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Lesbian of the Decade: Ellen DeGeneres

You probably know by now that our brothers at AfterElton.com have been holding a Gay/Bi Man of the Decade contest. It started out as a reader poll that exploded onto Twitter when John Barrowman and Neil Patrick Harris asked their followers to vote for them. The competition snagged its own hash tag (#biggaybattle), drew in celebrity Tweeters from around the globe, and reached its climax (so to speak) when Neil Patrick Harris visited Jimmy Kimmel Live! to talk about his victory.

Many people have asked why we didn't hold our own contest at AfterEllen.com, and the simple answer is that while many noteworthy and newsworthy lesbians have impacted queer visibility over the last 10 years, there is really only one woman who deserves the title "Lesbian of the Decade." And that woman is Ellen DeGeneres.

Clockwise from top left: 2009 People's Choice Awards, 1997 Primetime Emmys, 2008 Teen Choice Awards, 2008 Daytime Emmys

The landscape of Ellen's life in 2010 is remarkable. She has won 11 People's Choice Awards and 12 Emmys. She has received critical acclaim for her hosting gigs on the most prestigious awards shows. She has become a bankable spokesperson, scoring international TV and print ads for American Express and Cover Girl.

In 2008, she married Portia de Rossi in a widely exalted ceremony, and the couple continues to rank high among favorite celebrity pairings. This year she will join the judging panel of American Idol, the most popular show on television. And every day, millions of people invite her into their living rooms as she dances with and interviews celebrities on The Ellen DeGeneres Show.

But ten years ago, no one could have predicted that Ellen would ring in the decade from a daytime TV throne at the right hand of Oprah.

In April 1997, Ellen came out on the cover of Time Magazine. Following the public declaration of her own sexuality, Ellen's character came out on her sitcom. The controversy and commendation surrounding the parallel stories propelled Ellen to ratings success — but only for a while.

Even though it won an Emmy for Outstanding Writing, Ellen couldn't maintain the momentum and it was canceled. Entertainment Weekly followed up Time's cover story with one of their own, featuring Ellen and the phrase "Yep, She's Too Gay."

After the sitcom's cancellation, Ellen couldn't find a job. In an interview with Oprah last year, Ellen said that she went through a three-year period of depression because she was running out of money, and networks wouldn't take a chance on her with a talk show. They didn't believe a lesbian could connect with a housewife.

It was during this time, in 2002, when Sarah Warn founded AfterEllen.com, naming the site after DeGeneres' sitcom so that gay women would remember the sacrifices Ellen made when she came out. No one anticipated a career resurgence. Not even us.

Then along came Nemo.

In 2003, Ellen became the voice of Dory, the always-forgetful, ever-lovable companion of Marlin the Clownfish in Pixar's Finding Nemo. In the climactic scene of the coming-of-age tale, Dory remembered "42 Wallaby Way, Sydney! 42 Wallaby Way, Sydney!" And suddenly the critics remembered Ellen DeGeneres.

The same year, Ellen finally scored her own talk show.

And that brings us back to 2010, the land of acclaim, magazine covers, trophies and matrimony.

Ellen DeGeneres is, without question, the most famous lesbian in the world. Every year GLAAD's research tells us one thing: Visibility Matters. The game-changer for LGBT equality is when people know someone who's gay. And people don't just know Ellen; they love Ellen.

It's something that occasionally surprises even her. Last year she told Oprah:

I'm all for really being who you are ... [but] I mean, being a comedian and trying to make people laugh and wanting people to like you and having that secret inside of "they're not going to laugh at me, they're not going to like me no matter how good of a person I am, if they found out I'm gay." That's a lot to carry around.

You know what else is a lot to carry around? An entire minority community. But Ellen has been carrying us for the last decade. At the very least, she's been paving our way — and paving the way for other lesbian celebrities to live as openly gay women.

Every time a celebrity leaves the closet, she opens the door a little wider, making it easier for the women who will come after her. For that, we honor all of the women who came out in the last decade. But they, like us, came after Ellen.

eyeheartu's picture

Amen

I totally and completely agree thax Ellen!
Georgie the Fembian. 's picture

So that's why the site is

So that's why the site is called After Ellen..

Ha, she's amazing, my idol :)

Cause you're so beautiful...Like a tree. Or a high class prostitute. You're so beautiful. You could be a part time model. But you'd probably still have to keep your normal job aswell.

Joey's picture

wow!

