Lesbians get some love from "Entertainment Weekly"Let's face it: not many of our favorite lesbian actors, musicians, comics and characters enjoy the kind of mainstream affection they do with AfterEllen.com readers. In fact, if your gaydar is in the shop, one quick queer test is to drop a name like Tegan and Sara. Or maybe mention Piper Perabo. If someone knows her as Rachel from Imagine Me & You, and not "that girl from Coyote Ugly," you've probably met yourself a genuine lez. Back in 2008, we noticed a trend: lesbian and bisexual characters were disappearing onscreen, but lesbian and bisexual actors were gaining plenty of notoriety. We were proved right — once again — when Entertainment Weekly released its "2009 Best & Worst" issue, which gave plenty of mainstream love to some of our favorite gays. Two queer ladies snagged Entertainer of the Year titles. Lady Gaga came it at number three, while Jane Lynch took spot number 12.
(And just to add a little "G" perspective to the "LGBT", Adam Lambert pulled the eighth spot for Entertainer of the Year, and ABC's super gay Modern Family was number nine.) In more specific categories, Gossip scored the sixth best song of the year with "Heavy Cross."
There's one more lesbian highlight in EW's Best and Worst, but I'm reluctant to give it to you. [Deep breath] In "The Shaw Report," Jessica Shaw examines what's in, what's five minutes ago, and what's absolutely out. The last item on her list this year just might break your heart:
Oh, Shane. You'll always be in with us. Who were your favorite out performers this year? Submitted by on December 23, 2009 - 3:00pm. |
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Different kind of out?
I'm sorry but I have to
The Year of the Lynch
Vote for Jane Lynch on Shewired's Woman of the year!
I'm not a fan of Shewired but I am a fan of Jane's, so go vote for her now! Cathy and Jill (2 for 1 special?) are currently leading by 53% to Jane's 4%.
Nash
www.brokenbarrel.ca
Just say no...
Love Jane Lynch, but just say no to Shewired. "Jill" is a Zionist, and that website continues to promote her hate. Stick with AE and you'll be fine.
nothing wrong with that
YOu say Zionist like it's a bad thing. I'm a Zionist too and proud of it! Rock on Israel and peace to all.
Jane Lynch is pure awesome,
LMAO!
Sorry, but I have this friend..she pings on everyone's gaydar, has a full gay scorecard(insert cliche, and check) and is getting married to a guy next year.
And she is an absolute Piper Perabo fan!(And only Piper Perabo...)
Your example just cracked me up, cause you should have seen my face, when she dragged me to a Perabo afternoon feature.
"Piper Perabo,really?"
Lol, so true..
Gay-Ga?
Agreed
She Is
Yes, Lady Gaga is bisexual. But with girls she only fucks, men she loves. Which, regardless of if you're a male or female, bisexual or gay, claiming you pretty much just use women for sex is a FAIL in my book.
Also: Lady Gaga: "I'm not a feminist. I hail men, I love men."
uh, yeah. okay. Congrats on being like any other misogynistic rock star.
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i dont think
She's done more than one interview
She's done more than one interview where's she says this.
And yes, I'm aware that kids don't care and are going to like her regardless. That's the nature of mainstream pop music. It's not really for your brain. Sex sells and all that. I just don't get the total group think lesbians, gays and bisexuals have on Lady Gaga.
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I disagree
And shouldn't you be on the "Visions of Lovely glasses-wearing women" article ( http://www.afterellen.com/blog/thelinster/visions-of-loveliness-our-favo... )? :p
Anyhoo, I think the "group think" so-to-speak exists because she is a very outspoken LGBT rights supporter. I don't think there's any need to hate on our community's supporters, especially compared to, say, some New York Democrats who take money from gay people and groups and then vote against marriage for them. Having someone like her speak up for us is a big deal. Visibility! Also, it's not bad to like something popular. Being popular doesn't make a person objectively "bad."
That whole quote was actually:
"I'm not a feminist - I, I hail men, I love men. I celebrate American male culture, and beer, and bars and muscle cars..."
I think she's just saying that because men in general need emotional coddling; feminism freaks them out because, according to that philosophy, they are (gasp) not the center of the universe. And they can't handle that. Silly guys. Though the idea that beer, bars, and muscle car are solely the domains of men is wrong. But, hey, celebrities are not perfect. Nobody is.
I also don't think it's misogynistic of her to maybe enjoy casual sex, so long as she isn't stringing women along or something. There's this stigma that there's something "wrong" with women who enjoy sex, that they're sluts or something. There's nothing wrong with it. She is hardly "like any other misogynistic rock star."
All that said, the title of the article is technically inaccurate and doesn't reflect its content. Perhaps it ought to have been "Queer women get some love from EW" or maybe "Lesbians and bi women get some love from EW" or whatever.
Edit: I think the responses below me have good points also!
Crumbs always the crumbs
On the contrary, we soooo don't need anyone to speak for us. We need to be able to speak for ourselves. Giving that ability to celebrities is giving up power.
