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Rachel Maddow is crush-worthy on all accounts

When Newsweek's Dec. 1 issue hits stands, it's going to have a little piece of non-news in the Rachel Maddow profile: "Her fans find her adorable, often confessing to crushes on her."

Newsweek is the latest print publication to devote multiple pages to Maddow, and while some of the information has been around for a while (lesbian, doubled MSNBC's ratings, keeps comic books by her bed), there's a personal element to the story that is fresh and, frankly, really sweet.

For example, here’s Maddow on her partner, Susan Mikula: "... If it made sense for my relationship with Susan that I needed to stop being on TV, and stop being on the radio, and go live full time in the Upper Peninsula in Michigan and raise chickens, we'd go live in the Upper Peninsula and raise chickens. It's the single clearest thing in my life."

On why she won't get married: "We both have a real fondness for the outsider part of our gay culture."

On falling in love the moment she and Mikula met: "It was irrational and spiritual and unexpected, and there was a moment where it was like time stopped and it was just like, OK, my whole life is different now."

Maddow also appeared on Conan on Friday night.

In one of her most amusing interviews ever, she talks about growing up playing "Iran" with her brother, a game in which she lined up the neighborhood kids according to height and acted out the Iraq-Iran war. She also tells Conan that a lot of straight men send her fan mail asking if being in love with her makes them lesbians.

Watch the entire interview below. (Rachel Maddow appears at 28:06.)

One of the best part of the Newsweek article on Maddow was a quip from Mikula. She wonders why people always label Maddow is such an "unlikely" success story. "She goes from Stanford to Oxford to activism to radio, then TV? What's so unusual about that? Is it because she is a gay lady?"

Unlikely or not, Newsweek's right: the world has got a crush on Rachel Maddow, which kind of makes me think we're sorting out our priorities.

Wildflower's picture

Sigh

That interview was amazing.  When she laughs my stomach does carwheels...

And about the Newsweek article, she's 6 feet tall!?!? I read that and almost had a stroke.... Im 5'10'' and the one thing I said that sucked about likin the girls is missing feeling small next to the person im with. 

 

Is it bad that I kinda hate Susan Mikula? Just a little?? It shoulda been meeeee dammmnittt ah

 

::SIgh.:: Id be her prisoner of war anytime...

karamelk's picture

Echo that

***Sigh.***

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Indoctrinating young people into the underground pink pistol packing group of lower socioeconomic status in order to cause harm since 2008.

A Muse's picture

I just read that interview

I just read that interview and seen her on Conan. This lady is awesome. Adorably cute and relatable. Funny and witty. What Ellen is for daytime, Rachel is for nighttime. and not just for politics ;)

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Shannon's picture

What I like about Rachel

Is she doesn't just represent, but she represents the very best of not just being a lesbian, but a woman to boot.  I love the way she doesn't back down from a fight, and her arguments are logical and coherent.  Something her male counterparts don't always succeed in. 
ColetteLala's picture

Perfectly Worded

You nailed it on the head.
karamelk's picture

C'n I?????

Nail HER--er, respect her relationship with that lady who is NOT ME?***********************************************

Indoctrinating young people into the underground pink pistol packing group of lower socioeconomic status in order to cause harm since 2008.

Metaxu's picture

'Geek chic', intelligence,

'Geek chic', intelligence, wit. She's just great.
I love her show and I'm not even an American.

And soon I'll be an expert on American politics :)

Kit 's picture

Ahhhhh

I'm obsessed to the point that whenever she is on a talk show or anything I get texts from all of my friends making sure I'm watching it.
Wildflower's picture

Rachel Maddow-the Advocate

Hey, also, I was wondering if anyone could tell me where to get the Advocate?? Where is it sold??? I want the Rachel MAddow cover, and im in San Francisco (of all places!) and cant find it anywhere!
wanderrerr's picture

Did you try your local

Did you try your local Borders Bookstore? That's where I used to get the Advocate a while back. Does Borders even operate in San Francisco?
yaddayadda's picture

yes!!