What a great tribute! And I totally agree, Ellen is the lesbian of the decade!
alien's picture

yep, she's great

well written, thanks heather
mildlypeeledpotatoes's picture

that seems pretty fair :)

that seems pretty fair :)
Danielle's picture

an amazin women

reading this actually brought a tear to my eye, its crazy to think that at the time she came out it was a way more homophobic decade compared to this last decade. it made me realise that the name of this site is very fitting to the great women who braved evrything to be who she is because after ellen most people werent afraid to come out which i think helped shape the past decade to be a step forward for gay people, and with her very successful career and love life it puts a great face for the straight people to see we are all the same :)

Ellen Degeneres is my hero and a legend :)

counter-to-leg's picture

She's an inspiration

Ellen is an inspiration to lesbians everywhere...our own real life super hero...we love her for all the sacrifices she made and delight in all her success. Thank you Ellen!and Sarah Warn.
Discoveries's picture

She's amazing

She so deserves this tribute!
Amy's picture

Couldn't have gone to anybody else..

Ellen is the only definitive contender for this title, she is amazing and an inspiration to all gays and lesbians around the world. She really deserves this - well done Ellen! :)

dis's picture

thanks ellen

most definetly fair!

thanks ellen for opening the way not only for celebs but for every1!

u rock!

dis =]

Erika's picture

Thank you, Ellen!

She wins, hands down, no competition

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"Great.  Not only do I feel creepy but now I look like I'm 1,000 and that I've been smoking meth all my life." -Sara Quin

Fiona Rae's picture

:: Fiona Rae :: Ellen

:: Fiona Rae ::

Ellen rocks! It's so hard to be out of the closet and I'm glad that there are people who are willing to be 'out and proud'!

"Every year GLAAD's research tells us one thing: Visibility Matters. The game-changer for LGBT equality is when people know someone who's gay. And people don't just know Ellen; they love Ellen."

This just totally hit the nail on the head!!! 

BAS's picture

so deserved

I agree that there's no need to hold a contest. It's great to have as many out women as we do (voting for favorite out woman on the poll a couple days ago was so hard!) but there's no question that this was Ellen's decade.
Erika's picture

Erika Hearts Ellen

a wonderfully written piece!  Ellen is such an inspiration and she goes about her life with such poise and grace and comedy.  To have her as a part of our community is a real pleasure and I'm honored to call her my sister.

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MeL's picture

Couldn't agree with you more

Great article! You sum up the reasons why only Ellen deserves this title so very well, I couldn't agree with you more.

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Enchanting Women | Bezaubernde Frauen - MeL's Blog

Anonymous's picture

Yes!

All I can say is: GOOD WRITING! AND SO TRUE! :)

 

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scorpio54's picture

Deceleration?

 Following the public deceleration of her own sexuality

'Declaration', surely. Can't disagree with the article, though.

A's picture

Ellen...

She is my idol.

I've been watching her since I was about 5 years old.

Simply amazing, definitely worthy of the title.

There aren't words to describe how much she means to so many of us :)

 

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A Muse's picture

totally agree. Ellen has and

totally agree. Ellen has and still is changing the world one person at a time just by being herself and a public person. I don't even want to imagine where the gay rights issue and society would be without her coming out and transforming into the world's most famous and likable lesbian. thank you Ellen!

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karlsson's picture

well, what can I say

I have been sparing me that for...5 days now, but this is the occasion to declare, once and for all: Hogan knows best.

 

I'm sorry. I had to. And Ellen is the greatest, of course.

Elysia's picture

Ellen <3!

Wonderfully articulate blog, couldn't agree more with everything said; we owe this woman so much. I hope she's proud to be at the forefront of the LGBT movement because I honestly can't think of any human being I'd rather have representing our community.

Love you Ellen :)!

negry31's picture

Thanks Ellen

Very deserving! Thank you Ellen.
fallon ash's picture

Indeed.

What a wonderful and well-deserved tribute. I couldn't agree more.
jamlawgirl's picture

I LOVE Ellen!!! I had the

I LOVE Ellen!!!

I had the hugest crush on Ellen forever.  Although I probably would no longer give up my life to marry her if she asked (like I pledged I would for many years), she still holds a very special place in my heart. What an amazing woman!!!

Shaw's picture

ellen <3

Yay Ellen! I can't wait for American Idol to start :]]
csea's picture

Ellen

Where would we be without Ellen?

Thank you Ellen!

VeloVelo's picture

A Proposal

DEAR AFTERELLEN STAFF:

 

I propose that you design a "thank you" card that AfterEllen readers can print, sign and mail to Ellen at the Ellen show in a display of thanks.

