualms whatsoever to let me digitally spend some money in the US — which I’ve done lots of times before, by the way, without any problems.
     
    Has anyone outside the US experienced similar problems, trying to donate? And if so, did you find a way around it? 

    I just so wanna donate! And have tried both Safari and Firefox several times, and will try again later. But even though I might not succeed in donating, I hope and pray that the heinous prop 8 will fall on its ass!

    And, of course, I’m with the clear majority of Europeans that's cheering OBAMA FOR PRESIDENT!
     
    Happy election day! 

    Grace Chu's picture

    hey i contacted equality

    hey i contacted equality california, but i'm in NYC - three hours ahead of them. they're just rolling into work right now. i left a message and sent an e-mail about the problem. the glitch in the page only appears to affect a few people outside of the U.S. in any event, i hope to get this resolved soon. thank you so much for your support. it is awesome that people outside of the U.S. are getting involved. :)
    mortil2's picture

    8against8.com won't let me donate ...

    Double post, sorry ... But since I had to edit anyway, I can elaborate a little. I posted a similar message as the one above at Grace Chu's blog (http://gracethespot.com/?p=489#comment-3328) and have just received a reply from her:

    "I will let EQCA know ASAP about the glitch in their donation page. I hope to get this resolved. A donor from South Africa had the same issue."

    So hopefully we "aliens" can get to donate after all -- I just hope that it won't screw up forever my being able to get a visa to the US ...;_)

    maggieyeahis's picture

    Chelsea Handler video on vote no on prop 8

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J6r648Bvygg

    "Come On Then Get These Good Done Debbies"

    Natazzz's picture

    Great initiative...

    ....let's make sure this ridiculous proposition doesn't get anywhere...

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    .★.Matt The Rock$tar.★.'s picture

    voting HECK NO

    it is not right and obviously looking at the time period we have other crisis to oppose