Totally crush-worthy! I've been sickish and spent the weekend in bed watching RM clips on youtube. The Conan interview was funny, it was like the meeting of two awesomest dorks on television. And word to being tall, I'm 5'11'' and am most fond of people in my range. :)
Babs's picture

did anyone ever tell you yadda...

that you look a lot like her.  that photo of you is a dead ringer.

:|

yaddayadda's picture

speaking of

I did the pic by taking a screen shot from one of these (funny, recommended, short Maddow vids): http://www.youtube.com/user/LayerCakeProductions

I'd need a valium or 10 to chop off my hair. ;)

miss chatelaine's picture

For the true Rachel Maddow fan

those Campaign Asylum videos are exactly what we love about her. She's slightly zany, very funny, extremely political, and always 100% passionate. And she looks so, so easily, casually, butchly gay :)
Anonymous's picture

More Maddow In My Daily Life! Thanks AE!

www.myspace.com/lunakiss7

She has a great sense of humor and witt. Even more crush worthy. Thanks for the clips. Keep them coming.  A lesbian could never get too much Maddow in her daily life.

shortypants's picture

Rachel Maddow-The Advocate Issue

 

You should be able to find it at any bookstore. My local queer bookstore is where I got my issue but I've also seen it in Barnes & Noble, Borders and other places.

brazen's picture

any chance of a non-hulu link?

Theyre US only
Anso1985's picture

Rachel Maddow

You can find it on youtube if you search for Rachel Maddow and/on Conan O'Brien.
brazen's picture

thanks

heh, just noticed the similarities btw your avatar and my avatar....
Babs's picture

Brazen...

I quite literally laughed out loud when i read that.  very cute.. .... 
woody-69's picture

New Fan

I have come to view Rachel as that role-model of sorts....the big brother I never had. I have been a tomboy all my life, but of the short variety....barely 5'2". I have always envied the ease in which men strolled through this life...tall, easy to dress, women falling over them.

Now...HERE's Rachel....able to do all of the above, and without the penis! She is incredibly intelligent, good-looking and a master of sarcasm when required. The top of the list quality is her fierce loyalty to her partner/lover...aces. I love this woman!

GrrrlRomeo's picture

Maddow tipster

I'm not the only one sending in the Maddow tips am I? I have "rachel maddow" query on my google account news page. LOL

Yay for Hulu! I was waiting for an itunes podcast...Conan doesn't podcast everything though.

There's another article here: Rachel Maddow is the future of MSNBC

Which I find funny because "Much has been made in the media about her lesbianism"...LOL like being gay is an ideology.

bulanjdjan's picture

YouTube URL

marilyne's picture

aaahhhh Rachel...

she's (almost) making up for all the lesbian disappearing on TV (or the lack of lesbian on TV...). I'm on the old continent, but enjoy big time watching or hearing her daily.

An out lesbian daily on tv, funny, witty and popular! What a blessing! Intelligence is so sexy ;-) plus she seems like a dork, i dig that big time.

Everything with passion, nothing with talent...

BuckeyesBandit's picture

"An out lesbian daily on

"An out lesbian daily on tv, funny, witty and popular! What a blessing!"

Haha we forget about Ellen so soon? 

marilyne's picture

Whoopsy, my bad ;-)

I can actually follow daily her on podcast even outside the us, i don't get the chance to see ellen that often. But she has paved the way for sure.

pecola's picture

Backlash?

The mention in the Newsweek piece about her losing her sense of smell when she deals with bouts of depression was awing. She's incredible. 

There's a post up at Gawker today that asks when the Maddow love parade will end. Here's some of that post:

...the Maddow backlash will come. It always does. Early fans will drop her now that she's popular, like hipsters giving up on bands. Her mistakes will draw more attention. Slate will run some piece about how terrible she is, per its contrarian mission statement 

You got the sense last week that some of the backlash is starting to come and I'm a little surprised that that discussion didn't make it into this post.

Maddow drew a little bit of fire from her base last week when she failed to ask Gov. Mike Huckabee about some of his recent jaw dropping anti-gay, anti-reality public statements during an interview on her show. Today, Pam Spaulding (LGBT blogger extraordinare) takes Maddow to task over that interview and her subsequent response to the criticism. Any thoughts about that bit of controversy?