 

I think that would be in the spirit of 'Ellen,' as Ellen, to me, has become an adjective that describes a vivacious, courageous and honest lifestyle. 

 

Ellen: THANK YOU!! 

 

 

ElusiveJ's picture

I second this! I think

I second this!

I think this is a great opportunity for all of us to thank Ellen for making the world a better place in multitude of ways!

Danielle's picture

definitely....

i'm up for this :) wat a great idea xx
Femm's picture

I fourth this! That'd be

I fourth this! That'd be brilliant!
Sarah's picture

re: A Proposal

I really liked the idea of writing some sort of Thank You note.  I´ve been thinking about writing one myself but I thought it would be more effective (and might actually get to her) if it was sent from this site.  I am an actress myself and am lucky enough to be working in a time after Ellen came out. I think it is so huge that she came out when she did.

 

 

cooda's picture

Fabulous Idea

<ahref="That is a "Fabulous" Idea..... and by the way.. "That bra in your ass looks Fabulous". LMAO

Danielle's picture

haha

that is one my fave jokes on her begining DVD :)
Dannie Boi's picture

Completely Agree

I completely agree!
Leigh7's picture

First the decade...then the world!

Her new "World domination" resolution may be a joke, but if anyone can pull it off while making people laugh, Ellen definitely can.

Uniting the world through humor and dance is no easy task, but our Lesbian of the Decade does like a challenge.  :)

Thank you, Heather, for a great article. Ellen fully deserves every bit of praise for all she has done over the past 10 years, as well as the 10+ years before!

"Have a little fun today.."

Lesley Goldberg's picture

Thanks!

This was one of the best articles I've read on this site. Ever. Kudos to the author for a great piece that had loads of facts -- in addition to even more heart. There will never be another Ellen.

 

Vicky's picture

Great tribute!

Beautifully written and completely deserved!

Ellen, you're amazing =D

Scroll Lock's picture

Decade?

More like century....or lifetime. :)
pancreas's picture

Love to Ellen. She's the

Love to Ellen. She's the best spokesperson we could have asked for.
it_s_justme's picture

Absolutely

She is truly an amazing and inspiring woman.

 

Rhiannon's picture

One of my heros

absolutely true and an amazing article. I dont know where we would be without her. <3

Alliesaurus's picture

Awesome!

And very well-deserved, I'd say. She's an amazing woman.
Rocktoddy's picture

Still my hero

A decade ago Ellen and her sitcom were really one of the most important things that guided me through my young years; each and every time I post on the 'net I'm reminded of that, heh (see sn). Glad to see her being so on top of the world.

In the spirit of Harold Morgan: Thanks Elly!

 

 

carrie's picture

duh

who else would we pick?

 

i effin love her.

 

her and portia are my fav couple ever

hyp009's picture

I wonder...

I wonder if Ellen even knows that this site exists. Hm....

On another note, I wholeheartedly agree on this choice. There really is no comparison when it comes to Ellen.

shoveya's picture

this was a great article

this was a great article

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Nothing's picture

Has it only been 10 years?

It seems like such a long time ago that Ellen came out.  And, yet at the same time the past 10 years have gone by sooo fast.

Thank you Ellen for making it so much easier for lesbians everywhere to be accepted for who they are. 

rainbowshy's picture

yeah how about that card?

I'll sign it too! then Karmen will print the 100x100 ft. card and mail it to the studio or something?

*clicks pen* to Ellen, your my hero, (portia's cool too, so she doesn't feel left out)  i remember watching a little of your sitcom especially when you came out. i was maybe the only one who didn't make a huge deal out of it, i mostly just remember the tabloids, and i was only in the 4th grade. I've known you were awesome and funny since then and it's good that you help other celebrities that come out and tell people whenever homophobic hate crimes happen that being gay is o.k. we don't know where we'd be without you, your much loved.-end note. 

very well put story about her Heather

Luna's picture

amazing cuz...

Ellen is the reason why I am soooo comfortable being out.

I LOVE this woman. She is amazing. She is funny. And even though my mother doesn't agree with me over issues of sexuality, she LOVES Ellen. And anyone who can be an out and open lesbian and still earn the complete audienceship, dedication, and respect of my mother deserves every accolade that exists on this planet. 

Kat's picture

Ellen for the epic win!

Thank you Heather for this great tribute. Ellen truly deserves it.

I remember when my grandma was still alive, my mom and I were trying to figure out whether I should come out to her, and when we noticed that she liked Ellen, we knew that was a good sign. I never got the chance to come out to her, but because of Ellen and some other positive signs, it might have been just a bit easier if I had got the chance.