Perez Hilton isn't exactly the best representative of the gay community. He's a jerk. And Tila Tequila isn't playing with a full deck. We need not worship every celebrity that gives us the time of day. Nor do we need to like or support every queer person in the media.
It just seems to me that there's a double standard here. If a man said he likes fucking girls but not commitment he'd be called a misogynist. But here's a girl who says, I think pretty clearly, that she can separate love and sex and is apparently aware that she doesn't emotionally connect with women.
It's not all about how we view her for liking sex. There's nothing wrong with liking sex. But I do think LGB women are being willfully ignorant about how Lady Gaga views and treats women because she's giving us a little attention.
We're so easy, it's sad. "Oh yay, Lady Gaga is open enough that she'd fuck us." And so would Fergie of BEP and Amanda Palmer of Dresden Dolls. And people are surprised that lesbians are wary of dating bisexuals?
I like plenty of popular things. I just don't care for Lady Gaga. Her music is mediocre--even for pop it's mediocre. Her perfomance, while visually strange, doesn't say much. Every pop musician knows if they want to live forever, they just have to gain gay icon status and we'll carry them into their 70s.
There have been numerous gay icons that adore gay men--and only gay men. That's what she seems like to me.
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Not just "crumbs"
Lady Gaga was at the National Equality March in October. She gave a speech, put on a show. I don't really see that as crumbs. She puts her money where her mouth is. She uses her popularity for supporting LGBT rights. How are we giving up power by supporting her? I realize you don't like her, but she's on our side. I don't see any reason to hate on her, personally. And comparing her to people like Perez Hilton and Tila Tequila is silly; they're not out marching and giving speeches in support of us.
"And people are surprised that lesbians are wary of dating bisexuals?"
Yeah, but we are not dating her. We are actually more just judging her, you for her personal life and music, and me for her public stances and actions. Like I said, she is not perfect. I certainly would not sleep with her and/or date her (I guess I'm one of those "wary about bisexuals" lesbians). But, I am willing laud her for standing up for people like us. :)
I get a Margaret Cho vibe off of Lady Gaga
To me, people who have long-term relationships with men and cheap sex with women are the equivalent of people who cut steak with a spoon and eat soup with a knife.
I get a Margaret Cho vibe off of her. She seems to be more of a (pardon the expression) fag hag who supports LGBT rights and talks about hooking up with women, but seems more into gay men than gay women.
Although Reverend Fred Phelps is protesting her show so she must be doing something right. -)
Ha!
Interesting simile there. I like Lady Gaga's music to some extent, and I appreciate her stances and activism, though I do not obsessively follow as some friends seem to (not that there is anything wrong with that, of course). I just see no reason to hate on her for enjoying casual sex.
As for Fred Phelps, he is a clown. He protests everything for the sake of protesting it. But your point stands. :)
In those interviews, does she say...
I actually saw the interview
Lady Gaga and feminism
She later said she is a feminist.
"I'm getting the sense that you're a little bit of a feminist, like I am, which is good," she tells a reporter. "I find that men get away with saying a lot in this business, and that women get away with saying very little ... In my opinion, women need and want someone to look up to that they feel have the full sense of who they are, and says, `I'm great.'"
She could be talking out of both sides of her mouth, but I prefer to see it as her opinions possibly evolving and her becoming more comfortable with with the f-word as she becomes more comfortable with herself.
Certainly I get a bit of a feminist vibe from her music and videos.
I agree completely.
I'd have to say
I have 2 favorites this year, they are Jane Lynch and Wanda Sykes, they are both amazingly funny and such great actresses!
Lady Gaga's music will have to grow on me, I'm not much into it. Am I alone in that one?
Sue Sylvester Express
I'm so Late
Haha. i didn't know the Piper Perabo keyword was Imagine Me & You. I have yet to see that. I was thinking further back to Lost & Delirious.
Paulie & Victoria yo!
Shewired Gay Woman of the Year - Vote Lynch!
I can't believe that Jill Bennett and Cathy DeBuono are leading the pack with a 53% vote! NOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Yet Jane Lynch only gets 4% of the vote on the Shewired.com site???
What's with that?
Nash
www.brokenbarrel.ca
Please do not
Ethnic cleansing and genocide are not things we can afford to be politically neutral about. Would you support a website that champions queer Nazis or lesbian KKK? What is happening everyday in Gaza is pure evil, as are the Zionists responsible. Shewired supports and promotes that horror. AE is way better anyway!
shame on you
Chris Colfer!!!
As much as I lust after Shane, Chris Colfer/Kurt Hummel is the bomb!
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music and the deaf
Definitely a Lady Gaga fan here!
WTF?
I was just mentioning a poll I saw on another site re: Jane Lynch.
I don't know what you problem is, but shame on you for subjecting us to YOUR polictical views in such a vulgar way on this site.
Nash
www.brokenbarrel.ca
Tired of Shane
Yeah, Shane is out. In would be someone like lesbian comedian Wanda Sykes.
Also, Stunt Double, I found a number of mistakes in your blog post. Watch the spelling and grammar!
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