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"Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. We are caught in an inescapable network of mutuality, tied in a single garment of destiny. Whatever affects one directly, affects all indirectly." - MLK

GrrrlRomeo's picture

Huckabee schmuckabee

I read the article whenever it was first posted. I didn't think much of it... going after Huckabee for the obvious would just be like...venting. I mean it wouldn't do anything. We all know what he thinks. There is no winning an argument with people like Huckabee. Perhaps he was even expecting Rachel to go after him on gay issues so he could speak on it.

There are people in this country that just aren't pro-gay. But the thing about religious conservatives is that they're usually all around wacky. So, if you can show people who aren't pro-gay, but maybe not really anti-gay, that there are all these other absurd things about Huckabee...maybe then they'll reject his other views that don't get talked about as much.

Don't get me wrong, I would thoroughly enjoy seeing Rachel smackdown Huckabee. But I really think the LGBT community needs to stop pinning their hopes on whatever queer is currently popular.

Blackbean's picture

Naturally

I love how Rachel Maddow so naturally and easily talks about her sexuality when asked and how she ridicules homophobic criticism. Living life queer wouldn't be the same without her as the invaluable role model that she is. 

 As for her failure to ask head-in-the-ground Republicans  about their anti-gay beliefs, I really don't think it means she's unwilling to address and stand up for gay rights. I agree with her that asking them other questions is more interesting and necessary. If you listen to her radio show, where she has more time to address the important issues she wants to address, she has devoted entire hours to gay marriage and other gay issues. Mainstream television allows her less time, and therefore she must balance a wide variety of newsworthy political issues within a small timeframe. I also think that her being out and proud on television sends a stronger message to her viewers than any comment she can deliver.

WonderWomanLesbeau's picture

I haven't had a celesbian

I haven't had a celesbian crush since the first time I saw Melissa Etheridge when I was 13. The day I found Rachel Maddow was about 3 times more intense. The woman is intelligent, beautiful, hilarious, real, hot, and gay. What more could any girl want in her woman? I love to see her out in the mainsream media. It's great to have her as one of the faces of our culture.

 p.s.-if you haven't seen this video yet, I would suggest it...it'll make you fall in love with her intelligence all over again.

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xGtsfr_HXSI

Penny_Lane's picture

double excitement!

rachel maddow AND vampire weekend on conan, yay! 

I usually don't actually watch her show but I do listen to the daily podcast of it at work and I've started listening to the air america show on my drive home.. It's nice to have someone to listen to who's smart and witty and not so in your face like some other commentators.  

yaddayadda's picture

(oops)

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miss chatelaine's picture

oh, Rachel Maddow.

One thing I really love about her - apart from her being brilliantly smart, sharp, witty, intelligent, calm, reassuring and polite - is how completely casual she is about being who she is. She's been casually slipping in references to Susan during her Air America days ("my beloved and I went to breakfast") and about her in-laws. Perhaps it's her California/Mass. upbringing and her job in New York, but she's just so relaxed about it that it always makes me grin stupidly whenever she talks so off-handedly about it, like she assumes that all her listeners are so accepting that being gay isn't even an issue.

Also, she wore that outfit on her Friday MSNBC show - was that the first time she didn't wear her blazer/girly blouse outfit? I'm so glad she gets to wear a collared SHIRT as the host; that totally looks like how I dress when I go to work. I know it's a little shallow, but she's looking more and more like she gets to pick the clothes she really feels comfortable in. I get to see more of me represented on television. Say no to the collarless low-cut blouses, Rachel, and stick to those collared shirts!

yankeelady's picture

Rachel...Rachel

 You can find the complete article on www.huffingtonpost.com under the "Media" tag.

I think she'll be around for the long term; she was in the right place at the right time, and the timing was totally perfect.  Intellect in TV political coverage and news is a rare find.  There will always be some to "fall away" as it were, but fans being who they are are tremendously loyal...and I wouldn't expect that to change.

Chilaxing's picture

THE RACHEL CRAZE. NOT THE ONE FROM "FRIENDS"

You are part of the Rachel Craze if:

Because of her you find punditry very sexy and a bit more enjoyable.

You promote her in your Facebook "status".

You blog about her.

You find her attractive.

You think her glasses should be the equivalent of Jen Aniston's "Rachel hairstyle".

You get excited when there is an article about her.

 

 

 

Blue Chapstick's picture

or if...

butch women aren't generally your type, but you find yourself putting her at the top of your "celebrities I can sleep with if I'm in a relationship" list. :)

sunnychic's picture

I am so part of the Rachel craze

I get gitty when there's an article about her, I usually mention waiting for her show to come on on my Facebook, and I definately find her attractive.

 "Happiness is only real when shared."-unknown

GrrrlRomeo's picture

Relatability

I more relate to her than find her attractive. It's nice that the dork look is now in. LOL Now I won't get nagged for dressing poorly. Yeah...so my sneakers don't match what I'm wearing...neither do Rachel's and she's on TV.

It took me 15 years to convince my Mom that nerd glasses suit me (and the pressure from nosepads on wire or frameless glasses give me a headache). It took Rachel a few minutes on Leno, Colbert and Conan to convince her that they suit Rachel. LOL 

Lindsay (Scout)'s picture

So when I first heard of her

So when I first heard of her I was kinda like *eye roll* no thank you. I'm not going to be tricked into liking some woman on the news just because she's gay and get another Rosie or Suze Orman. But I was channel flipping and had it on her show for like 3 seconds and instantly had a crush on this woman. Not only does she have a smile that kills, but she has those hot glasses, she is also hilarious and started singing "we're moving on up" and I was like "I'm in love!" haha.
Glindared's picture

The thing I LOVE about Rachel Maddow is...

It must be a required course in Communications to "report" the news with a nondescript, non-emotional, just the facts ma'm, Jack Friday, STONED FACE look... that Rachel is such a breath of FRESH AIR! She smiles, she emotes, is witty with her zingers, she challenges and is quick on the uptake. In her interviews, she's down to earth and personable. My admiration and respect for her quadrupled on the night of the Election, at the close of the polling nationwide, and Obama was declared the projected winner, Rachel had tears in her eyes...reminiscent of Walter Cronkite as he reported the death of a president, Kennedy. It was so refreshing and honest. It was indeed a historical moment when it was clear that we as a country, are actually going forward, in our collective choice for a new president to represent and lead our nation.

It is also endearing that a confident 'butch' gal would "glam up" femme fopr her job that she clearly loves.  I must admit of being a bit envious of her partner being so blessed to have Rachel as her partner. It is very inspiring to know that it is possible to fall in love at first sight, and touching to hear of the obvious love and affection shared by these lovely ladies.

Kudos Rachel...so glad to have "met ya!" I wish you many years of success in your career.

 

 

emailcarol's picture

Pam Spaulding's denunciation of Rachel Maddow

I'm what's called a "red diaper baby."  My parents were members of the Communist Party of the USA in the 40s and early 50s.  So, I grew up familar with the concept of the party line:  the approved take on every issue that CPers were supposed to follow.

Pam Spaulding's blog is like that.  If someone doesn't devote 100% of their time and energy to LGBT issues, that person is a sell-out.  Send them to Siberia!  To me, that's pathetic.  Just because she's a dyke, that doesn't mean Rachel Maddow has to spend any of her MSNBC show on LGBT issues.  She covers what she finds interesting.  That's fine with me! 

emailcarol's picture

Susan!

When Rachel finished her show last night with a smiling mention of Susan (and Susan's sister's oddball gifts), I jumped up and danced around the room in delight! 
muddster's picture

me too

i thought it was just me being weird - getting such a kick out of her mentioning susan and susan's family like any straight person would mention their spouse. heartwarming.

 

 

mallieable's picture

not only the susan mention...

...but she put on her glasses! yay! so maybe it was only for a total of 10 seconds (or less) but thats one step closer to wearing them all the time! i <3 rachel maddow!